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whole situation: Yes, I worried about my sexual performance. Yes, my penis often became soft during sex. Yes, I sometimes ejaculate seconds after initiating intercourse. Yes, this is all happening with someone I deeply care about. Yes, this whole thing is completely out of my control. Yes, it’s terrible, but it’s also funny.

I didn’t know it at the time, but laughing at myself and this whole situation helped me accept something I had been