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Behavior 6: The Habit of Faith

All I have seen teaches me to trust the Creator for all I have not seen.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Living by faith in God takes the pressure off of us and allows us to enjoy all of life in a greater way. Faith is God’s will, and I believe it can and should become our habit. The Bible says in Hebrews 11:6 that without faith we cannot please God. Romans 14:23b says that anything we do that is not done in faith is sin. Romans 1:17 says that righteousness is revealed in God’s Word, and that it leads us from faith to faith. To me this means that we should be in faith at all times. It should be our habit! Faith is trusting in what God says in His Word, even though you may not have any evidence of its reality yet. Faith is what connects us to an omnipotent God. When we fail to depend on God’s dependability, we short-circuit faith, bringing two tragic results: powerlessness and hopelessness.

Now faith is the assurance (the confirmation, the title deed) of the things [we] hope for, being the proof of things [we] do not see and the conviction of their reality [faith perceiving as real fact what is not revealed to the senses].

Hebrews 11:1

For we have heard of your faith in Christ Jesus [the leaning of your entire human personality on Him in absolute trust and confidence in His power, wisdom, and goodness] and of the love which you [have and show] for all the saints (God’s consecrated ones).

Colossians 1:4

These two Scriptures give us a very clear definition of what faith is. Faith fills us with hopeful expectation.

True faith is never found alone; it is always accompanied by expectation. The man who believes the promises of God expects to see them fulfilled. Where there is no expectation, there is no faith.

A. W. Tozer

God’s will is for us to live by faith at all times. You might be thinking of all the bad habits that you need to break and all the good ones you need to make, and you feel overwhelmed. Your mind wants to think, “This is just too much, I will never be able to do this.” This is where faith comes in. You can say, “I don’t know how I am going to do it, but I am expecting God’s help. With God all things are possible.”

Just make a beginning and keep going day after day. Be encouraged by any progress you make and refuse to be discouraged by how far you think you have to go. God is pleased that you have made a beginning toward forming better habits.

You Have All the Faith You Need

I sometimes hear people say, “I just don’t have enough faith for that.” But the truth is that we all have all the faith we need to do whatever God’s will is for us. “God has dealt to each one a measure of faith” (Romans 12:3 NKJV). We all have faith, but the key to success is where we place it. If you put your faith in you or in other people, you will be disappointed, but if you put it in God, you will be amazed at what He can do through you.

When I sit down at the computer to start writing a new book, even though I have a subject in mind and have done some research, I still don’t know for sure what I am going to say. Beginning is sometimes the most difficult. I sit there, look at the keys, then finally put my fingers on the keys and words begin to come to my heart. Then day after day and chapter after chapter, by faith I finally finish the book. I sigh in relief and satisfaction that another project is completed.

Faith requires that we step out. We must begin, and if what we are doing is God’s will, He will never fail to help us finish if we keep on in faith day after day.

You have faith, but it may need to grow, and that happens as you use it. Little faith can become great faith as you step out on the promises of God. Peter was the only disciple who walked on water, but then he was only one who trusted God enough to get out of the boat. Are you ready to stop merely having an idea of faith and begin taking steps of faith? I think we all begin with the same amount of faith, but some people never use theirs so it never grows. As we take steps of faith to be obedient to God, we experience His faithfulness and our faith becomes strong.

Consider this story of a tightrope walker.

What is faith? One daredevil who was billed as the Great Blonden startled crowds with his death-defying stunts over Niagara Falls. Pointing to the tightrope suspended over one area of Niagara Falls, this brave fellow would taunt the crowds that had gathered by saying, “Who believes that I can push this cart over the falls on the rope?” Hands shot up all over the crowds. The Great Blonden pointed at a man who had raised his hand and challenged him: “If you really believe—get in!” There were no takers. God says to get in if we mean business.

A man fell off a cliff but managed to grab a tree limb on the way down. The following conversation ensued:

“Is anyone up there?”

“I am here. I am the Lord. Do you believe in me?”

“Yes, Lord, I believe. I really believe, but I can’t hang on much longer.”

“That’s all right. If you really believe you have nothing to worry about, I will save you. Just let go of the branch.”

A moment of pause, then: “Is anyone else up there?”

Are you committed to living by faith, or are you merely talking about faith? Faith is in us, but it must be released, and that is done by praying, saying, and taking action. Prayer carries our faith-filled requests before the throne of God and He answers. Pray boldly, for He is able to do more than we can imagine (Ephesians 3:20, Hebrews 4:16).

