Your brother bought us mugs

with the Union Jack on them,

not knowing his way

in the world of signs and emblems,

though for dates, for weird facts

he’s second to none.

It’s dinning your head

on a stone to tell him, the same

as trying to espouse

that he’s not addicted to Coca-Cola,

or that, because we’re older,

it doesn’t prove we’re rich;

strict meanings adhere to things

and flake from others

without rhyme or reason,

a comprehensible frame: to him

a mug is a mug

and the Union Jack a flag,

though, to be fair to your brother,

they’re a good size

and perfect for coffee,

and though they live

in the darkest bowels of the cabinet,

knowing, we use them anyway.