The Kiss of the Crow is, in fact, what most people know as the “69” position, in which lovers give and receive oral sex at the same time. With both lovers lying down on the bed, or on their sides, their faces are between each other’s legs. It can take some maneuvering for a couple to determine which position provides the best comfort and access, but once in place, the couple can stimulate each other’s genitals with lips, tongues, and fingers.
For people who are shy about giving or receiving oral sex, the Kiss of the Crow is a great way to experiment as there is no pressure to perform solo—both of you are pleasing each other at the same time. An added benefit to the Kiss of the Crow is that partners can mirror each other’s actions and excitement level.
Don’t worry about achieving perfect coordination. It’s absolutely fine if your partner is licking you fast while you’re licking slowly, or if one of you stops to enjoy the sensations for a moment.
It is a good thing if the woman can climax during oral sex, since many women may have difficulty reaching orgasm during intercourse. Many times, orgasms from oral sex are stronger then orgasms from intercourse, no matter what gender you are. Additionally, oral sex is safer than intercourse as it cannot lead to pregnancy.
You can try different sensations by sucking on ice cubes or a mint before oral sex. However, you should be aware that some types of toothpastes and mouthwashes may be more irritating to sensitive genital tissues than enjoyable.