It was my fault,” I say to her. “He wanted to tell you before we got married. He was ready to call it off, actually, until he had time to tell you. But I convinced him not to.”
“Oh,” Susan says. She is quiet and thoughtful. “When was this?”
“We were on our way to Las Vegas. He wanted to turn around and drive home. He wanted to wait until you knew. Give you the chance to be there.”
“Oh,” she says. “I didn’t realize you were married in Las Vegas.” The tone in her voice isn’t judgmental necessarily, but it certainly brings out any insecurity I might have over having been married in the tackiest place on earth.
“But I didn’t want to. He said I didn’t understand family, and at the time I told him that was a terrible thing to say to me, but I think he might have had a point.”
“Hmm,” she says.
“Anyway, I’m sorry. He wanted to tell you. He didn’t feel comfortable doing something so big without you. He loved you. He cared about you a lot and I didn’t understand. I was being selfish and I just . . . I really, really wanted to marry him. I think on some level Ben made me feel like I wasn’t alone anymore and I thought . . . ” I start to cry. “I think I was afraid that you’d tell him how ridiculous we were being and he would listen to you. I knew that if he talked to you, he would listen to you. I was afraid I’d lose him.”
“But why would you break up because of that? You wouldn’t. At the very most, he’d just decide to wait longer to get married.”
“You’re right.” I shake my head, disappointed in myself. “You’re absolutely right. But it didn’t feel that way at the time. It felt so scary. We were standing at a rest stop and it was the difference between turning right out of the lot and turning left. It felt so real. It felt so . . . I wanted to belong to something, belong to someone, you know?”
“Mmm,” she says. I don’t even know what I’m about to say next until it comes out of my mouth.
“I think I wanted to meet you after we were married, because I thought . . . ” Ugggggh, the lump in my throat is so huge, the tears waiting to drop are so heavy. “My own parents don’t seem to think very much of me, and I thought, if you met me before . . . I thought you wouldn’t like me. You’d want someone better for your son. I was afraid to give you that chance.”
“Wow,” she says. “Okay.” She pats my hand and gets up from the table. “I just need a little while to gather my thoughts. There is a lot of stuff going through my mind right now and I know that not all of it is rational.”
“Okay,” I say. “I just wanted you to—”
“Stop talking,” she snaps at me. She breathes in deeply and breathes out sharply. “God dammit, Elsie.”
I stare at her, she stares back, trying to bite her tongue.
“You don’t make it easy,” she says. “I try so hard! I try so hard.”
“I know you do, I just—”
She shakes her head. “It’s not your fault. It’s not your fault.” She isn’t speaking to me, I don’t think. “It just . . . ah. You couldn’t have waited? You couldn’t have given me a chance? You didn’t even give me a chance.”
“I know, Susan, I just . . . I was scared!”
“With everything that I’ve gone through? You couldn’t have just said all of this from the beginning?”
“I didn’t know how to say it . . . ” I tell her. If I’m being honest with myself, I have to admit I’m not sure I knew it was relevant until I put the pieces together, until I really thought about it.
“I have been thinking for months that my son never even wanted me at his wedding, and now you’re telling me he did and you stopped him.”
I am quiet. What can I say?
“Elsie!” she yells. She is shrill and teary. I don’t want the old Susan back. I want her to stay new Susan.
“I’m sorry!” I say. My eyes start to blur, my lips quivering. “I just . . . Susan, I want you and me to be okay. Are we okay?”
“I’m going to go. I’m going to leave this room. I . . . ” She turns and puts her head in her hands and then she breathes in.
She leaves the room, and it suddenly feels so big and hollow.