Oh so you can’t come and swoop me up after all the rides I’ve been giving you?” Blake asked, trying to make me feel guilty.
“Honey, it’s not like I don’t want to see you. Of course I’m going to give you a ride in the car, but I got to get to practice early. You’ve been captain for a while. Your dad gives you all the extras you need to make sure your team is on and popping, but me, I’m new at this. I want to get with Coach Woods, get her expectations, and be an example for my squad. Leadership starts at the top. So I can’t pick you up today.”
“Dang, give a girl some power and she loses her mind,” Blake uttered. “I needed to talk to you.”
As I sat on my bed putting on some lotion, I put the phone down and hit the speaker button. “See, you’re tripping. Nothing about me has changed. Just because I’m taking my job seriously, you’ve got an issue with that. I didn’t say anything when you had to go to the gym in the morning, watch film after that, lift weights in the afternoon, run around the track in the evening, and eat your food and mine because you’re trying to gain all this weight so you can pass some eyeball test for scouts. Plus, you’re there early on days you want to, so why can’t I have my guy’s support, huh?”
“I’m just playing. We can rap later. Dang, when you put it like that, go to practice. But take it from me, you don’t want to be too hard on your girls, or they’ll resent you.”
“I hear you. But I can’t be too soft on them either, or they’ll think I’m a pushover. I got this.”
Driving to practice, all I could think about was how happy I was that everything in my life was right. While I appreciated Blake giving me his advice on how to be a captain and not alienating my team, I did have to realize that girls and boys were different. I truly felt in my gut that if I was too soft, we wouldn’t accomplish anything. All they would want to do is chat and text and do everything but get us ready to win the state competition this December. This practice started the countdown, and while cheerleading might not mean the world to most people, it meant everything to me. I was not going to allow one girl on my team to be a slacker.
“Okay, so where is Coach Woods?” I uttered to myself when I pulled up to the gym an hour before practice and saw no cars in the parking lot.
We had already corresponded through email. She knew I was planning to be there early. If her plans had changed, why didn’t she text me? Corresponding was only right. It was only responsible. And I knew she would expect it of me. Coach or not, I expected it out of her. When my cell phone rang, I thought Coach was reading my mind. However, when I looked at my new cell, it wasn’t Coach at all. It was Randal.
I said, “Hey, girl. Are you on your way to practice?”
“No, we got fifty minutes.”
“Well, you want to make your way over here. You don’t want to be late,” I told her.
“Well, that’s what I was calling for, to see if you wanted to come swoop me up.”
“Ha-ha, no, honey. You should have gotten with me beforehand. I’m already at practice.”
“How can you be at practice?” she questioned. “It hasn’t started yet.”
“I’m the captain, remember? There are things that I need to do with Coach before you guys even get here. I mean, I wouldn’t have had any problem bringing you with me. You could have warmed up, and you know, learned some cheers or something. All the extra practice is great, but I can’t leave now to come and pick you up. Sorry. You should have called me earlier,” I reiterated a second time.
Tired of me, she gasped, “Okay, I got it.”
Thirty minutes later, twenty minutes before practice was supposed to start, Coach Woods still wasn’t there. I was pacing back and forth in front of the gym door, wondering where in the world she was. There was no way I could conduct practice outside if she didn’t show up. I could not start late because I valued my squad’s time, and JV practiced after us.
Five minutes later, I saw her car pull into the parking lot. I didn’t even give her time to get out.
I quickly ran up and said, “Coach Woods, where have you been? Practice is about to start in a few minutes, and we had planned for you to be here a long time ago. I need to get your cell number right away because the only numbers I had were your home and your office number. I called both several times. I was thinking maybe somebody might have dropped you off even though I didn’t see any cars. Where have you been? Why didn’t you call me?”
“Okay, Charli Black, you’re excited. You’re dedicated. I see that you’re on point. Could you give me a chance to answer one of your questions before you keep rambling? An emergency came up with my child at daycare, and I had to go by and take care of all that. Is that okay with you? I lost power in my phone, so I couldn’t call you. I got here as soon as I could.”
When she mentioned power being lost in her phone, I couldn’t get too upset because I had just got a new phone for that very reason. The barracuda in me calmed down. I became more like the loving koala.
