53

Gradual Development

‘Married in haste, we may repent at leisure.’

William Congreve

Patience is the keynote of this hexagram. You are counselled against taking hasty or premature action. The situation is compared to the traditional period of engagement before a marriage. In other words, events must be allowed to develop gradually. This will enable you to lay the firm foundations necessary for long-term and ongoing success. If you are greedy for immediate results, you may perhaps achieve something in the short term – but it is unlikely to last. Do not attempt to manipulate the situation to suit your own ends. Trust that matters will unfold in exactly the right way and to your ultimate benefit. At the same time, allowing things to develop gradually does not mean that you are without influence. If you are friendly, considerate and adaptable, you will have a positive effect on all concerned. This will help to create the best possible conditions for further progress.

An opportunity for personal growth

The slow progress of the situation may be frustrating. Resist the temptation to force matters to a head. Stay calm and centred. Do not lose sight of your goal or allow circumstances to disturb your equilibrium. Without being militant, stand up for what you feel to be right. A gentle but firm approach will win respect and meet with a favourable response. One of the symbols belonging to the original text of this hexagram is the wild goose. These birds emigrate according to the seasons and were thought to mate for life. They therefore came to represent faithfulness and stability. These are the qualities which the situation requires you to develop. Traditional ways of doing things are the most appropriate at this time.

Further aspects of the situation

SIX AT THE BEGINNING

Because the best course of action is not yet clear, you lack confidence in your ability to deal with the situation. Any attempts you do make at progress meet with criticism from others. However, these difficulties serve a useful purpose in that they prevent you from pushing ahead too hastily. By exercising caution now, you ensure success in the longer term.

SIX IN THE SECOND PLACE

You are now in a more secure position and can feel relaxed and optimistic. Sharing your good fortune with others adds to your own enjoyment.

NINE IN THE THIRD PLACE

Be patient. Otherwise you are liable to do something you will regret. To avoid causing trouble for yourself or others, you must exercise self-control. It would be very unwise to be drawn into a conflict. Allow the situation to develop naturally. If you must become involved, do only what is absolutely necessary to protect your own position.

SIX IN THE FOURTH PLACE

The situation, although relatively stable, does not feel right for you. Fortunately, this is a temporary state of affairs. There will be a change for the better. In the meantime, stay calm and accept the current position philosophically.

NINE IN THE FIFTH PLACE

Certain people may envy the extent of your progress. The resulting misunderstandings create barriers between yourself and others, making you feel isolated. Be patient. In due course all the difficulties will be resolved to your satisfaction.

NINE AT THE TOP

As a result of gradual, unremitting progress, you have achieved something of great value. Now you are in a position to help others who feel inspired by your example.