In this position, the woman takes the man’s lingam fully into her mouth (also known as “deep-throat”).
Men who are well endowed can prove to be a challenge for some women. Try experimenting with different positions—fellatio can be performed while kneeling before your lover as he sits on the edge of the bed, he can lean against a wall, or you can both lie down. To see which way works best for sliding the man’s lingam as far down the throat as you’re comfortable with, try having him stand at the end of the bed as you lie on either your stomach or your back. If you sit in a rocking chair while he stands before you, the gentle rocking may entice his lingam to slip further down your throat.
Practice opening the back of the throat by pretending to yawn. Remember to breathe deeply and slowly through your nose. Practice holding your breath and relaxing your throat at the same time so that you can feel relaxed when performing fellatio.