In a sweeter tone, I asked, “Is your child okay?”
“Yes, thank you.”
She was taking her time getting out of the car, and I said, “Can I help you get inside the gym? The girls will be here in a minute, and I want to have the mats set up.”
“But it’s everybody’s job to help put out the mats.”
“Yes, and it also takes extra time to do that, so I figured if different girls would rotate and come a couple minutes early to practice, the mats would be ready to go. We wouldn’t lose any time.”
Squinting, she looked at me and said, “It’s hard to get people to come on time, Charli, much less come early.”
“Coach, my squad, my rules. Feel like if we all have some ownership and make a little sacrifice, we’ll give more, and we’ll compete harder. And at the end of the day, you’ll be smiling when we win. Can we at least try it before you say it won’t work? Please?”
“Sure. You’re ambitious; I’ll definitely give you that. And Whitney thought you wouldn’t have any backbone. I have a feeling that her opinion is way off base.”
I had the mats all ready to go with one minute to spare because Coach Woods helped me. When it was time for practice, only two girls were on time. They were sophomores Chrissy and Hunter. The other three sophomores were nowhere to be found, nor were my friends or the seniors.
Five minutes passed. I stood in the doorway and saw Hallie’s car pull up. It was jerking, and smoke was coming out of the back. It made it though, and my four girlfriends got out as soon as it came to a stop.
Hallie ran up to me and smiled. “Hey, captain! We’re here and ready for a great practice.”
“Hey, Charli.” Ella tried to give me five, but I did not put my hand up.
With a little attitude, Randal said, “Sorry we’re late. They had to come pick me up because somebody wouldn’t.”
I rolled my eyes. I was not smiling. This was practice time, and I felt they were not taking my leadership seriously.
Eva looked at me and said, “Okay, what’s up your butt? You better pull it out before you stay constipated.”
“You guys are late, okay,” I said to her in a brash tone.
“Whatever. Where’s the rest of this squad? There’s got to be some kind of grace period. Right, Coach Woods?” Eva yelled out.
But Coach Woods was on the phone with the daycare center, so she didn’t hear Eva. The four of them saw I was seriously disappointed. They should have been on time.
“I get to discipline anyone who does not follow the rules. It’s unacceptable that you guys were late for any reason. Go stretch and be prepared to do some laps when everyone gets here.”
“Oh heck nah!” Eva said before Ella and Randal pulled her back.
It wasn’t until twenty minutes later that the whole squad was there, and I quickly said, “Everybody’s running … everybody except me, Chrissy, and Hunter. We were the only three here on time.”
“I’m not doing any jogging,” Whitney came up to me and said.
Not backing away, I stood my ground. “If you want to stay on this squad, you will!”
I heard tons of groans. Since they had attitudes and didn’t appreciate what I was trying to instill, I had to punish them. It was not until they ran twenty times around the gym that I said stop. I got all kinds of dirty looks, but I knew it would be worth it when we won the trophy. I ran this team, and they were going to respect that. I bet they would be on time to all other practices.
“Okay, everything is just right. Thank you, Mom, for letting me have a swim party over here for my team.”
My mom said, “Well, you tricked me on this one because you know I don’t like last minute surprises.”
“I know, I know. But I’ve been really hard on them this week. I haven’t heard from Hallie and the girls. I know they’re upset with me.”
“You’re not being rude to your girlfriends, are you?”
“No, but I mean … look at it from my point of view, they were sort of taking advantage of me being the captain. It was like them thinking because we’re tight and all, I’m not going to hold them accountable. They elected me. They should have known how I’d be.”
I could tell by her face that my mom thought I was too over the top. “That might just be it. You might be acting differently than what they expected you to be acting like,” she said.
I thought my mom was wrong. My team needed a tough leader. Being in charge was not easy, but you must be willing to do whatever it takes to get dynamic results. I was willing. This party was proof.
The doorbell rang and before I could answer it, my mom said, “Charli, just remember to treat people as you would want to be treated.”
“Yes, ma’am. I want a leader that’s on it. I hear you. I’m with that. I got this, Mom,” I said, needing her to ease up.
