The man and woman sit face-to-face. The woman raises one hand in the air and wraps her corresponding leg around the man’s waist. Mirroring her, the man places his hand against her hand in the air. He wraps his leg around her waist in the same manner, putting his lingam into her yoni. If possible, they each lift the foot of their other leg into the air, placing them on each other (not illustrated). They “peddle” against each other’s feet while staring into each other’s eyes.
This position is great fun to try, but only the most flexible partners will be able to both put their feet up against the other for peddling—and perform intercourse at the same time.
Women take longer then men to become aroused. The man can help by being gentle, charming, and complimentary. Little things, like opening the door or bringing her flowers can go a long way. He should touch his woman while listening to her and be generous with the compliments.
In lovemaking, a pleasant, relaxing, sensual atmosphere goes a long way. It’s always nice to keep fresh flowers out and to burn some incense. Playing romantic music in the background can also enhance the mood, and offering a foot or shoulder massage can help to connect physically.
Most importantly, a woman must feel she can trust her man. She needs to trust that he really is a kind, gentle man and she needs to trust that his desire is only for her.
Some couples have problems sending signals to each other, so small acts of affection can go a long way in showing love.