Chapter 6
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Success is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.
—Winston Churchill
Lukas was a talented kid to whom most things seemed to come fairly naturally. He excelled at just about everything he attempted: he played saxophone in the school band, was a starting shortstop on the varsity baseball team, made the honor roll, and received a second-place ribbon in the citywide student art fair for an image of rain he'd designed on his computer. The one thing Lukas couldn't handle, however, was adversity. When the going got tough, Lukas was gone. For example, despite his considerable athletic skills, he refused to play any position other than shortstop, and he wouldn't try out for any sports other than baseball. When he wasn't named first sax in the band, he quit. Academically, Lukas did well, in part because he spent a lot of time finding out exactly what the teacher sought. His focus was avoiding failure, as even the smallest failure overwhelmed him. Lukas quit participating when he stopped succeeding.
Juanita wasn't the best athlete or the strongest student, but she was the one every coach wanted on the team and every teacher wanted in the classroom. What Juanita may have lacked in scholastic talent or coordination she more than compensated for with her tenacity, perseverance, and resilience. To her, success meant that she was ready for the next challenge. She was all about reducing her time in the mile and raising her score on the test, even though she knew it meant frustration along the way. She was fearless, and she could always generate an extra bit of energy and dose of determination. In a word, Juanita had grit. She never gave up and pushed herself not just to realize her potential but to perform better than anyone could reasonably expect.
Figure 6.1 shows the self-assessment survey for grit. Take a moment to answer the questions before continuing with this chapter.
Note: The following survey is designed to provide a sense of your feelings about grit. It is a tool to elicit reflection and discussion, not a scientifically valid instrument. Directions: Place a 1 (strongly disagree), 2 (disagree), 3 (not sure), 4 (agree), or 5 (strongly agree) after each item.
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Note: You can find a grit self-assessment survey for students in Appendix A. |
As I note in Fostering Grit (2013a), grit is tenacity, perseverance, hanging in, and not ever giving up. In an NPR interview, Angela Duckworth calls grit a "combination of passion and perseverance for very long-term goals" (NPR staff, 2015).
Grit is found all around us; it is a factor in just about everyone's against-the-odds success. When you talk to people who've "made it" (however that is defined), they invariably talk about how their accomplishments stem from their failure to give up and their ability to hang in—their tenacity, or grit. Occasionally, grit is even featured in the entertainment industry. Have you read Laura Hillenbrand's Unbroken (2010) or seen the film adaptation? The story is both inspiring and daunting. If it were a fictional account, we'd say that it was too far-fetched to be believable. However, Unbroken is the true story of Louis Zamperini, a 1936 Olympic athlete who was also an Army Air Corps bombardier in World War II. His life is a testament to grit: he survived on a life raft for 47 days in the Pacific Ocean after his plane was shot down and was held captive in a Japanese prisoner-of-war camp for years. Whether challenged by fellow athletes, ocean tides, sharks, or prison guards, Zamperini refused to be defeated. He may have never used the word grit, but he embodied it.
Fortunately, we're not likely to face the challenges Zamperini surmounted, but we will need grit nonetheless in our lives—and we need to develop it in our students. In all endeavors, the achievements of highly successful people do not come easily, regardless of how effortless they may appear. They possess their skills, talents, and acumen because they work diligently, persevering constantly to improve; they refuse to give up and are unwilling to settle for anything less than success. They encounter frustrations and failures along the way, but they see them as obstacles, not walls. In the words of Jon Sinclair, people who achieve do so because they know that "Failure is a bruise. Not a tattoo."
Thinking about failure as being associated with success may appear counterintuitive. After all, we recognize the grace and natural ease that is obvious in the performance of highly successful people. Whether it's admiring a pianist as his hands dance across the keyboard, applauding a basketball player as she dribbles behind her back, or appreciating a poet as she brings words to life, we are in awe of both the skills on display and on how naturally they seem to be delivered. It seems as if the people we're admiring were born being able to perform at a high level. In the workplace, we see executives who balance myriad demands, make hard choices, get the job done, and connect with people throughout the organization. "What a gift they have," we think. "Their success comes so effortlessly!" Of course, that's completely wrong. The dexterity that is apparent in their success is the result of hours and hours of effort and responding to setbacks—grit.
