One of my favorite sayings is that happiness is the best cosmetic for beauty. And one of the best ways I know to be happy is to take great care of yourself by exercising, eating right, sleeping enough, and drinking plenty of water. Honestly, the healthier you are, the better and prettier you’ll look and feel.
I practice what I preach. On days when I’ve taken a spinning class, polished off a CamelBak of cold water, and fueled up on a big salad topped by fresh fish, I’m unstoppable. But I wasn’t always such a fitness and nutritional nut. When I was a teen, I thought sugar was one of the major food groups, and the only way you would catch me running was if it was away from gym class. It took me a long time to change my habits, but I’m so glad I did because I’ve never felt better. So even if you are a fast-food fanatic or have never stepped on a treadmill, there’s a way to start.
Taking care of your body increases your energy and brainpower so that tasks like homework are easier to perform. A healthy lifestyle will show on the outside but the most amazing product of your new beauty regimen is how incredible you will feel on the inside.
I have watched my weight my whole life. When I was a teen, I didn’t accept my body type. I wanted to be taller, skinnier, someone else. So I tried to change with a bunch of fad diets. I tortured myself drinking stuff such as apple cider vinegar and cod-liver oil. Save yourself time, money, suffering, and pounds. Yes, pounds. Fad diets not only don’t work but they can add more weight after you come off them. It took me a while to get it, but all you need to do is eat simple, wholesome foods and give up trying to look like you stepped out of a magazine. It has been a positive thing for me to eat healthy. Food really affects mood. The better you eat, the easier it is to deal with everything from homework to emotions to parents. So, love food and love yourself.
I don’t expect anyone to change overnight. It’s really about learning better eating habits and making small steps. If you are just starting out, try one of these suggestions. See how it makes you feel, and hopefully you’ll be inspired to make more changes.
AVOID FRIED FOODS. There are so many kinds of food out there; you won’t go hungry if you avoid those that are fried.
BRING LUNCH TO SCHOOL. When you make food yourself, it is mostly always more nutritious than if you buy it. Brown-bagging it takes a little more effort, but it will pay off in the long run.
REPLACE THE MAYONNAISE. On your favorite sandwich, use a really good French mustard, and try a great crisp green apple for dessert. You won’t sacrifice in flavor what you give up in fat.
SKIP THE SODA. Replace all those empty calories with thirst-quenching water. If you crave the carbonation, try a flavored sparkling water.
It’s taken years of experience for me to learn the right eating choices. If I look at a piece of cake or a rich cookie, I still want to eat it. I know, though, I won’t feel good after I do. So I’ll skip it. The more you eat healthy foods, the more you’ll crave them (although when I walk into my Aunt Alice’s house, there’s nothing that will keep me from eating one, or three, of her famous toffee squares). When it comes to the topic of nutrition, you can quickly drive yourself crazy with information about food that’s constantly changing in magazines or on TV. But if you follow a few core principles, you’ll be eating right in no time.
EAT TONS OF VEGGIES AND LOTS OF FRUIT: This food group should actually be the bulk of your diet. At any meal, look at your plate and see what’s taking up the most room. Is it a big green salad with chicken on top? (Great!) Or is it a burger and fries with nothing green in sight? (Not so great.) Aim for a lot of color—yellow corn, red peppers, green broccoli, blueberries. You get the idea.
EAT WHOLE GRAINS: This essential food group not only gives you a lot of energy but is low in fat and delivers many important nutrients. It also tastes way better than the white stuff once you switch over. Whole grain means that both the inside and outer covering of the grain—such as wheat—is part of the food. Processed flours don’t have the outer covering, which makes food like white bread a lot lighter, and a lot less nutritious. Try to eat whole-grain versions of bread, pasta, and cereal whenever you can. If you want to get adventurous, branch out and try less-common grains like wild rice, buckwheat, bulgur, or barley (I love quinoa).
EAT LEAN PROTEIN: Opt for chicken, fish, or pork. Beans, nuts, and tofu are also great ways to get proteins, which are part of every cell in our bodies. The protein in our body is constantly being broken down and needs to be replaced by protein we eat. Eggs, cheese, and red meat, which are higher in saturated fat, are fine in moderation.
Junk food is more than just candy bars and fast-food burgers. Some foods, like certain cereals, bread, or even nutrition bars, seem like they are good for you. But actually they are filled with processed ingredients, chemicals, and hidden calories. I don’t care what the package looks like or what the ad says; the only way to know what you are eating is to read the ingredients on the label.
AVOID FOODS THAT HAVE A VERY LONG LIST OF INGREDIENTS WITH NAMES YOU DON’T RECOGNIZE OR CAN’T PRONOUNCE. When my kids wanted cookies and the really nutritious stuff wouldn’t do, I bought them Walkers from England because they have only three ingredients: sugar, wheat, and butter. Those aren’t exactly health food, and they do have sugar, but I also know what the ingredients are. Foods with more than five ingredients (especially if you have no idea what they are) are most likely highly processed and filled with chemicals.