Walking to the door seemed to take forever. I couldn’t understand why everyone was telling me to ease up. We were not just pom-pom girls. Cheerleading was a sport. We were expected to be winners. If I did not demand their full commitment to our practices and the rules of the team, then how could I expect them to deliver excellence in their performances? If I held back from wanting them to give me their best, then I felt like I would be doing them an injustice. And that just wasn’t in me.
“Hey, come on in.”
Balancing her keys and bag in one hand and her slushy in the other, Hallie said, “Hey, girl!”
“Be careful with the punch,” I said to the four of them when I looked at their lidless Quik Trip cups.
“You want us to take our shoes off too?” Eva said, flaring her nose.
I said, “Don’t trip. You know the rules of my mom’s house. Yes, take off your shoes.”
My friends could not blame me because my parents took care of the things we had. Other people had junky rooms, junky cars, and junky houses because they just allowed people to abuse their stuff. That was not the way it was for my family. I was not going to allow anybody to make me feel bad because we had standards. But of course Eva looked at me like I was speaking another language, so I bent down, picked up one of her feet, took off her flip-flop, and frowned when I saw her unpolished toenails.
“Don’t you trip,” she said to me. “Everybody doesn’t have money to go to the spa, all right?”
“We figure out a way to do what we want. I have some of that ninety-nine cent fingernail polish upstairs. You can have the whole bottle.”
Randal then pulled me aside and said, “Okay, do you have to be such a brat? Did you forget Ella and Eva are going through some things? Lay off of them.”
Remembering their dad had a new family, I eased up. “Okay, I’m sorry guys. You know I’m just a little tense with the squad coming over. Thanks for getting here early. I need y’all to play hostess for me.”
“Why should we help you out when you haven’t been helping us out in practice?” Eva said. “And you’ve been treating us just like everybody else, so if you are rolling out the red carpet for the rest of the team, you need to be rolling out the red carpet for us.”
Eva sashayed into my house, and the other three followed behind her, not wanting to assist me. The doorbell rang. I just threw up my hands and was like, Whatever!
To the back of my girls’ heads I yelled, “You know how to get out to the pool. Just do whatever.”
I’d been there for them countless times. I went overboard helping Hallie learn cheers for tryouts. I would give Eva and Ella dollars to buy the latest threads. I helped Randal understand black culture anytime she had a question, which was often. They could treat me cruel.
“Hey, girls,” I said to the sophomore crew when I opened the door.
The two who were always on time, Chrissy and Hunter, were smiling and happy. The other three frowned at me like I was the wicked stepmother or something.
Just as I’d left the girls at the pool, my cell vibrated. I looked down and saw that it was Blake.
I quickly answered and said, “Hey, baby!”
“Hey, girl. Wassup? We hanging out tonight or what? You been putting me off for all this cheerleading stuff. It’s our time, right? I get that ride you promised me earlier in the week?”
“I thought I told you …”
“You thought you told me what? What time you were picking me up?” he asked, starting to get an attitude.
“No, I thought I told you the cheerleading squad was coming over here for a little swim party.”
“Oh! You ain’t said nothing but a word. The boys will be over in just a minute.”
“No, no, no. My mom said guys can’t come. It’s just for the girls to bond. It’s not going to be that long. We’ll hook up later, okay?”
“You putting me off again? Come on now. I need to share something. You know I need a little bit of loving … affection … something.”
“Blake, the pressure is not fair,” I said, irritated with all his whining. “Just like you’re trying to win a state title, well, I’m trying to as well.”
“Yeah, but football isn’t on twenty-four-seven for me, so cheerleading shouldn’t be for you either.”
I didn’t want to sit there and baby him. However, I sensed his stress. Just when I was about to help him understand I wasn’t putting him off, the doorbell rang.
Needing him to deal with it, I quickly said, “I gotta go.”
The senior crew came in, and they had their minds fixed on swimming. It was seven o’clock, and it was still ninety-two degrees. My city was not called Hotlanta for nothing.
“I thought before you guys swim, we could have a quick cheer meeting,” I announced. I got several eyes rolls in my direction. “Okay, fine. You all can swim. I have snacks here too. But in twenty minutes, we’re going to have a meeting.”
