Butthole

We were watching a film, cuddled up on the couch, when he first asked if he could—maybe, possibly, someday—fuck me in the ass. I thought at first that he was joking. Nobody wants to do that. Not really. I know that one of my friends did it, and she said it was disgusting. And I’ve heard that it’s pretty dangerous. Sigrún’s mom is a nurse, and she’s told her horror stories about teenage girls who come into the emergency room with torn sphincters because of rough anal. They have to wear diapers for the rest of their lives because they have no control over their bowel movements; the shit just spills out. I understand that gay men make do with their situation by penetrating each other, but straight men with healthy women in their beds—women who have vaginas, mouths, and hands—should really count their blessings.