Bonnie Barczykowski, the chief executive officer of the Girl Scouts of Eastern Missouri, says, "The greatest accomplishments in my career weren't the ‘quick wins' but rather the ones that took resolve, determination and a few failures along the way" (personal communication, January 19, 2016).
Likewise, Elizabeth Towner, a psychologist at Wayne State University who does research on eating disorders, says, "My current position as a researcher is a constant test of my grit. My job depends on getting grants, and I am competing with hundreds of other scientists for a super-tiny pot of money. In my career path, even the most talented scientists are likely to only have one or two grants funded for every dozen that they submit. If I let every rejection knock me down, I'd have quit a long time ago" (personal communication, January 18, 2016).
Sharonica Hardin, the superintendent of the University City School District in St. Louis, says,
My educational and personal journey is one that truly represents grit. As a teenager, I overcame significant obstacles and persevered despite criticism from others, including some adults. Educationally, I always consider myself a work in progress. I relish the opportunity to learn from and with amazingly smart and talented people of all walks of life. I am an individual who has learned immensely from my failures. Grit is what helps to shape who I am and how I show up every day for the children and adults that I serve. (personal communication, January 19, 2016)
Another powerful example of grit comes from Jeff Lowell, an organ transplant surgeon at St. Louis Children's Hospital (personal communication, January 24, 2016):
Staring into the deep, dark hole on the left of the upper abdomen, after the life-requiring liver has been removed during the transplant procedure, the clock starts. One hour to get the replacement liver sewn in. Go. Not infrequently lots of complicating, perhaps impossible confabulators arise—the patient's low blood pressure, low or high heart rate, lack of blood clotting; environmental stresses such as noise, very high operating-room temperatures (to help promote blood clotting) and very cold hands (as ice is placed on the liver and in the abdomen to help keep the transplanted liver metabolically inactive until blood has been returned to it); and fatigue (most commonly in the middle of the night). All of these variables conspire against you and your patient. At times they can seem impossible to surmount.
But I will.
Fight. Move. Act. Among the many factors that successfully bring the entire transplant team together is being time-sensitive: getting things done one by one, sucking it up, focusing, drawing on your training and experience, and moving forward with purpose.
Blood restored. Cold, shrunken gray replacement liver has in just a few heart-beats become pink, fully healthy, and functioning. Breathe.
"What's next?"
Former professional basketball player Bob Pettit is another example. Many years ago, when the Hawks still played in St. Louis, Pettit was their star player; indeed, he was one of the top two or three players in the NBA. I attended a number of Hawks games, and it was always a treat to see Pettit perform his magic on the court. Whenever I saw the team play, regardless of whether they won or lost, it was obvious to everyone that Pettit was a gifted athlete, someone to whom playing basketball came naturally. He was so skilled that it almost seemed that he wasn't working that hard.
But there's more to his story.
At the time, I was friends with a woman whose father worked for the St. Louis Police Department. He was responsible for securing the auditorium where the Hawks' home games were held after everyone left. My friend complained about how late her dad would come home on game nights—usually after midnight.
It turns out that after each home game, after the fans had left and after the rest of the players had showered and gone home, Pettit would inevitably return to the court and spend an hour alone, methodically shooting hoops. One of the best players in the league spent an hour refining his skills after everyone else had gone home. Pettit clearly possessed physical talent, but his focus and effort are what made him exceptional.
Similarly, Michael Jordan, arguably the best basketball player of all time, talks about grit when he says, "Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it."
In a 2016 New York Times column by Adam Bryant, an interview with Anthony Foxx, the U.S. transportation secretary, affirms this focus. Foxx discusses what he seeks when he hires: "I'd rather hire someone who's maybe not a genius, but they will dig in on any assignment. I'd rather have resilience than almost any other quality. Competence is obviously critical, but a lot of people who are really smart actually end up walking away from some pretty tough assignments because they're worried about whether they can do them or not."
