Chapter Twelve

THERAPY

I sat next to Maya on a couch in the therapist’s office. Out the window, on a turf field, tiny girls in blue and white uniforms played soccer in the Indian summer sun. Calder slumped in a chair near the therapist’s desk, an awkward arrangement. I could see why Maya might be invited into the first few minutes of Calder's sessions, but her attendance during the entire session had been going on for a month now.

“Do you like to play chess, Calder?” Mr. Ettinger, the therapist, asked. Calder made no reply as he sat cross-legged in the round swivel chair, picking at one of his shoelaces.

“Is there another game you like to play?” Still no reply from Calder. Maya breathed heavily. This guy wasn’t getting through to Calder whatsoever.

“Uh, he likes computer games...” Maya tried to throw this guy a life raft, but in my book, he had already drowned. At the end of the session, Calder waited outside in the waiting room while Maya and the therapist spoke alone.

“I want to suggest that we try Calder on some meds. I know he’s young, but they may help him to rewire his brain. I think they may help with the depression and the anxiety.”

No way my son is going on meds, buddy.

“Meds? Like what kind of meds?”

“Something like Prozac. Prozac helps increase the levels of serotonin in the brain. It’s possible the trauma of his father’s death altered Calder's brain chemistry to a point where he’s becoming wired for depression. The serotonin may help to reverse that trend. Give him a sense of what being happier feels like, perhaps giving him a little more control of his emotions.”

“But he’s so young.”

“He is young. We would just try it for a while and see how it goes. I’m not thinking it will be a long term solution. I admit there is very little research that’s been done on the effects of these SSRIs on the brains of children, but I’ve seen some great outcomes with many of my patients.”

“So you think Calder's depressed?”

“I think he’s in grief, and grief can bring on depression and anxiety in anyone, including children. From what I’ve observed, he seems withdrawn, prone to tears, easily frustrated, and from what you’ve told me, he’s somewhat hyperactive at home and destructive to himself with the skateboarding. You’ve also told me how difficult it is for you to leave him at school or with a babysitter.”

“Impossible, yeah...” Maya reached over and pulled a Kleenex from the box and wiped her eyes. “I just don’t know what to do anymore.”

“Those are all symptoms that could be helped with a medication like Prozac. I’m suggesting we try him on a low dose and see how he does. If there’s no change, we can try something else.”

“I just worry about what meds could do to his developing brain.”

“Maybe take some time to think about it, do a little research, and we can talk again during the next session.”

In the car on the way home, Calder started crying. A sudden gust of wind blew a flurry of fallen leaves across the windshield as the autumn sky turned an ominous color with the threat of rain. A murder of crows flew overhead.

“Why do I have to go to dumb therapy? I hate that guy! He’s stupid!”

“He’s not stupid, Cald.”

“All he does is ask me dumb questions about what games I play or who my friends are and stuff.”

“I know it’s hard to understand, sweetie, but I think you should keep going, at least for a little while longer.”

“Noooooo! I hate therapy! I hate my life!”

Calder's right, Lenie. The guy’s a crock. What kind of therapist has a mom sit in on every session? Calder's not going to open up with you sitting there. And meds? That’s bullshit. He just doesn’t want to do any real work. Find another therapist, Maya.

“Do you want to get a Dick’s burger for dinner?”

Calder wiped his face with the back of his hand. “Do I still have to go to a therapist?”

“I don’t know. Let’s talk about it again later.”

“K. Can I get a cheeseburger? And a chocolate shake?”

I wished I could go with them. Taste that gooey burger with its fake orange cheese, juices squirting as I took a bite...

“Having fun fantasizing?” Alice smirked at me. “You’re just making it harder for yourself, you know. Clinging to human desires.”

“I can’t help it. I miss my desires. I miss Dick’s burgers.”

“Not my thing. I’d prefer a sliver of foie gras on a cracker with an excellent Merlot.”

“You are a mystery, Alice. Who are you really?”

“If you must know, in one of my lives, I was quite aristocratic. I got used to the finer things, you might say.”

“The mystery deepens. Why were you assigned to me?”

“We were paired because we could challenge one another. We have a lot we can teach each other.”

“I’m learning from you, that’s for sure. But what could you possibly be learning from me?”

