9

Exercising Restraint

‘Though the mills of God grind slowly,

yet they grind exceeding small.’

H. W. Longfellow, Retribution

There is a promise of ultimate success. But circumstances are such that it is impossible for you to take significant action at this time. Be cautious. It would be unwise to make a show of strength. Your abilities are considerable, but your position is not yet secure enough to allow you to make a major impact on the situation. All you can do is prepare the ground in small ways for the changes to come. In your day-to-day affairs, pay particular attention to detail. Use the time of waiting to make plans, gather information and perhaps discuss possibilities with others. Do not appear to be trying to force an outcome.

An opportunity for personal growth

You may be longing to press ahead. But you must be patient and hold your strength in check until the situation improves. Exercise self-control and take a longer-term view. Self-restraint now will pay dividends in due course. In your dealings with others a gentle and tactful approach is called for at present. This may mean that you have to put up with a certain amount of ignorance or thoughtlessness from those around you. By being tolerant, you may be able to exert a modest degree of friendly persuasion. Little by little, you will win the trust and confidence of others. At present, to have some influence in small ways is as much as you can hope for.

Further aspects of the situation

NINE AT THE BEGINNING

Although you feel ready for change, any move you try to make will be blocked. Be patient. Do not try to control events. Concentrate on dealing with your own day-to-day business.

NINE IN THE SECOND PLACE

You may feel tempted to push ahead. Do not do anything reckless. Consider how other people have dealt successfully with a similar situation. You will realize the wisdom of holding back and cooperating with others. Otherwise you risk losing your self-respect. It would not be useful for you to be drawn into a conflict.

NINE IN THE THIRD PLACE

Over-confidence in your abilities could lead you to act unwisely. You may risk trying to force matters even though circumstances are obviously against you. In the resulting conflict you would lose dignity and put yourself in a bad light.

SIX IN THE FOURTH PLACE

All that matters is to be absolutely honest and sincere. You need not be anxious. Do not let your responsibilities cause you undue stress. Although the situation is potentially fraught with difficulties, your truthful approach will inspire respect. You will win the cooperation of others.

NINE IN THE FIFTH PLACE

A mutually supportive relationship is enriching to each person concerned. Sharing your individual resources in a cooperative effort will bring success.

NINE AT THE TOP

Achieving your aim has taken considerable, unremitting effort. Now you are recommended to stop and be content with what you have. Don’t tempt fate by being ambitious for more.