Addendum

Personality Types Inventory
(from Making Love Last Forever by Gary Smalley)
How to Take and Score the Inventory

  1. For each temperament type, circle the positive traits (in the left column) that sound the most like you—as you are at home. It will probably help to cover the right-hand column as you take the inventory, to help you focus on the positives. Do not score yourself as you behave at work. (If you want to evaluate your “at work” tendencies, take the test again later, with that environment—or any other—in mind.) For now, ignore the right-hand column.

  2. For each trait, add the number of circled traits (in the left column) and then double that number. This is your score.

  3. To graph your temperament mix, mark your score for each temperament type on the graph with a large dot. If you want, draw a line to connect the dots.

LION Temperament Characteristics

Likes authority Too direct or demanding
Takes charge Pushy; can step in front of others
Determined Overbearing
Confident Cocky
Firm Unyielding
Enterprising Takes big risks
Competitive Cold-blooded
Enjoys challenges Avoids relations
Problem-solver Too busy
Productive Overlooks feelings; do it now!
Bold Insensitive
Purposeful; goal-driven Imbalanced; workaholic
Decision-maker Unthoughtful of others’ wishes
Adventurous Impulsive
Strong-willed Stubborn
Independent; self-reliant Avoids people and seeking help
Controlling Bossy; overbearing
Persistent Inflexible
Action-oriented Unyielding

“Let’s do it now!”

Lion Score (double the number circled)————

OTTER Temperament Characteristics

Enthusiastic Overbearing
Takes risks Dangerous and foolish
Visionary Daydreamer
Motivator Manipulator
Energetic Impatient
Very verbal Attacks under pressure
Promoter Exaggerates
Friendly; mixes easily Shallow relationships
Enjoys popularity Too showy
Fun-loving Too flippant; not serious
Likes variety Too scattered
Spontaneous Not focused
Enjoys change Lacks follow-through
Creative; goes for new ideas Too unrealistic; avoids details
Group-oriented Bored with “process”
Optimistic Doesn’t see details
Initiator Pushy
Infectious laughter Obnoxious
Inspirational Phony

“Trust me! It’ll work out!”

Otter score (double the number circled)————

GOLDEN RETRIEVER Temperament Characteristics

Sensitive feelings Easily hurt
Loyal Misses opportunities
Calm; even-keeled Lacks enthusiasm
Nondemanding Weakling; pushover
Avoids confrontations Misses honest intimacy
Enjoys routine Stays in rut
Dislikes change Not spontaneous
Warm and relational Fewer deep friends
Gives in Codependent
Accommodating Indecisive
Cautious humor Overly cautious
Adaptable Loses identity
Sympathetic Holds on to others’ hurts
Thoughtful Can be taken advantage of
Nurturing Ears get smashed
Patient Crowded out by others
Tolerant Weaker convictions
Good listener Attracted to hurting people
Peacemaker Holds personal hurts inside

“Let’s keep things the way they are.”

Golden retriever score (double the number circled)————

BEAVER Temperament Characteristics

Reads all instructions Afraid to break rules
Accurate Too critical
Consistent Lacks spontaneity
Controlled Too serious
Reserved Stuffy
Predictable Lacks variety
Practical Not adventurous
Orderly Rigid
Factual Picky
Conscientious Inflexible
Perfectionistic Controlling
Discerning Negative on new opportunities
Detailed Rarely finishes a project
Analytical Loses overview
Inquisitive Smothering
Precise Strict
Persistent Pushy
Scheduled Boring
Sensitive Stubborn

“How was it done in the past?”

Beaver score (double the number circled)————

Chart your results on the next page.

CHARTING THE RESULTS

How did you do? Remember this isn’t a pass-fail test. This evaluation simply shows your tendencies and traits. As you look at your charted score, you may see a blend of all four categories. That’s fine. Or you may see two scores significantly higher than the others. Or you may have one category that’s head and shoulders above the other three. No none pattern is “correct.”

Now take note of the right-hand column extreme for each of your circled characteristics. This might be how your positive traits are perceived by your family or friends.

Lions are leaders, decisive, bottom line, problem-solvers, not conversational.

Otters are fun-loving, entertainers, net workers, motivators, creative, talkers.

Retrievers are loving, nurturing, loyal, good listeners, encouragers.

Beavers are hard-working, detailed, accurate, focused on quality.

Consciously work to become more aware of your natural tendencies. Go for a healthy balance, tempering any extreme problem area, focus on your strengths and learn to cultivate the strengths of less dominant personality traits.

Some suggestions for each personality type:

Lions: Be softer and more gentle and include others when making decisions.

Otters: Think before you speak, and consider consequences before you act.

Retrievers: Practice saying no and making firm decisions.

Beavers: Learn to relax and don’t expect others to do things just like you.

Adapted by permission from Making Love Last Forever, by Gary Smalley (Thomas Nelson).