“Besides patience?” Alice smirked, showing a small dimple in her right cheek that I hadn’t noticed before.

“Hey!”

“I’m learning to have fun.”

“You have a sly sense of humor, Alice.”

“Thank you, Jay. You’re teaching me that a sense of humor can have a place in the spirit world. You’ve helped me see the positive qualities of being human. My focus until I met you was about trying to extricate the human qualities from the spirit. In my work with you, I am beginning to see that the two can never truly be separated. Human and spirit must coexist even in this realm. I see there are benefits to being in touch with your humanness as a spirit, just as there are benefits to being in touch with one’s spirituality as a human.”

“I’m glad my failings as a spirit can help you out.”

“No, Jay, that’s not what I–”

“I’m kidding, Alice. I get what you mean. And I think you’re right. No spirit can completely lose their humanness.”

“Indeed, humans are flawed. A human is driven by an ego that’s represented by the human body. The ego cloaks a human’s True Self, that expanse that can’t be seen, the expanse you are now discovering. An ego is like the tiny tip of an iceberg that’s visible above the surface of the water, but the True Self is the mountain of ice that hides beneath.”

“Nice analogy,” I said, eliciting a smile from Alice.

“Thank you. I’m glad you understand. But enough about me. How are you coming along with Calder?”

“Not great, I’m afraid. The therapist has been a flop. He wants to put my son on anti-anxiety meds.”

“How do you feel about that?”

“It’s a complete crock. Meds are the last thing Calder needs.”

“Why are you so certain of that?”

“Because they could alter his brain chemistry. Meds feed the body, not the spirit. Isn’t that what we’ve just been talking about with all that ego stuff?”

“You are right, Jay, of course, but humans alter their brain chemistry on a daily basis.”

“It doesn’t mean my son should. He’s just a kid.”

“So a baby cold medicine is OK, but an SSRI is not?”

“No. Well. A baby cold medicine is harmless. ”

“Is it?”

“OK, Alice, you’ve made your point. But Maya could be doing more. Like not giving into Calder so much and finding a better therapist.”

“Maya's in grief, Jay. Having the presence of mind for dealing with a difficult child right now is not easy for her. And besides, have you forgotten your own experience with therapists?”

The floor did its disappearing act and I found myself at old Dr. Al’s office, a room infused with the aroma of old men, cigars, and urine. I leaned back in the tattered leather chair, my long, teenaged legs sprawled out in front of me as I pretended to sleep.

“There are many opportunities for you to sleep, Mr. Cavor. This is not one of them. Your mother is paying me good, hard-earned money for you to come see me each week.”

“Yeah, well I wish she wouldn’t bother. It’s a waste of time.”

“What makes you say that?”

“All we do is sit here and talk about dumb stuff.”

“What would you prefer to talk about?”

“Anything but my dead dad.”

“OK. Name it.”

“Uh. I can’t really think of anything right now.”

“Sports?”

“Nah.”

“Girls?”

“No.”

“Your mom?”

“God, no.”

I guess old Dr. Al finally admitted to my mom that he wasn’t getting anywhere with me, and I stopped going. My mom and I both slid into a complacency around my dad’s death. We didn’t speak of it much, which seemed to suit us both fine.

“Another therapist might help,” Alice said, popping me out of the memory, “but don’t dismiss the use of medication. It could possibly help Calder. And don’t forget you have the ability to help him too.”

“How?”

“Talk to him.”

“Alice, I know you’re all into this human-as-spirit thing, but I’m not sure my ghostly conversations with Calder are getting through to him.”

“Oh, Jay, you must have more faith in yourself.”

“I’m just not sure he remembers our conversations. And I wish I could talk with Maya in the same way.”

“He remembers on a subconscious level if not a conscious one. The child’s mind can still very much access this realm. It’s sad that humans lose that ability to see and hear us as they get older.”

“Yeah. I hope you’re right about Calder.”

“I am all knowing, Jay. ”

This time it was my turn to laugh. “See, you have an excellent sense of humor!” Then, with a twinkle of light, she was gone.

