The man sits either with his legs loosely crossed or straight out in front of him with the woman sitting in his lap. He places his lingam into her yoni and she wraps her legs around his waist. They can wrap their arms around each other, or they can lean back slightly to stare into each other’s eyes.
Despite what many women may think, men need foreplay as well. Some men are turned on by just the sight of a naked woman and are ready to go. Some men need to turn off their brains and wind down from work or other concerns before they can begin to think about sex. Speaking soothingly to your man and giving lots of compliments will help ease him down.
Women should learn how to respect and enjoy a man’s lingam—it’s not just a matter of grabbing and pulling on it a few times to get him in the mood. Remember eye contact is always important. Throw in some pleasingly dirty talk, and above all, show enthusiasm.
As an aside, some men enjoy having their testicles and scrotum tugged, pulled, cupped, and caressed, while other men dislike having their testicles touched at all. Some men prefer that only their penis or testicles be touched at a certain time, and some men love having everything touched at the same time. Be certain to ask what turns your man on so that you can provide him with maximum stimulation.