In reflecting on the role that grit has played in his career, jazz pianist Peter Martin notes:
When done well, the art of jazz improvisation comes off to the listener as a thrilling and honest artistic expression of the human condition, effortlessly channeled through the artist's instrument live and in the moment. And that's as it should be, as we are first and foremost entertainers. However, the skill set required to effectively improvise in the moment and not have it sound like random notes is quite detailed and involved. A complete technical command of one's instrument, advanced ear training, and a knowledge base of thousands of tunes, riffs, and chords are just some of the prerequisites to becoming a capable jazz performer. And the only way to acquire these skills is countless hours in the practice room. The painful part is listening to yourself for the hundreds of hours it takes until it starts to sound OK, and that's where having grit comes in to play. Because if you don't have the perseverance to push through the difficult skill acquisition period of tortured sounding improvisation, you'll never get to the promised land of being on the bandstand and having a shot at delivering a thrilling live jazz improvisation. And if you make it there, then you've got a chance to showcase your "talent" and make some magic happen for you and the audience. (personal communication, February 3, 2016)
What successful surgeons, athletes, poets, musicians, broadcasters, moms, dads, researchers, and educators all have in common is grit. Having grit means possessing an attitude that embraces challenges, willingly stepping out of the comfort zone, and never giving up. Angela Duckworth, the professor whose work pushed grit to public consciousness, defines it as "the tendency to sustain interest in and effort toward very long-term goals" (Duckworth, Peterson, Matthews, & Kelly, 2007). The long-term aspect is integral to Duckworth's definition, and while agreeing with her, I focus more on developing students' shorter-term grit to teach this attitude.
My journey toward grit began on the football field at Roosevelt High School in St. Louis when I was a high school freshman. Playing on an organized team and performing publicly for the first time in my life, I was pushed to go way beyond my comfort zone, failed, was embarrassed, failed again, became frustrated—and continued trying. To this day, I can see and feel the opposing tackle humiliating me as I tried to block him, but I also remember knowing that I could not give up. (Thank you, Coach Rogers!)
I was never as good of a football player as I wished (or as I remember!), but I definitely became better through my perseverance, and the lessons I learned back then carried over to other challenges in my life. Later, I became a better student, teacher, and principal because of the grit that I began to learn on that football field, even though at the time I wasn't fully aware of what was happening. (In retrospect, I know that my learning trajectory and pace would have been much better if I had been conscious of grit and its benefits.)
Decades after my football experiences, I gained a renewed appreciation for grit when I read Paul Tough's 2011 article in New York Times Magazine, "What If the Secret to Success Is Failure?" Tough wrote about noncognitive skills and cited Duckworth's research on the importance of grit. For example, he noted that she examined students who, though academically prepared for college, had their progress there halted due to difficulty coping with life challenges (e.g., family crises, difficulties with a teacher, the social pressures of college life). Duckworth identified grit as a key factor in whether or not students could overcome these challenges. She found that the students with grit were far more likely to succeed in school and those without it were at a much greater risk of dropping out. (See Duckworth explain her thinking and research.) Tough also wrote about how a student's low score on the "grit test" (a self-scoring inventory created by Duckworth) was a better predictor of who would drop out of the United States Military Academy at West Point than grade point averages or test results. (Tough further explores the importance of grit, as well as the value of other success skills, in his books, How Children Succeed [2012] and Helping Children Succeed [2016].)
Tough's description of Duckworth's work resonated with me. For some time, I had been talking and writing about success in life versus success in school, and the concept of grit fed my concern that in focusing on standardized tests and limiting ourselves to traditional academics, we fall short in preparing students with the skills and attitudes they will need after they graduate. In short order, I wrote two columns for Educational Leadership on the topic of grit: "Got Grit?" (2012) and "Good Failures" (2013b).
Simply put, teaching for grit begins with educators embracing a new attitude toward both student and teacher success. No longer can we judge ourselves simply on how many of our students do well academically, on the smiles that they give us, or on the accolades we receive from parents and peers. These things make us feel good, but they are not sufficient.
Don't misunderstand me: Students should do well in school, they should give us hugs and high-fives to show their satisfaction, and parents and peers should be pleased. But there's more because when you teach for grit, you have different goals; you change what is on the scorecard. Beyond focusing on academics and curriculum content, teaching for grit means that you're also addressing attitudes about what it takes to succeed. Focusing on the importance of grit is not to minimize potential or talent. Rather, it's to indicate that any potential that we possess remains just potential unless we work relentlessly to improve, persevering through failures and frustrations.