***

I don’t know what compelled me to turn my attention to Calder at that particular moment. He was at the school playground with Maya who was distracted, talking with one of the other moms. Calder and another kid his age were practicing their “ollies”, a sort of skateboard flip, at the bottom of a wheelchair ramp that led up the entrance of the school, which was perched on a hill. Beside the ramp, there was a wide, steep set of steps up to the ornate front doors. Because of the height of the incline, the wheelchair ramp was unusually long and made two hairpin turns as it made its way down to the playground. High school kids often tested their skateboard skills there by attempting to ride down the entire ramp. It was notoriously dangerous, with quite a few wipeouts ending in visits to the ER. Calder was strictly forbidden to skateboard on the upper levels of the ramp. Lately, he’d been testing his limits with Maya and running up to try and skate with the older boys who usually made him just watch until Maya found him and marched him home. On this day, the ramp was deserted and I saw Calder look over at his mother and whisper to his friend. They picked up their skateboards and, with a last furtive glance at their moms, ran to the top. For once, none of the high school kids were around and so there were no obstacles stopping them from what they were about to do. At the top of the ramp, Calder dropped his board and stood for a moment with one foot on it.

“That’s scary, dude,” the other kid said. “I can’t go down that.”

“Why? Are you a chicken?” Calder taunted.

“No! I just don’t want to die,” the kid said.

“Well, I don’t care if I die,” Calder said.

He stood, rolling the skateboard back and forth with his foot. He seemed to be deciding whether or not to go.

Don’t do it, Cald.

“I’m gonna do it!” he said suddenly, as he pushed off. He rolled down the first ramp, slowly at first, picking up speed as he came into the first curve. He managed a wobbly turn around the bend, steadying himself on the handrail, but picked up more speed along the straightaway. The second ramp was longer and the curve was backed by a brick wall. If he continued and didn’t make the next turn, he would slam into the wall. If he did make it, the ramp ended in a sidewalk which opened onto the park’s busy parking lot where he could go hurling into parked cars. It wouldn’t be a good outcome, no matter what happened. He was going too fast and I expected him to jump off the board at any second, but a determined look came over his face. A part of me was proud of him in that moment. You had to admire the kid’s courage. Just then, Maya looked up and screamed, startling him. He tilted sideways and scraped his shoulder against the side wall of the ramp as his body flew into the air.

I instinctively tried to block him from slamming his head into the wall. A white flash of light hit him in the chest causing him to rotate slightly in the air so he slammed into the wall with his shoulder instead of the full force of his head. There was a loud crack, and he crumpled to the ground. His skateboard bounced against the wall like a pinball and carried on down the ramp without him.

Maya arrived, crying, “Oh God. Oh God, Calder!!” He lay on the ground moaning. The other mother was already on her cell phone dialing 9-1-1. Maya tried to cover him with a jacket, but he moaned louder and so she took it off. Both mothers knew not to try and move him.

The sirens grew louder and soon three firemen climbed out of a fire truck and came over. One of them kneeled beside Calder while the other two talked with Maya quietly close by. Calder was dazed, and seemed to be in a fair amount of pain. Sarah’s face was white and her hands shook.

“What’s your name, kid?”

“Calder,” he whispered.

“OK, Calder, the firefighter replied. “We’re going to help you. Where does it hurt?”

“My shoulder.”

“OK. We’ll be careful then.” The firefighter eased Calder’s helmet off his head to more moans and felt the back of his head and neck. “Can you wiggle your fingers and toes?”

Calder complied and Maya breathed a sigh of relief.

“You may have broken your collar bone, Calder, but we’ll get you to the hospital so they can take some X-rays. Sound good?”

Calder nodded, his expression serious, and I could tell he was on the verge of tears. As the firefighter checked Calder’s vitals he asked, “So how’d you get yourself into this mess? Your mom says you tried to skateboard all the way down that ramp?”

“Yeah, I guess.”

Maya was crouched down beside the firefighter. “Why would you do that, Calder? You know it’s dangerous. And I’ve forbidden you to skateboard here. You could have died,” she said.

“I wanted to die.” Calder looked at her, his expression hard.

“Hey, hey now. Why would you want to die?” the firefighter asked.

“So I could go and see my dad.” The firefighter looked up at Maya, surprised. Maya looked stricken and then started to cry. Only then did I realize how serious things with Calder had become.