STAY AWAY FROM HIGH-FRUCTOSE CORN SYRUP. This is hard because the sweetener is found in everything from soda to bread to ketchup. It is so common because it extends the shelf life of processed foods and is inexpensive. The problem is that most processed foods made with high-fructose corn syrup are high in calories and low in nutritional value.
ENRICHED FLOUR IS NOT A WHOLE GRAIN. When flour is enriched, it has been processed, and some nutrients and vitamins are added later. It’s much better to eat foods with whole grains (look for the word whole on the package, and make sure it appears early in the ingredient list).
It’s fine to eat what you love, even if it’s not terrific for you, as long as you keep it to a low percentage. When it comes to eating, I now eat 90 percent good and 10 percent not so good. It wasn’t always this way. As a kid, my junk-food percentage was way higher.
You have to eat what you love or else you will feel deprived and want those things even more. Plus, fries, cake, and cookies are all delicious. My food of choice is definitely pizza. But I order the thinner, crispier kind with veggies, and I don’t do it every day.
When I indulge, I make sure it counts. I love french fries, but they have to be really, really good. If it’s some fat, overcooked potato, forget it. When I travel to Paris for work, I will eat delicious buttery croissants and Brie cheese. When you are treating yourself, go for high quality and enjoy. The message is: Think before you eat, go slowly, and stop a bit before you’re full (it really takes twenty minutes for the body to register feelings of satiety).
Drinking water is essential to being healthy. We are made up of mostly water (on average, 60 percent of your body weight is water). It also brings important nutrients into our cells and flushes bad toxins out. Yes, those are the vital stats. But from a beauty expert’s perspective, staying hydrated simply makes skin look great. It gives your face a dewy, glowing appearance, and your eyes will be clearer. Plus, when you down a lot of H2O, you have more energy and your brain works better.
If you aren’t big into water, try what I do when I’m not in the mood to drink plain water. I add a splash of cranberry juice (without sugar), a touch of lemon, or even a hint of lemonade. A bit of flavor makes water go down easier. In my studio, we always have a big glass pitcher filled with water flavored by cucumber slices. It is so delicious and refreshing.
HOW MUCH YOU SHOULD DRINK: You need to replenish the water you lose naturally through normal body functions such as breathing, sweating, and going to the bathroom. While everyone’s body is a little different, a good goal is to drink eight 8-ounce glasses of water a day. You lose even more water when you exercise or it’s really hot out. Another good rule to follow is to drink enough so that you never get thirsty. By the time you feel thirsty, you are already mildly dehydrated.
DRINK UP: It can be hard to remember to drink enough water. I like to carry a bottle around with me so that hydration is never far away. A good policy is to drink at least a glass before you exercise and one after. I also like to drink a glass before I eat. Sometimes when you think you are hungry, you are actually thirsty. When it’s cold, you will always find me with a reusable Thermos filled with peppermint or chamomile tea. As long as the tea is herbal, it counts.
THE GREAT BOTTLE DEBATE: There’s a time and a place for bottled water. But bottled water is really bad for the environment. Not only does it take energy and resources to make plastic bottles, a lot of them also wind up in landfills. Go green by getting a reusable drinking bottle that you can refill with cooler or filtered tap water. My favorite kind is made by CamelBak because it has a built-in straw—which a nutritionist told me allows you drink more water faster. There are also aluminum reusable bottles in all kinds of great colors that keep water cool during your day.
I was the kid who always got notes to get out of gym class. Field hockey was big back then. Hated it. I didn’t like swimming, running, or anything that made me sweat. It wasn’t until I got to college—when I wanted to lose weight without starving myself—that I really started exercising. What I found was similar to eating right. The more I worked out, the more I loved and needed it. Now sports are my passion. I exercise to be healthy and for fun. Whether it’s running or doing downward dog in yoga, moving makes me feel good, reduces stress, opens up my mind, and allows me to be more creative.
Are you the person who is always picked last for any team? Don’t be embarrassed—I was too. That doesn’t mean you can’t get your blood pumping. Exercising can be a simple, equipment-free experience. Resolve to walk at a pace that gets your heart rate up for fifteen minutes, three times a week. After a couple of weeks, add five minutes on to your walk. Keep it up and see how far you go.
PUT IT ON YOUR CALENDAR: This is pretty basic, but you have to make time for exercise. Include it as part of your regular schedule, just like doing homework or making plans with friends. Even on days when you don’t have time to go to the gym or take a class, sneak in a little physical activity. Walk up the stairs instead of taking an elevator or have your parents drop you off a little farther. It all adds up.
FIND YOUR STYLE: There are so many different ways to exercise. Open up the gym doors and free your inner athlete. For me a typical week includes spinning, weight training, running, walking, and yoga. But there are so many other activities like skateboarding, jumping rope, dancing, or hiking. Do what inspires you and you’ll have a better chance of sticking to it.
HAVE FUN: Even if you’ve found a sport you are passionate about be open to trying new things. Changing your exercise routine keeps you from becoming bored. It also keeps your body from hitting a plateau by using different muscle groups. Great music will liven up any workout. Make playlists with songs that will get you pumped. Some people are inspired by cute workout clothes. One of my favorite things to do is work out with a friend or my family. I can’t always chat (especially if I’m out of breath), but it’s nice to be active together.