The woman lies on her back, crossing her legs at the ankles. She pulls her legs up and keeps her thighs together, close to her chest. The woman’s crossed feet rest on the man’s chest as he kneels before her, placing his lingam into her yoni. He can hold her buttocks or hips to create friction.
The woman can pinch and stroke her man’s thighs or run her fingernails along his flesh. She can pull on his thighs to control his thrusts. She can also use the pressure of her feet against his chest to change the intensity of his lingam in her yoni. To leverage herself to meet his thrusts, she can put her arms on the bed.
The man can stroke her face or tug on her hair. He should look at her with loving passion, as she will feel very vulnerable.