To quote Brené Brown (2015), "there can be no innovation, learning, or creativity without failure" (p. xxv). Grit gives us the courage to take risks and to fail because we know that failure is a necessary ingredient in ultimate success. Brown again,
If we're going to put ourselves out there and love with our whole hearts, we're going to experience heartbreak. If we're going to try new, innovative things, we're going to fail. If we're going to risk caring and engaging, we're going to experience disappointment. It doesn't matter if our hurt is caused by a painful breakup or we're struggling with something smaller, like an offhand comment by a colleague or an argument with an in-law. If we can learn how to feel our way through these experiences and own our own stories of struggle, we can write our own brave endings. (p. xx)
Parents intuitively understand that it is important for their children to develop grit. This was made very clear to me when I shared my enthusiasm about grit in one of my weekly family newsletters. Despite my efforts to make my newsletters interesting and humorous (at least in my opinion), I rarely received feedback on what I wrote. But parent after parent after parent responded by expressing support for our school's efforts to develop grit in their children. Subsequently I offered a Parent Education Evening on grit (and it was attended by so many families that we needed to bring in extra chairs!).
Grit has been a very hot topic in education for several years now. I've made numerous presentations on the subject in schools, at educational conferences, and to work groups. My 2013 book Fostering Grit has been well received and has generated lots of discussion about what educators can do to help their students develop grit. Many educators recognize that it's not enough to teach students to master content; we must also teach them to hang in when things are tough. That's particularly important in today's "trophy society," a climate that embraces positive reinforcement almost irrespective of performance.
Grit is more complex than it might appear to be, and educators need to emphasize "good grit" and "smart grit." Teaching good grit means that we should ensure that students use grit for the right purposes. Smart grit means that we need to teach students to recognize those times when stopping the pursuit of a goal is wise because the gain is not worth the cost.
There has also been a pushback against grit. Surprisingly, some take emphasizing grit to mean we should ignore external factors that can contribute strongly to student outcomes. Tyrone C. Howard, the associate dean for equity and inclusion at UCLA, says: "We are asking students to change a belief system without changing the situation around them" (Sullivan, 2015). The article also notes that Howard said, "It can be irresponsible and unfair to talk about grit without talking about structural challenges … referring to the recent interest in interventions tied to the concepts of grit and perseverance" (Sullivan, 2015).
Similarly, in an Education Week article titled "Is Grit Racist?" Benjamin Herold alleges that developing grit "has harmed low-income students by crowding out a focus on providing children with the supports they deserve and the more-flexible educational approach enjoyed by many of their more affluent counterparts" (2015). I responded to the article in an open letter to the editor, noting that grit is important for everyone. (You can read my response here.)
I appreciate that some students come to us from challenging situations, and I understand that too often schools and school systems fail to understand or meet students' needs. We cannot ignore the difficult circumstances in which some children live and the impact that this has on them. But all students benefit from having grit; regardless of whether a student is on the honor roll or struggling, she gains when she is able to continue her efforts and resist the temptation to give up. Fostering grit is not a zero-sum game that requires us to ignore the development of other skills in students. As Mike Fleetham of the Thinking Classroom notes, "Many students from low-[socioeconomic] backgrounds are naturally gritty (they've had to be). Our challenge now is to respect and apply this characteristic to academic learning" (personal communication, December 12, 2015).
One valid concern about developing grit is that doing so can run counter to a belief that students should enjoy school as much as possible. Not surprisingly, it is difficult for teachers and principals who have spent their careers finding ways for students to succeed to now embrace that some degree of frustration and failure is necessary so that students can learn how to persevere. And formal teacher and principal evaluations notwithstanding, the reality is that we judge our success as educators on whether our students succeed. But because we understand the importance of fostering grit, we must get beyond a naïve mindset that says our focus should only be on ensuring that students do well on tests. It is in our students' interests for us to occasionally create learning roadblocks so that they can learn, under our guidance and with our care, how to respond when they fall short of expectations. After all, what better place is there for students to meet frustration than in a school setting where they are cared for?