Later that night I visited Calder as he drifted off to a medicated sleep.

Calder?

Mmm.

Quite a day.

Yeah.

Not a brilliant move, dude.

Maybe not.

Did you really want to die?

I don’t know. Kind of. I want to be with you.

It’s not your time yet, Beano.

Why not? It wasn’t your time yet, was it?

Good point. I didn’t think so, but it’s not something any of us have any control over. For some reason, it was my time.

I hate my life.

It will get better. My dad died when I was young too, remember. I should know. If you die now, think of all the good stuff you’d miss.

Like dumb school?

No. Like fishing in the summer with grampa or growing up and getting married and having a baby.

I don’t like girls. They’re gross.

They won’t always be gross. Someday you’ll want to kiss one.

Eeww.

Haha. See all the great stuff you’d miss if you died?

But I’d be with you.

You’ll be with me soon enough. Take your time buddy and enjoy this life.

I don’t know how.

That therapist can help with that.

No.

You need to try and stick with it.

Why?

Because talking about my death will help.

It’s stupid. It doesn’t help at all. Under his eyelids, Calder's eyes were dancing their REM dance. His brain waves were in a Theta state, that state of consciousness that makes a human mind most accessible to the spirit realm.

I used to think the same thing. But now I wish I had stuck with it.

You do?

Yeah. If I had, I think I would have been a better dad to you. I wouldn’t have tried to push away the sadness I had when my dad died.

I don’t want to be sad. I want to be a happy person.

I know, buddy. We all do. I did too. But sometimes you have to let yourself be sad. It’s OK. You won’t break.

Are you sad that you died?

Of course. It was a stupid accident. And I miss you and your mom. But things here aren’t so bad.

Did it hurt to die?

I didn’t feel it. It was fast.

That’s good.

It’s so different over here. How I died doesn’t really matter anymore. We’re still growing and changing.

Do you have a body? Calder's breathing deepened as he slipped into a Delta wave state of sleep consciousness.

No. Not really.

What do you do there?

I’m growing up still. I’m learning how to be a better father to you.

But you’re dead. How can you still be my dad?

In lots of ways. Like talking to you the way I am now. I love you,

Beano.

I love you too, Daddy.

***

“The therapist wants to put Calder on meds,” Maya said, twisting a curl of hair around her finger and biting her lip, waiting for the reaction of the others. She was at Molly’s house, another widowed mom in the grief support group that met once a month in each other’s homes. The women gathered around Molly’s living room – Maya on the couch, Molly, dwarfed by her oversized denim-covered chair, Kristie in a wicker rocker dragged in from the porch, and Chelsea on her knees near the coffee table, her back warmed by a fire in the fireplace that warded off a late November chill, with her cup of tea perched near a large plate of homemade peanut butter cookies. Of course, unbeknown to our wives, us dead husbands were there with them. Participating in these groups had become a habit for all of us, the dead and the living. When the group of widows began meeting, the husbands remained in the distance, held off by a strange mixture of regret and sadness. But the energy this group of women exuded as they talked drew us in. We became more substantive in our presence. I was able to make out a few of the human features of each husband and we developed a sort of camaraderie between us. I sat beside Maya on the couch.

“Really? He seems so young. Do you think it’ll help?”

Chelsea asked, looking concerned. “Are things really that bad with him?”

“Temper tantrums, throwing things, breaking his toys, then the skateboarding accident.”

“How’s he doing after that?” Kristie asked.

“Oh, he’s fine. He spent a few days lying around the house, but now he just wears the brace around his shoulder and he’s fine. He’s back at school.”

“That must have been so scary!” Molly said.

“Yeah. He actually told the fireman that he wanted to die,” Maya said, her eyes filling with tears.

“Oh God!” Molly said.

“Yeah. He keeps saying how much he hates his life. It’s awful. I can’t leave him with a babysitter without him freaking out and he’s obsessed about me not being late to pick him up at school.” Maya swallowed back her tears, took a deep breath and closed her eyes for a moment.

“Wow! Sounds intense,” Chelsea said. “Tatiana can be difficult, but nothing like that.”

