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For Women Only
And you moved among the mysteries,
Absorbed and smiling and sure:
Stirring, tasting, measuring
with the precision of a ritual. . . .
—Jean Starr Untermeyer
Women have issues or feelings we often feel only other women can understand. Generally speaking, I feel women express their emotions outwardly more than men. It is also because we ponder our thoughts and feelings more intensely that I feel we can also create positive or negative results more quickly than men. Therefore, as women, we must remember that if you are down on yourself and feel you are a failure in any area of life, this can become a self-fulfilling prophecy and is something to guard against. A ritual can aid you to balance and focus your chaotic energy and open your conscious and subconscious mind to receiving the same message.
Fertility
Necessary Enhancements and Magickal Tools
The necessary tools for this spell include any tools you have chosen for your formation as described below.
You will need:
• poppy, sage, and echinacea—each ingredient in a separate container or separate envelopes
• drawstring bag
• unicorn statue, picture, or some type of representation (represents fertility)
Candles
You will also need three candles: yellow, red, and pink. Place them in front of you in a row inside your formation with the yellow to the left, the red in the center, and the pink to the right.
Formation
All spells should begin with casting a circle, which is your shield of protection. If you are using a triangle or a square, cast your circle first and then cast your formation within it.
The best formation for this spell is the circle. Cast your formation using methods described in Chapter 5 of the book using a wand, a knife, an extended arm with fingers pointed, salt, or other material items you may have chosen.
Direction to Face
This spell is most effective if you are facing west. Arrange your candles as stated above and any tools or enhancements that will be in your formation so that they will be in front of you when you are sitting facing west.
Moon Phase
This spell will work best if cast during the full or waxing phase of the Moon because we are hoping to increase fertility just as the Moon is increasing as it waxes to full.
Day of the Week
The most favorable days of the week to cast this spell would be on any day but Wednesday.
Optional Magickal Enhancements
The following items will add a deeper dimension to your spell and help you to focus yourself more fully, but they are not necessary and the spell can be cast even if you don’t have these items available.
Gemstones
The best gemstones to use for this spell are rose quartz and turquoise. If using additional gemstones other than those recommended in your formation, place them in front of you.
Incense
Incense that will enhance this spell would be hyacinth, myrrh, and pine. Place incense in a safe place within your formation if you like; however, start the incense outside of your formation.
Music
If you like music and will not find it distracting, you might want to play something instrumental that is peaceful, meditative, and calming with low frequencies. Whatever you are comfortable with will be best.
Before You Start Your Spell
Make sure you have no distractions.
Turn phones off if possible.
Play soothing music.
Keep the lights dim.
Wash your hands or shower before you begin.
Light incense if you are using it.
Gather everything you need and have it close at hand.
Draw your formation.
Ask your higher power to allow the information to flow through you.
Affirmation
Affirmation to be read within your formation before you actually begin your spell.
As I sit in the center of this circle, I ask to be blessed with the coming of a child in my life. May my love reach out and encompass this not yet born one.
I see it healthy and happy with the unconditional love around it that I will provide.
May the energy from this circle give me strength and physical well-being so I can carry this child until it makes its entrance into this life.
AND SO IT IS.
How to Perform the Spell
While sitting in your circle, take the three herbs and pour them one by one (in any order) into your drawstring bag. Touch the bag to your stomach for a few seconds, and visualize yourself being pregnant (but do not visualize the gender of the child).
Set the bag down in front of the unicorn and recite the following incantation:
With this radiant Moon a life will grow,
A child is near me that I know.
Happiness, health, and many charms,
I will hold this child in my arms.
Conclude with any statement that signifies closure of the ceremony in your mind such as “And so it is,” “Blessed be,” or “Amen.” Now extinguish your candles and release your formation.
Note: For the next nine days, once a day before bed, lie down and place the bag on your stomach and visualize yourself pregnant. Once you become pregnant, keep the bag until the child is born.
Easy Childbirth
Necessary Enhancements and Magickal Tools
The necessary tools for this spell include any tools you have chosen for your formation as described below.
You will need:
• element water
• a cup to hold it (A large cup is the best for this particular spell as a cup signifies fertility and femininity.)
Candles
You will also need three candles: blue, pink, and orange. Place them in front of you in a row inside your formation with the blue to the left, the pink in the center, and the orange to the right.
Formation
All spells should begin with casting a circle, which is your shield of protection. If you are using a triangle or a square, cast your circle first and then cast your formation within it.
The best formation for this spell is the circle. Cast your formation using methods described in Chapter 5 of the book using a wand, a knife, an extended arm with fingers pointed, salt, or other material items you may have chosen.
Direction to Face
This spell is most effective if you are facing south. Arrange your candles as stated above and any tools or enhancements that will be in your formation so that they will be in front of you when you are sitting facing south.
Moon Phase
This spell will work best if cast during the full, new, or waxing phase of the Moon because we are hoping to increase good possibilities just as the Moon is increasing as it waxes to full.
