Open my heart, and you will see Graved inside of it, “Italy.”
They call it bella figura. Like style, it is easy to recognize but cannot be simply explained. Loosely translated, the message, it seems, is that making a good impression is everything, which, naturally, is easier said than done. For doing so not only consumes enormous time and energy but also is comprised of endless possibilities darting in a blur—from the way one stands, speaks, walks, and dresses to one’s manners and the manner in which one bedecks the home and entertains.
Indeed, bella figura means different things to different people, with varying interpretations clearly being shaped by interests and tastes when it comes to fashionable interior decorating and design. Some see it as rich colors, a savvy mix of fabrics from the finest mills, hand-painted antiques, and mellow old woods with warm patinas. For others, it is the luxury of comfort, interesting collections, and the veneer of elegance. And for still others, it is the improbable beauty found in distinctive details that flatter a room.
Say what you like: bella figura is not an easy thing to come by. Neither social cachet nor money offers any guarantee of making a positive impression. But, then, even in a demanding world we would never be content to let family name, net worth, or appearances define us—as that would be considered gauche.
It hardly matters, though. Despite cultural differences, the French and Italians alike have become our passports to good taste, the latter luring us with their passion for life, innate warmth, and reliable images. As if this were not enough, we look to the Italian people for unassuming ways—both obvious and subtle—of living, entertaining, and decorating.
Needless to say, our appetite for all that is Italian is not out of place. After all, few countries elicit awe quite like Italy. While its bureaucracy can be mystifying, its exceptional beauty is an ongoing feast for our admiring gaze, its tangled history, assimilated culture, and relaxed sophistication sources of endless fascination.
Seducing us are case coloniche —the typical Tuscan farmhouses steeped in countless charm; sun-bleached villas with easygoing elegance; and their extravagant, more celebrated cousins—sumptuous palazzi whose au courant proportions merit high praise. In the midst of such plenty are the landscapes that inspired Renaissance artists Leonardo da Vinci, Raphael, and Michelangelo, framed by vineyards, olive groves, and neat rows of cypress trees.
In each of Italy’s twenty-one regions resides unique character and charm, stemming from the customs, climate, and terrain. But it is centrally huddled Tuscany, Umbria, Marche, and Lazio, awash with old-world rhythms and a colorful air, that have given life to the style known as Italian Country, which has since proven irresistible. And no wonder. Despite exterior trappings or how intimate the enclosures, interiors resound with an unabashed reverence for beauty. Yet settings are distinctly Italian: expressive, airy, and, most importantly, inviting. Much like the country’s undulating cities and towns, each has its own easy way of welcoming the steady flow of relatives and close friends central to life.
Never mind that Italy has a staggering number of congenial places to dine—some pricey, but also a wealth of reasonable ristoranti and even less-expensive small trattorie, or taverns, not to mention unpretentious osterie, or wine bars in busy neighborhoods that lend themselves to people-watching. Stopping by each other’s homes is practically a daily ritual (which, in fact, may be why young men in Italy are all too often known as mama’s boys), if not to share lingering meals, then for the sole purpose of doing nothing more than relaxing, thus preserving the tradition of dolce far niente, or sweet idleness, while sipping espresso.
Though tastes differ, unforgettable colors, sensuous textures, and fluid, natural fabrics—including revered Fortuny prints now printed on cotton only—mingle with customary Italian flair, gently jarring spaces that might otherwise appear too serious with a sense of delight.
Somehow, the sturdy silhouettes of finely crafted commodes, tables, and chairs with a former life manage to speak for themselves, without any one piece being too forward. Chandeliers worthy of the country’s artisans flicker in eye-catching mirrors hung opposite one another, giving even small quarters more presence—though size, Italians argue, has nothing to do with style.
Since there is an aversion to heavy window treatments, tiebacks are shunned in favor of free-hanging curtains with minimum fuss. Memorably patterned stone floors meanwhile bask in one another’s reflected glow, rarely spoiled by rugs.
Faithful to their heritage, antique tapestries meander through unpretentious villa halls, accompanied by cherished centuries-old paintings, some in need of cleaning. In truth, there is little doubt these days that most families live amid furnishings collected over several lifetimes, thoughtfully handed down generation after generation by caring ancestors—as if confirming once and for all what Americans have known all along: being the favorite has its privileges.
While next of kin may vie for a desk piped in history or covet a mosaic-topped table and a commode with marqueterie finer than another, in reality, living spaces are generally sparsely furnished and, almost without exception, shy of pretension. Quite simply, in Italy affectation has no place. And neither does clutter that might deter guests from moving about freely during, say, a pre-opera buffet.
True to tradition, comfort abounds—meaning that artistic merit does not take precedence over indulging family or pampering friends. Beside a chair, there is always a table big enough for a glass of wine and small plate of cheese with sliced salami and olives; there are pillows to relax against; soft, clinging shawls to gather for added warmth; and table and floor lamps placed just so for ending the day with La Repubblica or another of Italy’s well-known daily papers. (Low lights are for entertaining only.) There is even a chair next to the bathtub for stacking towels, placing a robe, or relaxing upon while the tub fills.
Although the commonplace has never received the universal admiration of more important Italian pieces, the deft layering of the conventional with the glamourous makes stylish living look effortless, which is no small feat.
As it is, stately andirons, antique altarsticks, priceless clocks, and libraries of leather-bound books project an air of authority, while firescreens, planters, close-ups of family and friends, and bountiful bouquets, smartly arranged, plump settings with backdrops for handling the cares, concerns, and aspirations of everyday life.
Without fail, and without the princely prices of Le Sirenuse and other luxury hotels on the thirty-mile stretch of Amalfi Coast, impeccably pressed linens stretch across beds, hinting of femininity. Down-filled bolsters sprawl beneath soft down pillows as feather beds snuggle against mattresses. Modest box springs appear tightly wrapped in blanket covers, shielded from prying eyes.
Given that Italians balk at like furnishings lacking character, most cannot imagine awakening in a bed flanked by identical night tables covered with similar lamps, resting near a matching dresser or chests of drawers. Not that the younger generation, any less than their parents, does not consider nonna’s armoire a wardrobe necessity. It does. But filling empty rooms with shiny new suites without any mystique, rather than mismatched antique pieces, is not something they understand.
To their way of thinking, it is unpardonable to live in a house full of rootless pieces with no ties to the past or any sentiment attached. Furnishings must be as meaningful as they are decorative, with the secrets and bruises of history opening a window into the Italian way of life.