12 In the Lap of Luxury

This intimate and sexy position will surely bring you closer, both emotionally and sexually.

The Sexy Setup

Tell your lover you’re in need of some full frontal nudity and contact, so be prepared for connecting your skin at every possible point. What’s more, you’ll do all the work while sitting on his lap.

Rules & Tools

All of these positions are done with both of you facing each other, so there’s plenty of opportunity for making eye contact, licking his nipples, or having him fondle your breasts.

Playing the Game

Sweet and safe: Undress your lover in a slow and sensuous manner, then have him remove your clothing, all the while kissing your neck and breasts and rubbing his hands up and down your backside. Once you’re both hot and wet, ask your lover to sit cross-legged. You should sit down on his lap, facing him, while inserting his penis into your vagina. Straddle his legs and wrap your legs around his back, then rub the front of your bodies together while you experience the sensations of shallow but tight penetration.

Hot and spicy: Lean back with one arm and hook one leg over his shoulder to change the angle of penetration, or slowly lean both arms backward, exposing your breasts for fondling or your clitoris for stimulation.

Up the Ante

• Ask your lover to stretch out his legs while you sit or lean back. To deepen the penetration, rest your legs on your partner’s shoulders instead of wrapping them around his waist and lean back on your arms. For a sexy variation on this position that gives him full view of your naked torso, lie completely down on your back and lock your ankles behind his neck.