Well, that didn’t go over well. I pushed it back to thirty minutes, but that was my absolute limit. I just kept walking around making sure everyone was having a good time. I was trying to meet girls on the team. I was trying to loosen up. I was trying to be approachable, but they kept doing stupid stuff like running around the pool. What if they hurt themselves? Though my parents had insurance, who wanted to go through that hassle? More importantly, I could not afford to lose a cheerleader for our upcoming training.
We were about to have choreography camp next week, and everyone needed to be healthy. I saw a couple of the girls already eating a few too many hot dogs, so I told them to pull back. They looked at me like I was being rude. But I was just trying to help.
One of the girls on the squad had a really stylish bathing suit on, which was also too small. I went over and said to her, “I changed the size of your uniform order. When it comes in, it was the size that was ordered and not a mistake. We can’t have all of our business hanging out, you know.”
I actually hated hearing myself talk like that because it felt like I was my mom, but somebody had to be the adult, the rational one, the leader, and that was me. I went inside to find a whistle because I need to get their attention. I did not have a whistle, but my dad had one. He used to coach my softball team when I was little, and he never threw anything away. I knew exactly where it was in his desk. But as I started to walk back outside from my dad’s office, I was surprised to see Whitney talking to Hallie and Eva in the kitchen.
“So this is what you guys wanted as a leader instead of me? I’m telling you, we’ve got to do something about it, or she’s going to drive all of us crazy. Charli’s your friend. You need to figure out a way to tell her to chill out, or else we’re all going to go to the coach and get her removed.”
Honestly, something I was doing was not working, but then I thought that maybe they were just jealous. Certainly Hallie and Eva would have my back. But maybe I was kidding myself because Eva said, “You’re right. We got to do something about her.”
I ducked back inside the office before they saw me. I was losing the team, even though I had gone out of my way to throw them a party. Plus I was doing all I could to make sure they were sharp. I had to think. I had to keep it together. I could not get all emotional and cry and beg for them to like me. It was just tough on them, but like any good solider that makes it through boot camp, they’d appreciate it in the end, or at least I hoped they’d appreciate me in the end. Gosh, being a leader was hard.
“You realize I’ve lost count of how many times this week that you’ve told me no,” Blake said, a little upset with me when I told him I was going to practice instead of hanging out with him.
“Not because I want to, but we have practice.”
“Well, we’re off today. Maybe I’ll come up there and watch you.”
“Blake, it’s not like you can do that. Coach is strict. Our practice is closed. Plus if you were there, you know I wouldn’t be able to concentrate and neither would half of my team because they all think you’re fine,” I said, stoking his ego on purpose.
“All right, all right, you got me there,” he said, grinning.
I pleaded, “Let me just get through choreography camp. We’re going to have our time.”
“Is it going to be worth my while … all this waiting you’re making me do?”
“Yes, yes, yes,” I said, in a sultry, slow voice.
“All right then.”
“Why are you talking to that boy on the phone in that manner?” My mom came into my room, startling me and interrupting the last part of my conversation.
I hung up on Blake. I knew that would get under his skin. But I did hope he heard my mom talking in the background because I didn’t want him to be too salty.
“Mom, you don’t need to be eavesdropping,” I said, trying to divert her thoughts. Her stern look told me she wasn’t going to steer away from the sex talk. “I’m a junior in high school. I have a boyfriend who’s committed to me. I mean, honestly, Mom. We haven’t talked about this, but I got to keep him.”
“So what does that mean? You are just going to do anything and everything he asks? And where do you think that’s going to lead? You give him an inch, and he’ll want a mile.”
“I don’t understand what that means, Mom.”
“It means that if you’re only trying to please Blake, and he doesn’t care about your values and morals, then it is never going to be enough. He’s always going to want more. You’ll get hurt.”
I just wanted to scream, “That’s probably why you and Dad are having problems right about now.” But I knew there was no way I could go there with my mom. I did want to keep my two front teeth. However, maybe that’s what she needed me to say. Maybe I needed to be real with her and call a spade a spade. Calling a spade a spade were words she used all the time. She needed to be concerned about satisfying her guy because it was obvious that she didn’t have a clue. Which didn’t give her a lot of credibility in handing out advice about men.
