I met you over twenty-six years ago.
Your strange name preceded you.
Your fanciful grandmother
had named you ‘dewdrop’, but
your matter-of-fact manner
was dew-like only in
its noticeable transparency
though it did hide your simplicity.
At that birthday party
of a new acquaintance’s
in a first-floor room overlooking
a medieval street,
a papier mâché butterfly
stuck vividly to a wall,
I asked to see you again.
You confess you were surprised.
Self-contradictorily,
you said later I’d always felt like family.
Your encounters with my writing
were undecided. My
nerves were jangly. At what
point you became the one
with whom I’d share my words
first, I can’t remember.
The inaugural sacrifice
you made was typing out
my dissertation on a college computer.
I’m beholden to you
for deleting unneeded words
when I can’t find a way of losing them.
You are merciless, sometimes
indiscriminate, about
banishing objects, even books,
you consider clutter, but
are judicious trimming content.
In spite, or maybe because,
of you astringently correcting facts, we have
been reasonably at peace for twenty-five years.