Day of the Week
Cast this spell on any day of the week.
Optional Magickal Enhancements
The following items will add a deeper dimension to your spell and help you to focus yourself more fully, but they are not necessary and the spell can be cast even if you don’t have these items available.
Gemstones
The best gemstones to use for this spell are rose quartz, turquoise, and clear quartz crystal. If using additional gemstones other than those recommended in your formation, place them in front of you.
Incense
Incense that will enhance this spell would be rose and orange. Place incense in a safe place within your formation if you like; however, start the incense outside of your formation.
Music
If you like music and will not find it distracting, you might want to play something instrumental that is peaceful, tranquil, and calming with soothing properties like a lullaby that you might find healing. Whatever you are comfortable with will be best.
Before You Start Your Spell
Make sure you have no distractions.
Turn phones off if possible.
Play soothing music.
Keep the lights dim.
Wash your hands or shower before you begin.
Light incense if you are using it.
Gather everything you need and have it close at hand.
Draw your formation.
Ask your higher power to allow the information to flow through you.
Affirmation
Affirmation to be read within your formation before you actually begin your spell.
I feel the love of this divine heart. My good thoughts and positive wishes for this unborn child will penetrate my being, and this baby will feel the devotion. The higher power above will protect and guide this new soul into this world with ease and no complications.
AND SO IT IS.
How to Perform the Spell
While within your circle, dip your hands into the element water, touch your bare stomach with the water, and recite the following incantation:
With all the elements of this place,
Your soul arrives through time and space.
You’re glad you’re here, you’re strong and new,
I’ve said these words and so they’re true.
Conclude with any statement that signifies closure of the ceremony in your mind such as “And so it is,” “Blessed be,” or “Amen.” Now extinguish your candles and release your formation.
Throw your element water on a plant or outside. If you must, pour the remaining water down the sink. Gently pass your hand over the drain and say, “back to the earth.”
Love (for Women Only)
Necessary Enhancements and Magickal Tools
The necessary tools for this spell include any tools you have chosen for your formation as described below.
You will need:
• dish or arrangement of your favorite flowers, placed in front of you (Real flowers are excellent, but a nice, clean artificial arrangement also works nicely.)
Candles
You will also need one pink candle placed in front of you.
Formation
All spells should begin with casting a circle, which is your shield of protection. If you are using a triangle or a square, cast your circle first and then cast your formation within it.
The best formation for this spell is the circle. Cast your formation using methods described in Chapter 5 of the book using a wand, a knife, an extended arm with fingers pointed, salt, or other material items you may have chosen.
Direction to Face
This spell is most effective if you are facing south. Arrange your candles as stated above and any tools or enhancements that will be in your formation so that they will be in front of you when you are sitting facing south.
Moon Phase
This spell will work best if cast during the full, new, or waxing phase of the Moon because we are hoping to increase good possibilities just as the Moon is increasing as it waxes to full.
Day of the Week
The most favorable days of the week to cast this spell would be on Sunday, Tuesday Friday, or Saturday.
Optional Magickal Enhancements
The following items will add a deeper dimension to your spell and help you to focus yourself more fully, but they are not necessary and the spell can be cast even if you don’t have these items available.
Gemstones
The best gemstones to use for this spell are rose quartz, carnelian, and clear quartz crystal. If using additional gemstones other than those recommended in your formation, place them in front of you.
Incense
Incense that will enhance this spell would be musk, myrrh, rose, and pine. Place incense in a safe place within your formation if you like; however, start the incense outside of your formation.
Music
If you like music and will not find it distracting, you might want to play something instrumental that is slow, meditative, and peaceful. Whatever you are comfortable with will be best.
Before You Start Your Spell
Make sure you have no distractions.
Turn phones off if possible.
Play soothing music.
Keep the lights dim.
Wash your hands or shower before you begin.
Light incense if you are using it.
Gather everything you need and have it close at hand.
Draw your formation.
Ask your higher power to allow the information to flow through you.
Affirmation
Affirmation to be read within your formation before you actually begin your spell.
I am infused with energy when I think of the love in my life that I not only receive but I also give to others. I welcome the vibration of additional love into my existence, and I look forward to sending more love out to others.
Whether I am alone or have an entire support system of people, I am still always loved and capable of loving. I love the flowers and the trees and all of nature. I love my higher power that loves me unconditionally.
I love my feminine intuition that serves me well, when I listen to it. People who have made the transition to the other side love me. They still guide and help me.
Love is my antidote for all that weakens me.
AND SO IT IS.
How to Perform the Spell
Recite the following incantation:
Like a healing stream may love keep flowing,
With love comes wisdom and a knowing
That each day and every hour,
I draw the energy of feminine power.
Conclude with any statement that signifies closure of the ceremony in your mind such as “And so it is,” “Blessed be,” or “Amen.” Now extinguish your candles and release your formation.