The man sits on the edge of the bed as the woman faces and straddles him. He puts his lingam into her yoni as they hold hands. Slowly, the woman leans back until she is hanging upside down. For balance, she can hook her legs around the man’s thighs.
Until this position is mastered, it will no doubt bring a lot of laughter.
Putting pillows on the floor can help nervous women be more relaxed as they lean back. The man must hold the woman firmly and confidently so she trusts he won’t drop her. The woman should be careful not to slide along the floor, which could cause them to lose balance. If there are loose throw rugs or slippery wooden floors, try this position somewhere with more traction.
The Trapeze won’t work well if the man is thin and the woman is heavy. For success with this position, the man must be strong enough to hold the woman’s full body weight in case she slips.
Bedroom talk should be open and honest and filled with compliments. Some people believe discussing sexual issues should be done outside of the bedroom. However, when issues are approached with tact and in the right manner, they can be addressed almost anywhere.
Try wording any issue you have in a positive tone while encouraging your partner to try something else instead (rather than continuing with whatever is bothering you). For example, rather than saying, “Don’t touch me like that,” try saying, “I wonder what it would be like if you gently licked my clitoris while putting your fingers inside of my vagina.”