“I know. It’s a little extreme for an eight-year-old, right? I always thought people who put their kids on meds were copping out or something, but I’m starting to get it,” Maya said as she bit her lip.

“It’s not copping out. Not at all, honey,” Kristie said.

“So you think I should try the meds?” Maya looked around at her friends, imploring them to help her with the decision.

I get it Lenie, but try and find another way. Meds aren’t the answer! How could the woman who made her own baby food want to put our child on anti-depressants?

“It can’t hurt to try, can it?” Molly interjected.

What is wrong with our wives? I looked at Declan, Molly’s husband, for backup.

Don’t look at me. I agree with them. What’s the harm?

I just think there are alternatives to putting a kid on medication for something like grief.

But isn’t this a little more than just grief? The kid tried to kill himself on a skateboard. Maybe the grief is a precursor to depression. Your son seems to be having a pretty rough time. Have you forgotten that he also pulled a knife out of a drawer and asked his mom to kill him? If that’s not a cry for help, I don’t know what is. I think it’s more than just grief. Declan had a point.

You can’t blame the kid for wanting to be with his dad. Seems like a pretty normal kid thing to me. I don’t think it means he’s suicidal. I’m actually impressed by his creativity and touched that he wants to be with me so badly.

A little human of you, don’t you think, Jay? Ben’s thought was clear. Ben, Kristie’s husband, had been here the longest. He seemed to get a kick out of pointing out one’s human traits, which I found hypocritical, given that it seemed like a pretty human thing to do. In life, Ben had been an extreme athlete and very particular about taking care of his body. Despite his healthy lifestyle, he dropped dead of a heart attack during a marathon. Even the kind of diligence that keeps a human body healthy is no guarantee that a body will last you through old age. I could understand his resentment towards one’s humanness.

Human? Do you mean egotistical? It may be, but I think it’s human nature for a child to want to be with his father, I replied.

You seem pretty convinced that Maya is wrong about this, Declan said.

I just don’t like the idea of my son having his brain chemistry altered.

Fair enough, but don’t you think your wife deserves your support? Ben asked.

Yeah, of course I want to support Maya, but that doesn’t mean I have to agree with her, does it?

Ben seemed to shrug.

“God, this is hard. I wish I weren’t doing it alone.” Maya sighed as she spoke.

“Yeah, the alone part sucks,” Kristie said.

Ben looked at his wife. His light blue aura dulled somewhat by her comment, but I read no thoughts from him. I wish they could see what we see. Ben’s thought permeated the air around us.

What can we see? I responded. I sort of knew what he meant, but I wanted to hear it from him.

That the experiences we have on Earth are what shape us, the hard experiences in particular. This culture of medicating is unnecessary. Ben sounded resolute.

But there are cases where medication is helpful and can positively change neurological synapses in the brain to influence behavior. If the technology is there... Declan, the scientist, threw in his two cents.

I was no doubt emotionally invested in my son’s wellbeing, but it seemed to me that Calder would emerge from this period of troubling behavior and turn out to be perfectly normal. Without meds.

But what about the toll that would take? On your son, on Maya? Declan asked. What if the meds could just be for a little while, to help Calder over his black moods and to help him know what being happy feels like? He can always go off them if it doesn’t seem to be working.

Yeah, but having those chemicals passing through Calder's brain concerns me. We’ve all seen the effects of drugs on the human body. Drug addicts lose their connection to this realm completely. They become so immersed in their human bodies that they can’t retain any spiritual resonance at all, I said.

Do they? Or are addicts trying to escape their human bodies, maybe trying to find their way here through drugs? What is it? Are you frightened of losing your connection with your son if he goes onto meds? Declan asked.

I could see my own aura glow with truth. Impossible to hide one’s truth in this realm. Was my concern for Calder's brain really my objection to the meds? Or the fear that I would lose my late night talks with Calder, that meds would block his mind from me?

I’m with you, Jay. Declan’s thought exuded warmth. You don’t know the effect those meds will have on Calder's mind, but you might not be able to dissuade Maya from taking this step. She’s trying to help Calder and she’s a desperate mom. You might need to simply support her.

Yeah. I see your point. I guess I can try.

“Thanks guys,” Maya said, smiling. “I feel a little better knowing I have your support. I’m so glad for this group.”

