15 Sit on My Face

Come sit on my face—who hasn’t heard that enticing line? Now you can turn it into a game that’s sure to keep her coming back for more!

The Sexy Setup

Tell your lover you have a game where she gets to sit—right on the pleasure dome (your mouth)!

Rules & Tools

If you’re not on a bed or other soft surface, put a blanket or pillow under her knees. Explain to her that she’s in control—while you’re there to pleasure her orally, she can control the intensity by moving up and down on your tongue. If she needs something to hold on to, position yourselves so she can lean her hands against the wall or hold on to the swing (as shown). For the hot and spicy version of the game, keep a butt plug or other anal device nearby.

Playing the Game

Sweet and safe: Have your lover kneel above your face, facing you, while you explore every inch of what’s right in front of you. Start by kissing her inner thighs and taking in the smell and taste of her vulva. Give her genitals long, slow, and wet kisses, then introduce your tongue for exploring her labia, crevices, and clitoris. Find a rhythm she likes and bring her to a mind-blowing orgasm!

Hot and spicy: Have your lover kneel above your face, facing away from you, while you explore her genitals and backside. Use the same techniques as above, but don’t restrict your kisses and tongue exploration to her labia and clitoris; run your tongue from her vagina to her anus and back again, all the while gently massing her buttocks. Put a finger or two inside her vagina and play with her G-spot, or introduce a butt plug or other anal device and insert that for triple stimulation!

Up the Ante

• Swap roles: Have her lie down, then kneel in front of her so your penis is right in front of her mouth (she may need a pillow or two to get the angle right). Have her hold your penis with one hand and explore your backside with the other; she might fondle your testicles, insert a finger into your anus, or just lightly trace her fingertips along your perineum.