Many people live with a concept of self that’s completely outdated, and this can constitute a block to love. Things like which social circle they belonged to in high school, whether they were the eldest or youngest sibling, if they went bankrupt a decade ago, if they got an A in college or flunked out, if they divorced, or if they lost their job... Relating to those things keeps the same old energies and situations around.
Let me tell you something—you are more than what you’ve experienced, no matter what you’ve experienced! More than who you’ve been told by the world around you. You are infinite! You are a soul of light living in a human body. Please be good to yourself and resolve now to let go of any old negativity or limitation you’re still relating to.
To do this, spend five minutes writing down all your “shortcomings” and your “weaknesses” and regrets and limitations on a piece of paper. Then, get a new piece of paper and write out all new, positive affirmations. Things like: “I am learning and growing more and more every day; I am capable of anything I set my mind to; I am becoming more and more aligned with my true self every day; I am attracting more and more joy and love into my life; I am always evolving; I am a unique and valuable person; I am always deserving of love...” The most positive and uplifting things…
Then, tear up the first list of the negative stuff. Burn it in a safe place or throw it in the garbage. Really know that this is a turning point—that you’re letting go of all the old, limiting stuff for good now. What this does is release the past and anywhere you’ve kept yourself out of love, so you can move forward into a new, happier chapter. It’s not about who you have been—it’s all about who you choose to be. Enjoy!
XOXO
The Universe