THE PERFECT DEFAULT

The content of this book literally appears in black and white, but as you know, our day-to-day lives are an amazing mix of those and all the colors in between. But when exploring the challenges—and beauty—of blended families, we cannot do it properly without discussing divorce and its effects on children. With that in mind, as you look ahead at the prospect of starting a new, blended family, make every effort to see it through the eyes of your children. They should be your first—and last—consideration. How will your decisions affect them? What do they have at stake for their future? No matter what, it’s all about putting your kids first. When in doubt, put them first. Let it become your perfect default.