Of course, for many students, learning roadblocks occur naturally. Our task then is to teach them how to develop the grit they need to overcome the challenges they face. This is easier said than done. Some students have learned to ignore frustrations and accept failures. They don't use grit because they don't see success as a realistic possibility. For these students, we need to teach grit in small steps, helping them see how it can benefit them in areas besides school. We can also help them see how the grit they use in other areas—perhaps caring for a younger sibling or pursuing art, music, or sports—can be transferred to scholastic tasks.
In contrast, students for whom school is a series of unbridled successes require more dramatic measures. Duckworth notes that in a study on Ivy League undergraduates, "SAT scores and grit were, in fact, inversely correlated" (2016, p. 14). For these students, it is essential that we engineer frustrations and failures so that they can learn to respond to them. Learning grit is like learning anything else: You learn it by doing it. I've told my faculty that if a student graduates from our school without failing at something, then we have failed that student. (You may not be surprised to learn that this comment created a bit of controversy at first, but it also led to many rich discussions about success, learning, and our roles as educators.) Whether students are struggling in or coasting through school, one thing is certain: They all need our unwavering care, support, and encouragement.
Angela Duckworth described four psychological assets shared by people with lots of grit:
I see no contradiction between fostering grit and eliciting smiles. I endorse educators pursuing grit with their students despite the fact that the school I led for decades had "joyful learning" as one of its four pillars. I believe that school should be fun, and that balancing grit with joyful learning is possible when we approach grit as a dialogue—something that is done with students and with their parents, not done to them.
In Fostering Grit (Hoerr, 2013a), I identify six steps for developing this crucial formative skill in students:
These steps can be applied regardless of students' age, subject matter, or school context. The sequence creates a setting in which students can take risks, be frustrated, and even fail, all within a context of trust and care. In each of these steps, we must remember that fostering grit is a dialogue: we must be sure to communicate what we are doing and why to students and their parents. Gaining grit stems from collaborative efforts by teachers and students (even if it doesn't feel like this to the student when he is in the middle of a frustrating experience).
The school environment has two components: physical and psychological. Physically, schools should celebrate students' progress, positive trajectories, and tenacity. There's definitely a place for highlighting success by displaying championship trophies, the names of national merit semifinalists, and the honor roll, but there should also be room for applauding effort and progress. On sports teams, for example, why not accompany the Most Valuable Player award with one for Most Improved Player or Most Gritty Player? Why not recognize students who have made the biggest gains throughout the semester regardless of where they rank? Physical recognition of progress—what's in the halls and on the walls?—and achievement specific to each of the eight intelligences is critical as well.
Psychologically, the school community should embrace grit and celebrate stick-to-it-iveness. Teachers and principals should note its importance at graduation ceremonies, back-to-school nights, and faculty meetings. Consider the following comment from Desiree, the parent of a student at New City School in St. Louis, Missouri: "Grit has given me, as a parent, a different perspective on my daughter's learning difficulties. In the long run, my hope is that she'll be a stronger person who appreciates the rewards her hard work has brought and apply her grittiness to all aspects of her life." We also must commend educators who have shown grit. And because we measure what we value, we must carefully think about how we might reflect students' grit on report cards.
Educators need to take the lead in reminding everyone—students, parents, sometimes even colleagues and administrators—that learning to respond well to frustration and failure is a pivotal life skill. Of course, this means that we must experience frustration and failure ourselves. We need to step outside of our comfort zones and consciously work to develop our grit. Establishing the expectation that grit is important means that I focused on it in faculty meetings and parent communications. In my weekly family newsletters, I often included quotes by famous people that spoke to the importance of grit and links to articles on the subject. At faculty meetings, I sometimes asked teachers to meet in small groups and discuss what they had done to develop grit in their students. Teachers also talked about the importance of grit with their students and students' parents.
We must be able to describe grit in various ways so that we can recognize the skill in different contexts. Tenacity, resilience, pluck, stick-to-it-iveness, backbone, guts, courage, bravery, resoluteness, intrepidness, and spunk are all terms with meanings very similar to grit. It's helpful for students to routinely use these terms when they plan and reflect on their efforts. Educators must note the differences among the terms as well, specifying that grit refers specifically to overcoming frustration or failure.
