Partner Sex
For the third and final stage step you will need a partner.
Partner practice is of extreme importance for although you can become a master of control using masturbation you cannot practice the full value of fluid and energy exchange without a partner.
If you are not practiced in having long sustained sex with a partner it will make it easier on you if you should both agree to consciously work on it. It is not necessary but certainly helps to have a willing partner ready to work with you for more control and pleasure.
You can take turns pleasuring each other. Sexual mastery is accomplished by each participant raising the other to the peak of orgasming or multi-orgasming and then retreating, and rising again and again. Once sex begins, use long foreplay to ready and totally sensitize both your organs. Women are generally more all body sensitive than men and appreciate caress all over the body, face, hair, and lips. Build slowly toward vaginal contact with strong soft strokes on the buttocks and thighs. The thighs need to be slowly caressed and moved to openness. Only when the thighs are truly relaxed can the vagina open. Even when vaginal stimulation is intense women still need the whole body stimulated, including the anus.
For most men body stimulation is not so important as penile stimulation. Most men prefer direct contact with the penis and balls including stroking and pulling. Stimulating a woman’s entire body excites her vagina to a point readiness. For a man, intense stimulation of the penis allows him to super-sensitize. This means bringing him to the point of ejaculation or multi-orgasm over and over again and preparing him for multi -orgasmic intercourse. This exercise also allows the woman time to slowly build to her readiness level while super-sensitizing the male. While most males prefer direct penile contact, women prefer body contact, the male coming back again and again to direct contact with the vagina.
KISSING
Begin with long sustained foreplay encompassing the woman’s entire body and centering upon the male’s genitals. Over a thirty minute plus period, the male and female should rise to pre-orgasm or multi-orgasm numerous times by manual manipulation. Only then do you begin playing at the entrance of the Vagina with the penis. This exercises allows you to highly sensitize your organ without full stimulation and is especially valued for turning on the female’s sexual response and preparing lubrication of the Vagina. Rub the head or shaft, or both on the thighs watching them open more and more. Rub across the labial lips, back to thighs, back to lips finally rubbing upward caressing the labial lips until you reach the clitoris. At this point she may rub against your penis head as you hold it in position against her clitoris. If you then remain still you give the woman control in stimulation, which allows her control in rising to a high level of sensitivity.
Once superior sensation has been achieved many woman find tapping or drumming by the penis head an intense pleasure. You simply position the head over the clitoris or lips and tap or pound the head softly against these sensitive membranes. Build to high sensitivity and stimulation for both parties. Stop to rub, and then begin again. This can proceeded to strong tapping if your partner is responsive. Mutual self-masturbation is sometimes valuable at this point as a stimulant. Build to high stimulation, or multi-orgasm, slow down and begin again After accomplishing super sensitization of both parties you will be even better able to begin many multiple orgasms.
Letting her pull you in with Kegals is a fine exercise that allows you to do little moving and just feel the exquisite sensations as she pulls you in deeper and deeper. With an organ properly super-sensitized you will be finally attuned to the sensations on the outside and inside of your penis. Feel the vagina actually milking your organ. You will be able to feel the vagina actually pull fluid drop by drop from the tip of your penis. If it gets too intense you can and must withdraw and employ one of the methods of control enumerated. Wait 10 -60 seconds and begin again. As you become more attuned to the pulling and stretching of your organ by the vagina you can add stokes, as you both get more excited but keep control.
SLOW AND STOP, are key words. She can help you by slowing you with a key word or signal if she sees you breathing heavily or thrusting too strongly. You can alternate her milking and you stroking.
She can help you if your testicles begin to rise. If she sees or feel your balls moving up toward you body she can grab them gently between thumb and first finger and pull them back down without squeezing or manipulating them. You can work together on just about all the control exercises I have illuminated. As you both become more practiced in extending orgasm she can actually milk you with the vaginal muscles to the point where fluid is constantly issuing form you tip And giving you exquisite sensations. Just keep control and experience one mini orgasm after another.. You both must benefit equally from the sexual encounter.
