CONTENTS

PROLOGUE

Why can’t I get my child to listen? Why do I have to repeat everything? Why does every conversation end in an argument?

1    ON BECOMING A PERSON

The question becomes, “Who, not what, do you want to be?”

2    CHILDHOOD AND HAPPINESS

A person who was truly a child first, a person who experienced life as something wonderful and awe-inspiring, takes that with him into adulthood.

3    KNOWLEDGE AND INSPIRATION

To me, the truly important question is this: “Are you intellectually curious?”

4    BESTOWING DIGNITY

Every human being has value, and every human encounter is a fresh chance to let him know it.

5    HONORING THE FEMININE

Women nurture and enhance everything they come into contact with, men most of all.

6    FORGIVENESS

A child needs to understand one of the basic truths about forgiveness: When we forgive, we are doing it first and foremost for ourselves.

7    FAMILY AND TRADITION

Far too many families nowadays live together as strangers.

8    LOVE

Love is the force in the universe that brings everything together; hate drives everything apart. Love is the gravity that unites us; hate the antigravity that rips us asunder.

9    FEAR

A child who measures his self-worth through grades, popularity, and even his position on the Little League team will carry that into adulthood, and his entire life will be colored by skewed, fear-driven values.

10   GOD

The place of God in our life is to always remind us of the moral question. God demands righteousness.


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