One oxymoronic term that I use quite often because it is both explanatory and helpfully bumptious is good failures. None of us want to fail, but a good failure is one from which we learn. The term conveys the positive attributes of grit and can encourage students to step out of their comfort zones and take risks. (One year I had t-shirts made for faculty with Good Failures printed on them; some teachers told me that the shirts led to some good conversations when they wore them out and about in the community.)
Before teachers intentionally create frustrating experiences for students, it is important that they prepare their students for what they are doing. For example, on a Friday, a teacher might remind the class that Monday is going to be Grit Day, so the classroom tone and expectations will purposely be more challenging than usual. "You're not going to like me much on Monday," the teacher might say, "and that's OK." By the end of Grit Day, most students will be fed up and ready to quit, which is when the teacher can help them reflect on and learn from their challenges.
Our approaches to creating frustrations for students should vary according to their multiple intelligences. At my school, for example, while we use MI to capitalize on kids' strengths, we occasionally work to develop grit by forcing students to use their weakest intelligence when learning or showing what they know.
Sometimes, educators express concern about jeopardizing students' academic standing by teaching them grit; that's a fair concern. But there are creative ways around this worry—from not factoring in the lowest score when averaging grades, to forcing students to use a type of intelligence that isn't graded traditionally, to simply not including grit lessons in the final grade. A student who has never received a grade other than an A might be devastated by a B+, but the whole point is to teach him or her how to channel disappointment productively.
Strong educators are always monitoring their students' reactions—not only to understand what and how they're learning but to gain an awareness of their attitudes toward learning. Thus, teachers must be cognizant of the moments when their students become frustrated. The time to teach grit is when the student wants to quit! We need to help students realize that the learning journey is very important and that the right attitude can turn a regular failure into a good failure.
After an exercise in grit—when the clouds have parted and the sun is shining again—teachers should ask students to reflect on how they felt throughout the experience. What did they do when they first experienced frustration? How did they respond when they were bored? What did they say to themselves to keep persevering? Most important, what did they learn that they will be able to use the next time they become frustrated or fail at something? As Deb Holmes, retired assistant superintendent from the Kirkwood School District in Missouri, says (personal communication, October 11, 2015), "We all benefit from considering what strengthens our persistence when we are challenged, and we are all challenged."
To help students reflect and compare reactions over time and across experiences, teachers might want to create a classroom rubric chart that allows students to determine their personal level of frustration. Figure 6.2 comes from Fostering Grit, but it would be best to use student input in creating one to be visibly hung on a classroom wall. Its presence would facilitate discussions about how students are feeling and responding to frustrations.
Source: Fostering Grit: How do I prepare my students for the real world? (p. 27), by T. R. Hoerr, 2013. Alexandria, VA: ASCD. Copyright 2013 by ASCD.
If we are to successfully foster grit in our students, we must help them become agents in their learning. Regardless of their age, learning isn't something we do for or to them; rather, learning is something that we do with our students—after all, every one of us learns—and our students should be engaged partners in the process.
For all teachers:
For elementary teachers
The children in my class are gritty; their life experience has forced them to be. However, their grit doesn't always translate in the academic sense. For some, the classroom is one of the only places they feel safe, it is the only place where structures are not only in place but adhered to. In this sense, their status within the classroom is deeply important to them and failure is not an option. I recognized that the reluctance of some of my most vulnerable children to take risks was having an impact on their learning. I implemented a grit jar, I invited a mascot (Paula the Persevering Panda) and wrote a Grit Assembly which the children performed (complete with gymnastics routine, this required grit from staff and students alike!). I slowly noticed a change in the children's attitude: they had the confidence to sweat over problems that would have previously triggered tears, they supported each other, and they surprised themselves with their ability. We had relapses and tantrums when a new handwriting scheme pushed everyone to the edge, but a nod towards the grit jar and a few encouraging words often were enough to make even the most risk averse student have a go.
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For principals:
Comfort Zone: Have you used the term with your kids lately? Recall, please, that at my grit presentation, I talked about how we all need to move out of our comfort zones, and that part of this process was explaining the term to your students and to their parents. The goal is for kids to understand and be able to say something like, "This is out of my comfort zone, but I'm going to try it anyway." Likewise, comfort zone is a key factor in our parent education, I am convinced. Please use it in your teaching, in your classroom, and in your Parent Letter.
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