When you’re all alone, you’re often the closest to your real self—to your true inner radiance. Many human beings are afraid of or uncomfortable with being alone. But what if you think of it this way: When you’re alone you’re spending quality time with you!
I want to let you in on a little secret. Because human beings are made of energy, which knows no bounds, you are never truly alone anyway! First of all, I’m always around. The consciousness of the Universe never fades. And did you know that when you think strongly of another human being, you are connecting with them energetically? Being alone is just how it looks on the outside—really, human beings are constantly in touch with each other.
The funny thing is, the more you can be OK with the idea of being by yourself, the more relaxed your energy will be about it; and that means you’re more free to attract happy relationships with other people.
When someone seeks friendships and relationships from a place of trying to avoid loneliness, those relationships become built on an energy mixed with fear. In the long run, that isn’t healthy or happy for them or the other person. It tends toward dysfunction and imbalance. When you’re OK with being alone, on the other hand, you attract relationships that are based in love and joy; this is because you know you don’t need them—you choose them.
Spending quality time with you can be a great joy. Besides, if you never spend time alone it’s tricky to really know yourself and your true deeper desires. Try spending some time with yourself, and notice how much more centered you feel afterward.
XOXO
The Universe