“Opening to Grief is a wise and gentle companion, a refuge as we move through the pain of loss. We learn to honor and cherish what has passed and to embrace our living moments ever more deeply.”
—Tara Brach, author of Radical Acceptance
and Radical Compassion
“Opening to Grief invites readers to approach and be with their grief, rather than turn away and try to avoid it. The authors mix reflections with simple yet profound practices anchored in mindfulness. It's easy to read and a wonderful addition to the grief literature.”
—Sue Morris, PsyD, director of bereavement services at
Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, Boston, MA
“A wise and sensitive book, this guide to working with grief is a treasure.”
—Joan Halifax, abbot, Upaya Zen Center
and author of Standing at the Edge and Being with Dying
“Opening to Grief is as excellent, simple, and clear as a needed glass of water in the desert. I cannot think of a better companion for our current time of losses, named and unnamable. This trustworthy and poetically written handbook of solid, helpful practices is a wonderful guide to the landscape of grief and the rites of passage of mourning. Without ever suggesting that grief is something to ‘get over,’ it points the way to the reconstitution of identity that can follow a great loss. May it help you grieve with an open, rather than closed, heart.”
—Katy Butler, New York Times bestselling author of
Knocking on Heaven's Door and The Art of Dying Well
“Reading Opening to Grief is like sitting with a wise friend who has walked the difficult road of sorrow ahead of you. Full of gentle and nourishing practices, this kind book offers a supportive hand when the ground beneath you has been shaken by loss. Listen to these two experienced travelers in the land of grief, and you will find your way through the darkest of nights. A beautiful gift to all.”
—Francis Weller, author of The Wild Edge of Sorrow
“A clear, concise, and tender companion book . . . Having facilitated thousands of support groups, including ones centered on bereavement, I appreciate the emphasis on not trying to shoulder the burden entirely by oneself. The authors gently encourage the reader to accept and fully experience their grief, which ultimately will lead to new discoveries, greater compassion, and a deeper understanding and appreciation for life. Included are many helpful suggestions and guidance on turning to art, nature, meditation, and writing to aid in the process.”
—Bob David, manager, cancer support programs,
Boston Medical Center, Boston, MA
“In a world of increasing isolation and deep sorrow, Opening to Grief offers the medicine needed: a companion of voices, deep reflection, and masterful guidance.”
—Koshin Paley Ellison, cofounder of the
New York Zen Center for Contemplative Care
and coeditor of Awake at the Bedside
“This simple and powerful book is an invitation to let the light of awareness touch, love, and heal our deepest and most impossible sorrows. In this warm and supportive guidebook, the authors lead us through practices that tend to our broken hearts and illuminate the unseen places where we keep grief locked away.”
—Will Kabat-Zinn, mindfulness and meditation teacher,
member of Spirit Rock Meditation Center teacher's council
“Opening to Grief affirms that expression and self-compassion in grief are soothing to the soul and that allowing our feelings to simply be is the most helpful way to move through and integrate them, no matter how painful. In this lovely book, Claire Willis and Marnie Crawford Samuelson invite the bereaved to meet grief with compassion and intention, and lovingly show the way.”
—Karla Helbert, author of Finding Your Own Way to Grieve
and Yoga for Grief and Loss
“Any time we make a change, there's grief on some level. Leaving a job, a relationship—even a toxic one—can be painful. Losing a beloved companion can be insufferable. With the support of a spiritual friend or the guidance of a book like Opening to Grief, we can learn to be mindful in the midst of it all. And eventually, when we stand up after all we've been through, we can see the beauty of it all.”
— Spring Washam, author of A Fierce Heart
“Opening to Grief is a simple and profound book for all who grieve. The authors are sure-footed, trustworthy guides on this complicated journey, and they lead with loving-kindness. This small book brims over with compassion, mindfulness, gentle guidance, permission, and well-chosen poetry to enhance the lessons of each chapter. A helpful appendix lists the often-asked questions about grief with respectful and accessible answers. I will have more than one lending copy on my office bookshelves.”
—Kathleen Adams, psychotherapist,
founder and director of The Center for Journal Therapy
“Opening to Grief is a gift to anyone who is bereaved. With beautiful language, comforting thoughts, useful suggestions, and accessible practices, Willis and Crawford Samuelson bring healing and community.”
—Hester Hill Schnipper, LICSW, OSW-C, manager, Oncology
Social Work, BIDMC, emeritus, author of After Breast Cancer
“Opening to Grief is a little treasure that invites us to read a chapter at a time, little by little, allowing the blank pages to remind us to give space to whatever we may be experiencing and to pause a minute before passing to the next chapter, as tempting as it may be. Beautifully written, Opening to Grief is a jewel waiting to be discovered.”
—Brita Gill-Austern, Philip Guiles Professor of Psychology
and Pastoral Theology, emerita
“Opening to Grief is a treasure—a book destined to support and inspire anyone living with grief, whether recent or from the past. The authors, skillful and experienced guides in lighting the way through grief, have assembled a sensitive, caring approach to one of life's greatest challenges. Written as a companion for handling grief, the poems, meditation guidelines, and many creative suggestions contribute to making this a reassuring, beautiful, and heartwarming book.”
—Olivia Ames Hoblitzelle, author of Aging with Wisdom
and Ten Thousand Joys and Ten Thousand Sorrows
“Never have I seen this much useful information about grief presented in such a clear and inviting way, in so few pages. Opening to Grief is carefully and exquisitely structured to include grief education, easy to understand meditation techniques, simple actions, inspiring poems and quotes, and blank pages for personal writings. Generously filled with resources, it's a practical book of wisdom that I will recommend above all others.”
—Connie Baxter, bereavement program coordinator,
Brattleboro (Vermont) Area Hospice