“Me too!” Molly said as she got up from her chair. “Does anyone want a glass of ‘widow juice’?” She didn’t wait for an answer. She disappeared into the kitchen. The women were quiet as they listened to the fridge opening and glasses being pulled from the cupboard. Kristie stood up to help. Maya kicked off her shoes and tucked her feet under her, settling into her thoughts.

The glasses clinked as they were carried out on a tray. With wine, the women all seemed to relax. Chelsea spoke suddenly, breaking the silence:

“I put a profile on Match.com... I’ve decided I want to see what’s out there.”

“Wow!” Maya said.

“I know it’s only been two years since Charlie died, but I think I’m ready.”

I looked at Charlie, whose normally cool blue aura glowed, the only apparent response to his wife’s declaration. He seemed to shrug. “I know, I know. I’m cool with it. She needs to move on, you know?”

“Chelsea, that’s great. That’s a huge step.” Kristie smiled. “You don’t think it’s too soon?”

“No, not at all!” The women all spoke the same words at the same time.

“So?” Maya asked, her lips curled into a sly smile. “Any takers?”

Molly looked shocked for a moment and then laughed.

“Well, as a matter of fact, I’ve had quite a few responses,” Chelsea said. “I’ve been surprised actually. I didn’t think anyone would be interested in a frumpy old mom of a five and eight-year-old who spends most of her weekends on a soccer field. Certainly, a lot of older men responded, a couple of creepos. But one I found interesting... we’re going on a date next week.”

“No way!” Molly said.

“He seems really nice. A professor at Puget Sound University. Something to do with business ethics or some such thing. His name is Ken.”

“Kids?” Maya asked.

“Nope. Married, but no kids. He’s been divorced for about six years.” Chelsea grabbed a cookie from the plate beside her.

“That’s awesome, Chels. I’m proud of you. That’s a huge step,” Kristie said, smiling.

“Yeah, I guess I just felt ready. I’m sick of sitting around every night watching Sex and the City reruns. What about you guys? Are you ready?” Chelsea asked as she looked around the room.

“I’m definitely not there yet. I still cry into my pillow every night. Not exactly sex kitten material,” Molly said.

“I still buy my undies at Safeway!” Kristie said. The women all laughed. “But I’ve thought about dating...” she continued, looking thoughtful. “I’m terrified. I haven’t dated in over twenty years. I wouldn’t even know where to begin.”

I wish she would. The thought came from Ben. We all looked at him. Kristie’s still so closed to me in many ways. She can’t seem to get beyond being my widow. I feel stuck in this place with her, tethered to her need for me to come back. I wish she could move on with her life. I just haven’t been able to convince her. Kristie’s very stubborn. But I need to move on as well.

Move on? How do we move on? I asked.

We begin by relinquishing our attachments to our human selves, and to those we loved in life. It can happen at varying speeds, depending on the depth of our connections in life, or the amount of spiritual awakening we’ve acquired while on Earth. As we move away from earthly pursuits, we transmute into a higher spiritual level. New worlds open up to us. We can begin to plan the next phase of our journey.

“All the more reason you should try dating, Kristie,” Maya said, grinning mischievously.

“Oh, sure, miss hot-to-trot, and what about you?” Kristie said.

We all looked at Maya. Perhaps I clung too tightly to my Earth life. I strove to help Maya and Calder through their grief. Perhaps that drive stemmed from my guilt of my own stupid accident, or tied up somehow in my father’s death. Perhaps I still clung to Maya to prevent her from being with Marcus.

“Me, date? Uh. No. I can’t imagine. It hasn’t even been a year since Jay’s death.”

“Yeah, maybe that’s too soon,” Kristie said, taking a sip of wine.

“But, if you want to know the truth, I have this friend...” Maya looked down at the floor. Did she mean Marcus? Charlie looked at me now. My aura must have muddied, giving away my distress at Maya's declaration.

Chill man, it’s a normal progression. Maya's just testing the waters, he said.

Yeah, I know. It’s just that I’m starting to think there’s something going on with this friend of Maya's. We both knew him as kids.

And that’s a bad thing? Don’t you want your wife to move on with her life?

Yeah, but not with this guy. He’s an arrogant...

