The woman lies on her stomach with her legs slightly apart, her pelvis lifted slightly so that the man can enter her. The man lies flat over her, supporting himself on his arms, with his legs on the outside of her legs as he enters her.
The Pressing of the Elephant allows for full-body closeness. The position is named for the animal, and isn’t intended to refer to the woman’s yoni or anyone’s body size.
This is a slow and sensual position that is great in the morning, or when both partners are tired. The lazy, yet erotic pulse of this position brings a sense of closeness.
The man can brace himself up on his arms to kiss and nibble on his woman’s cheeks, eyes, ears, and neck. Slow sensuous nips, licks, and sucks can be highly arousing for both partners. He can also clasp his hands over hers, giving him a greater sense of dominance.
The woman can push herself up on her bended arms, tossing her head back, much like an elephant. As she pushes her head up, she can expose her neck and shoulder area for her man to kiss, suck, nibble, and nuzzle her. She can put pillows under her pelvis to raise her hips higher to meet her man and she can tilt her back or stick up her buttocks for deeper penetration.