“Why are you looking at me like that, Charli? Like you pity me or something. I am older and wiser and have been where you are about to go. These little boys tell you what you want to hear. You young girls give it up too soon and end up wishing you hadn’t or worse—pregnant or with a disease or something.”
Frustrated, I uttered, “Mom, I got to go to practice. I don’t want a lecture.”
“Maybe what I need to do is take the keys from you, and then you’ll have time to listen to what I have to say. You’re getting way too grown-up.”
“Okay, Mom. I’m sorry. I’m sorry. I’m listening,” I said, definitely not wanting my independence to be taken from me. Being rational, I said, “Just so you know, I told Blake I’m not ready.”
“Yeah, but I also heard you on the phone. Actions speak louder than words. It was something in your voice. Something in the way your little body was moving while you were on the telephone. It just makes me think you’re getting a little ahead of yourself. And you know what? After practice, come straight home. You’re not seeing him tonight.”
“I didn’t want to see him tonight, Mom. I’ll be dead tired from choreography camp. I’m with you. I’ve got big dreams ahead. I’m not going to mess up my life. It’s all good, okay?” I looked at my watch. “Can I go now, please? I don’t want to be late.”
She stuck out her cheek for me to kiss. “Bye,” she said.
I met Eva at the door to the gym twenty minutes later. “Somebody’s not so early to practice today,” she smirked.
“I’m not in charge today since we have a choreographer,” I uttered, wanting her to know if I had other duties I would have been there earlier.
“Good,” she said, clearly alluding to the fact that she was sick of my leadership.
I didn’t even want to respond because I owed her no apology. I owed none of them any apologies. I was doing what was necessary. I was doing what was right. I was doing what they needed, and she just needed to deal with it.
The choreographer was hip, and after she gave us her background, I was really impressed. She was straight from New York, and had hip-hop, classical, jazz, and tap training.
“Everyone, I’m Brenda Bill. I’m only here for two days. The routine is super tough, and I don’t go at a kindergartner’s pace. If you keep your lips closed, your eyes on me, and your feet moving, you can get this. We’ll add the music to it after we’re done. Hands up in the air, clap, clap, one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight.”
She went down. She turned around. She jumped in the air. She stepped back and then she repeated the eight-count. On the third time, I had the dance. Everyone else was looking as if they were in preschool and the routine she was doing was for college girls.
“Okay, okay, hold up, hold up,” Brenda said, frowning at the other girls’ awful adaptation of her routine. She pointed to me. “What’s your name?”
“Charli.”
Brenda came over to me and patted me on the back. “Everyone needs to be dancing like Charli. Her movements are on point. Watch her. Go, Charli.”
I started doing the eight-count.
“Perfect precision!” she turned to everyone else. “I can’t keep stopping. You guys are going to have to work on this on your own. I have got to keep moving. Maybe you can get with Charli if you don’t have it on your own time.”
As the day went on, I was the only one who had the routine down. The next day was more of the same. I tried to get with girls offline, but they said they had it. They recorded Brenda on their phones. I assumed they went home and practiced. I don’t know why they bothered recording her because they came back the second day worse than they were at the end of day one.
When our time with her was over, Brenda called us all in and said, “Thank goodness she’s the captain because she’s the only one who has it. Straight up, seriously, if you guys are trying to win any competition this year, you are going to have to work like her. Go home, practice, get in front of the mirror, look at yourselves, straighten up, and want this. Be upbeat.”
Brenda went over and talked to Coach Woods. She had to turn in all the formations on a spreadsheet so we would know where we were supposed to go as we practiced. I was left there with a deflated team. They looked like they were all hit in the gut.
To pep them up I said, “This isn’t easy, you guys. We all wanted to be on this team. Brenda’s right. If we’re going to win, we have to give extra. I hate that you guys are mad at me. But instead of hating on me, you need to be hating the pitiful effort you guys were giving. If you had it like I do, we’d be a mile ahead right now and could be sharpening up the routine. As it stands, I’ll have to reteach it all next week. It’s not my preference to be tough, but I’d rather be tough than pitiful.”
Whitney said, “Eva, you better get your friend.”
Eva shouted out with attitude, “Oh, don’t worry. We’re definitely doing something because somebody’s got the big head.”