That’s something she will have to discover on her own, Jay.

I’m not sure I can be as cool as you are about Chelsea dating. It’s going to be difficult to see our wives with other men, isn’t it?

I don’t know about that. It’s not like we don’t know who the people are that they’re going to date.

Know who they are? What are you talking about?

C’mon, Jay. Have you forgotten?

Forgotten what?

Oh, dude. It will come back to you. You must know by now that no human relationship is a coincidence. They are planned. Charlie’s thoughts provoked something like a memory, one I couldn’t quite reach. His truth seemed inaccessible to me in that moment.

“Friend?” Chelsea asked.

“Yeah. Someone I knew a long time ago. My first love, actually. Before Jay.”

The other women looked at each other. “And?”

Maya shrugged. “He lives in Vancouver. It’s not practical.”

“But you obviously like this guy,” Molly said.

Maya pushed a strand of her hair behind her ear. She cocked her head slightly as if she could see me sitting beside her. She looked sadder than I had ever seen her. I heard her thought:

I wish I could tell them the truth.

What is the truth, Lenie? I’m not sure I truly wanted to know.

“Yeah,” Maya said. “I guess I do, but that doesn’t mean it’s right.”

“You know, if you want, you could go and see Liz. She’s that psychic my friend told me about. I haven’t called her yet, but maybe she could give you some insight or something,” Molly said.

“I’ve been thinking of seeing a psychic, actually. She might be perfect.”

“It’s not everyone’s cup of tea, but I have to admit I’m sort of curious. I’d love to see if she gets anything about Charlie,” Chelsea said.

“Ooh. That sounds fun,” Chelsea said. “I’d be into getting her number.”

“Not me. I think psychics are a bunch of quacks. They just make really good guesses based on what they can tell about you from how you look, the clothes you wear and that sort of thing,” Kristie said. Her aura seemed to shrink with her statement.

“I don’t know. This particular friend who told me about psychics, but she raved about her. Said she picked up all sorts of stuff she couldn’t possibly have known,” Molly said, her brown eyes getting wider with her obvious excitement.

“Maybe, but I still think it’s a crock,” said Kristie, twisting her lips into a look of disapproval.

I wish Kristie would go see that psychic,” Ben said. I’d love to be able to communicate with her, tell her I love her.

Can you really be that specific? I asked him.

I think it depends on the psychic’s abilities, but, yes, I think you can. From my understanding, this Liz woman that Molly is talking about is pretty talented.

At that moment, I heard an unfamiliar voice. I’m looking forward to meeting you, Jay.

Who’s that? I asked the voice.

What? Ben responded.

You didn’t hear that voice?

No. What voice?

A woman’s. Telling me she’s looking forward to meeting me.

If only I could be so lucky. Sounds like you’re going to get the opportunity to talk with Maya, Jay. Through Liz, the psychic. Lucky you, Ben said.

How does the psychic lady know that already? Maya hasn’t even decided she’s going to go see her yet.

She’s psychic, Ben said.

“A psychic. What would I even ask her?” Maya said.

“It could be really emotional for you, Maya. Are you sure you want to put yourself through that?” Kristie asked.

“Yeah, I know that might be hard, but it also might be a nice kind of emotional. You know, like a happy feeling that I’m connecting with Jay.”

“And maybe she’ll tell you if you’re going to wind up with Mr. Next Love,” Molly said.

“Oh God, she could tell me that?”

“Maybe...” Molly responded.

“Then, I’m scared shitless!” Maya said, mocking a horrified look. Everyone laughed. “But, OK. I’m game. Molly, will you email me her info?”

I’m not sure I want to know about Maya's new dating life. Can a psychic really predict new love for her?

Liz can only tell Maya what she receives from you or Maya's own guardians. It will be up to you to tell Maya if she will find new love again, Ben said.

What guardians? I thought.

We all have guardians, Jay. Have you not met Maya's or Calder's yet?

No. I haven’t even met mine. And how the hell is Maya's love life up to me?

You are well versed with Maya's path. You planned it together, remember?

That’s the problem, Ben. I don’t remember. I don’t remember a thing.

All in good time, my friend. The knowledge will come to you when you’re ready for it.

So I keep hearing.