What is in your heart will come out of your mouth. Pay attention to what you are saying, and it will often help you discover how much faith you truly have. A man or woman of faith can still speak positively about a situation even when the circumstances have not changed. A person may have listened to hundreds of Bible teachings on faith, but I can tell whether or not they truly have faith just by listening to them for a little while. Words in agreement with God’s Word will release faith and allow it to go to work in the supernatural realm.

Taking action releases faith. When I sit at the computer and put my hands on the keys I am taking action. I am releasing my faith and God shows up. That would not work for someone who has no gift to write, but even though I do have a gift, I still must begin and in faith continue throughout the process.

When Peter got out of the boat, his action proved that he had faith in God’s Word when he heard Jesus say, “Come.” Is God asking you to do something and you’re waiting to feel safe? If so, that isn’t faith. In order to do or have greater things, we are usually required to let go of what we have and head into the unknown. God told Abraham to leave his country, his home, and his relatives and go to a land that God would show him after he started on his way. He had to leave, not knowing where he was going. That is faith!

The Faith for Daily Life

The type of faith we have been talking about is required for new challenges and tasks greater than those we have confronted previously. But there is also the type of faith that we need for daily living—faith to pay the bills, keep a good job, raise the kids, make marriage work, get along with people, etc. Faith for daily living is vital if we are going to eliminate stress and enjoy life. The faith habit will leave no room for the worry habit. It also drives out the fear habit. Developing a habit of simply trusting God in every situation will help you overcome many other bad habits.

Verbalize your faith. Say frequently, “I trust God.” Or “I believe that God is working in my life and circumstances right now.” We speak out of faith, but then what we say also increases our faith. In the Bible, David said, “I will say of the Lord, He is my Refuge and my Fortress, my God; on Him I lean and rely, and in Him I [confidently] trust!” (Psalm 91:2).

The best way to defeat worry and fear is to resist them right away when they first try to enter your mind. The apostle Peter said that we should resist the devil at his onset (I Peter 5:9). Lift up the shield of faith, and with it you can extinguish all the fiery darts of the evil one (Ephesians 6:16). Developing the faith habit will shield you from many negative and tormenting emotions. We can learn to live by faith (Romans 1:17).

Faith is filled with hopeful expectation and it never gives up. Someone has rightly said, “When faith goes to market, it always takes a basket.” Keep your basket handy because God may fill it at any moment.

Faith for the Past

We can have faith today that takes care of all of our past mistakes and failures. Regret over yesterday can ruin today unless we live by faith. The devil wants us to think that we cannot overcome our past or that it is too late for us to have a good life, but he is a liar. God’s Word teaches us to let go of the past by faith and press toward the things that are ahead. If you are concerned about something from your past, meditate on this Scripture and let it encourage you to trust God.

Behold, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs forth; do you not perceive and know it and will you not give heed to it? I will even make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.

Isaiah 43:19

The reality of this Scripture can be yours by simply releasing your faith and believing that no matter what has happened in the past, God is greater than your past. He will forgive your sins, turn your mistakes into miracles, and leave you amazed at the good things He will do in your life.

Faith for the Future

We all think we would love to know the future. People who don’t know how to trust God may spend thousands of dollars consulting fortune-tellers and supposed psychics hoping to get a glimpse into the future. They don’t need to waste their money. God is the only One who knows the future. He might choose to speak of the future through one of His prophets, but usually He just wants us to trust Him. The “What am I going to do?” question is frequently on all of our minds, but we don’t have to entertain it. I don’t know exactly what the future holds for me, but I do believe that whatever it is, it will be God’s good and perfect plan. One Christian man often said, “I don’t know what the future holds, but I do know Who holds the future.”

Anytime a worry comes to our mind about the future, we can immediately choose faith in God instead of worry.

The world condition today is very unstable, and the pressure to worry about it is increasing. What if the economy totally fails? What if I lose my job and all my retirement savings? I drive a hundred miles round-trip daily to work, so what am I going to do if gasoline prices keep going up? I never had any children; who will take care of me when I am old? The questions and wonderings are endless if we let our minds go there, but we can also choose to develop the faith habit. We don’t know all the answers, but we can know God, and He does know the answers. When faith is a habit, we won’t waste our time and energy on worry.