In sexual arousal the testicles swell. Some men’s scrotum almost doublse in size as they become more and more aroused. This heightens sensitivity, and is of use to the Tantric and the MULTI-ORGASMIC.
First, the increased sensitivity is valuable in enhancing pleasure. His partner may stimulate him here as well as his penis and give renewed sexual energy when the organ needs an extra boost upward after 40 -50 multi- orgasms.
Secondly, the increased sensitivity is a great help in controlling ejaculation. As the point of ejaculation inevitability approaches the contractions of the scrotum can be palpably felt. This allows us to take control. Since very few men (less than 2 %) ejaculate without their testicles being pulled up toward or into the body the process is an excellent indicator of the point of ejaculatory inevitability. Your partner may also help prevent ejaculation by gently making a clamp with her thumb and first finger above the testicles and pulling downward without squeezing the them. This will prevent the testicles from rising and allowing ejaculation.
Anal intercourse stimulates the Kundalini because it opens the anal sphincter locks temporarily for the female. Anal intercourse is the Tantric equivalent of such Hatha Yoga practices as Mulubandha (anal sphincter lock) and Asvini Mudra, alternating contractions and relaxation of the anus. Both of these exercises are for the stimulation of Kundalini. The Male also experiences these exercises though his penis jerks, locking and unlocking the PC and sphincter muscles and testicles during multi orgasmic sex. These muscle Facilitate the unlocking of both their internal fires though these exercises. That is the reason that long extended Tantric sex may result in total orgasm. Because the Kundalini has been awakened enough times by both partners constantly using the PC muscles. This moves both partners toward orgasm.
Woman orgasm
For the Tantric and Taoist the high level of female excitement is of ultimate importance. Only then are the Shakti or chi energies released which create the magic circle of energies that give youth, long life and mutual satisfaction. When making love to women you are in the wake of universal power. Mother earth is orgasming through your partner. Connect to the creative force of the universe. Give energy and receive the energy transfer. This complete exchange of yin and Yang energies will not only leave you refreshed and empowered but a more rounder and complete human being.
Some Tantric schools and Taoist schools teach methods of absorbing Shakti powers. You can actually cause your penis to physically drink Shakti fluids by using the pc muscles to drink (that is pull fluid) essence back into your body through the tip of your penis. Ancient teachers demonstrated power to suck up this essence by soaking up an entire bowl of water or oil through the tip of their penis. Modern medical practices would look askance at the health risks of this practice.
I believe the practice is unnecessary, as the skin of the penis absorbs plenty of yin energy essence in long intercourse. It is unnecessary as long as you have had long foreplay and long intercourse. When you are absorbing Shakti fluids by kissing, cunnilingus or with your penis inside the vagina you are exchanging such great amounts of vital energy that you do not really need to physically reabsorb. You will find that where most men collapse and go immediately to sleep after a 15 minute love bout you will be fully energized after two hour sex and ready to move on to the next creative project.
You can also practice leaving the penis inside the vagina for as long as possible after final multi-orgasm to complete absorption of Shakti energies. In all the ancient texts the single most important factor in lengthening life is to make love correctly; that is long extended lovemaking with complete exchange of male -female energies.
MARIJUANA
Marijuana alters perception. For many it also helps to focus and attune the physical feelings. It helps many become attuned to the surface of the penis, the scrotal sack, and the fluids moving up the tubes, the prostate and internal muscles. However care is indicated as scientific studies indicated that frequent daily use of marijuana lowers androgens, the hormones that allow sex drive. In using Marijuana it is best for follow the Greek Golden Mean” Nothing In Excess” . Women often find it useful for the same purposes of relaxation and sexual attunement. If it is used before sex to heighten attunement it is certainly a valuable sacrament.
It is certainly true that in ancient days hemp was used in different Tantric ceremonies such as Cakra-Puja.
It was taken in a variety of forms. It was served in sweets, smoked or drunk in an elixir. Shiva the god of sexual yoga and sexual mastery is shown often with a drug bowl in his hand. Marijuana was not taken daily but as a specific part of sexual ritual or for enhancing sexual intercourse.
Rare Tantric standing position is practiced at Indian court.