The man and woman sit face-to-face. The man sits with his legs bent and the bottoms of his feet pressed together. The woman wraps her legs around the man’s neck—with the help of the man—and holds her toes with her hands while he penetrates her.
This position requires flexibility. People with back or leg problems or who are overweight should not attempt The Lotus. For women with large breasts, adjustments may need to be made to get comfortable.
Personal hygiene is always important—whether for matters of love or career. When you look and smell good, you feel good.
Always try to take at least a quick shower before you have sexual relations. Keep your personal grooming habits under control, however, as date night shouldn’t mean a two-hour preparation.
Keep hair clean and trimmed. Men should remember that a five o’clock shadow can be rough on a woman’s delicate flesh. And women should keep their legs clean-shaven, as well. These days, the trend is for both men and women to shave or wax at least part of their pubic hair, if not all. Furthermore, more and more men are waxing their chests and arms.
Feel free to do whatever works best for you and your partner, even if that means doing nothing at all. It’s important to discuss with your partner what turns both of you on—and off. Some women like their men hairy, while others prefer the smooth, clean feeling of a bare chest. Likewise, some men prefer hairy armpits or legs on a woman. In the end, pleasing your partner (and yourself!) is what matters most.