You may have a situation looming in the future that you know you will need to confront, and you just don’t feel that you are up to it. Don’t worry. God will give you the grace, wisdom, and strength you need when the times comes. Until then, have faith!

The Journey from Fear to Faith

Our natural instinct is to be afraid and try to protect and take care of ourselves, but God invites us to a life of faith. Fear is tormenting. Sadly, sometimes people have lived in fear for so long that they don’t realize it is abnormal. We can develop behavior systems that allow us to function in our dysfunction.

I had many fears in my life due to being raised in an abusive and dysfunctional home. I had learned to function with them, but as I studied the Word of God, I also learned that I did not have to live with them. I learned there was a better way—the way of faith. However, getting from fear to faith was and still is a journey. I was afraid of being rejected, displeasing people, and not being truly loved for myself. I feared what people thought of me. My reputation meant a lot to me. I feared failure, being wrong in choices I made, and being judged or criticized for my decisions and actions. I also feared my past mistakes, the unknown future, not having enough money to take care of myself, and needing to depend on someone else.

I can truly say that none of these fears prevail in my life now. They may rear their ugly heads from time to time, but I am no longer controlled by them. I have developed the faith habit, and you can do it too.

Learning about and receiving the unconditional love of God is what sets us free from fear. Nothing else will! Perfect love casts out fear (1 John 4:18). Only God has perfect love, and it can be ours by faith. Take God at His word and begin to receive His love for you and allow Him to set you free from all fear. Faith works by love (Galatians 5:6). How can we put our trust in God if we are not convinced that He loves us at all times? Knowing and believing in God’s love is one of the key ingredients in being able to live a life of faith.

Faith goes up the stairs that love has built and looks out the window which hope has opened.

Charles H. Spurgeon

The Bible says frequently, “Fear not, for I am with you.” God is with you and has promised to never leave you or forsake you. You don’t grow in faith by wishing that you felt a certain way or didn’t feel a certain way, but you grow by stepping out and trusting the promises of God. Each time you do, you gain experience that will help you trust the next time. Don’t be discouraged with yourself if it takes a while to develop the faith habit. I don’t think anyone operates in perfect faith, but thankfully we can continue to grow. Aren’t you glad that you don’t have to feel pressured to manifest perfection in anything? Jesus Christ, the Perfect One, has paved the way for us, and we can follow one step at a time.

Remember this: God is pleased with you as long as you keep pressing on, and He is not disappointed with you because you are not perfect. Our faithlessness does not change God’s faithfulness (2 Timothy 2:13).

Acceptance with Joy

The faith habit allows us to accept whatever our circumstances are with joy because we trust that God works all things out for good (Romans 8:28). We can trust God no matter what things look or feel like. Mrs. Charles E. Cowman, who wrote Streams in the Desert, said, “We must take God at His word. Experience reveals that such a faith will not make the sun shine sooner, but it will make the night seem shorter.”

Trust is simply asking God for what you want, need, or desire and giving Him the respect and honor due Him by allowing Him to bring it to pass when and how He sees fit. God doesn’t necessarily want to hear us asking why and when, but does love to hear us say, “I trust You.”

God wants us to trust Him in things, and not merely for something. Our ways are not His ways, but His ways are perfect. His timing is not ours, but He is never late. The faith habit will help us maintain the happy habit.

Whatever you ask for in prayer, believe (trust and be confident) that it is granted to you, and you will [get it].

Mark 11:24

This Scripture is exciting, but we must realize that it does not tell us when we will get what we have asked for. We inherit the promises of God through faith and patience (Hebrews 6:12). Our impatience won’t make God hurry, and we might as well decide to wait with joy. Acceptance with joy is proof of faith. Our attitude says loud and clear, “I believe God is perfect in all of His ways, and I know I am in His hands.”

Abandon Yourself to God

Totally let go of trying to control your life and circumstances and trust God with everything. Abandonment is forgetting the past entirely, leaving the future completely in His hands, and being totally at peace with the present, knowing that the moment you are in contains God’s perfect will for you for that moment. Watchman Nee, a powerful Chinese Christian who was martyred for his faith, including having his tongue cut out for preaching, died with this note under his pillow.

Christ is the Son of God. He died to atone for men’s sin, and after three days rose again. This is the most important fact in the universe. I die believing in Christ.

Watchman Nee

He had the faith habit. Nothing could stop it, not even suffering and death. If we can learn to live with this kind of faith, all of life becomes a tremendous joy and we are at perfect rest as we wait on God.