Forgiving your lover’s exes is one of the most powerful things you can do for a relationship. Thinking about them will just keep their energy and attachments around, and I’m sure you don’t need or want a bunch of other people in your relationship.
So, take a few minutes, find a quiet place, and relax your mind; then close your eyes and visualize them all standing in front of you. Even if you don’t know your lover’s exes, just set the intention that they’re represented there. Now, tell them you’re sorry if you’ve ever sent them any negative intentions or energy, and that you hope they can forgive you. And if they’ve ever caused you negativity, tell them that you forgive them. Ask them to please release any emotional claims or attachments to your lover.
Now visualize your lover right next to you and see a ray of pure light coming down and enveloping them, cutting all and any negative cords that they’re ready to let go of. You might even feel the palpable shift as this happens. This is severing all the energy cords to those old relationships.
Now, send a thank-you to everyone involved, a blessing for their onward journey into new love and new relationships. You and your lover are now free to be “alone together” without other people’s energies and emotional attachments getting tangled up in the mix. Enjoy!
XOXO
The Universe