The creation of The Road to Reality, my first book, was in itself a learning experience that helped me become the person I am today. When I began writing it, my life was in a holding pattern: like Chevy Chase in Vacation, I felt stuck in a never-ending roundabout, unable to find my way out. Writing this book proved to be the ideal exit—putting me on the road that led to higher ground.
A number of extraordinary and talented people were involved in paving the way. Melissa Rossi helped me map out the course of this book process and brought the details and the humor to life. Stephen Powers, President at Agape Media International, had the vision for the big picture and gave me a green light; he has been a delight to work with. I’m thrilled that Michael Bernard Beckwith kindly shared his light and insights in the afterword. My old pal from Survivor, Richard Hatch, (who, unlike me, withstood getting voted off the island) “cuts the ribbon” with his foreword. Agent Bill Gladstone saw my journey as an inspiration to others. Jordan Duvall, who created the cover, captured exactly the image I was seeking—of a woman embarking on a new journey. Graphic artist Araya Peralta drew the lovely map. Brian Solon helped me lay the foundation, organizing the information derived from interviews. Jill Kramer guided me through the editorial maze. Kelly Carter, a writer for People magazine whom I met on the boat to Pulau Tiga Island during the taping of the very first Survivor, has helped to keep me on course, proving to be a true friend who never wavered. Anthony William, my real life spirit guide, amazes and inspires me with his wisdom; every day he helps me see my path more clearly.
My siblings Steve, Vicki, and Lisa—my kindred spirits since birth—helped me recall fond moments from childhood; my half-brother Domenico kept me laughing, as he has since the days we shared a bedroom with Superman sheets on the beds. My father Dominick taught me that you have to roll up your sleeves and work for what you want in life. My mother was my rock: When I couldn’t find my way, she was my beacon of light, my best friend, my biggest fan, and most enthusiastic supporter, who I sadly lost along the journey. Not a minute goes by that she is not in my thoughts. My sons, James and Cameron, are my greatest accomplishments: my angels and my pillars of strength, they brighten every day letting me see life through their beautiful eyes.
And, of course, my road to reality would never have been the same without Mark Burnett, my ex-husband and the father of our children, who whisked the girl out of Long Island, and showed her the world, transforming life into a non-stop adventure; I’m grateful for that unforgettable part of my journey that he shared. And I’ll always be happy that my road to reality opened new doors, among them two projects that are now the focus of my life: Joan Valentine—A Foundation for Natural Cures, which explores alternative therapies to treat and prevent cancer, as well as theotherside.com, my new multimedia platform that is a gateway for transformation of mind, body, and spirit.
Finally, to all the women I’ve known, read about, watched, and shared experiences with over the years whose experiences have touched my life, I thank them all for what I’ve learned and for making me realize that we all need to “just be.”