We all have ways of speaking to ourselves in our head. The Stoics believed that rehearsing Stoic concepts mentally would help them sink in and arise automatically with time. Georgiana has been practicing by asking herself every time she encounters something external that she initially desires or wants to avoid: How can this improve my character? At first she found it difficult to remember, but after some practice the prompt was never far from her mind. This week, you’ll start soaking your own mind in Stoic principles.
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The wise man, indeed, overcomes Fortune by his virtue, but many who profess wisdom are sometimes frightened by the most unsubstantial threats. And at this stage it is a mistake on our part to make the same demands upon the wise man and upon the learner. I still exhort myself to do that which I recommend; but my exhortations are not yet followed. And even if this were the case, I should not have these principles so ready for practice, or so well trained, that they would rush to my assistance in every crisis. Just as wool takes up certain colors at once, while there are others which it will not absorb unless it is soaked and steeped in them many times, so other systems of doctrine can be immediately applied by men’s minds after once being accepted; but this system of which I speak, unless it has gone deep and has sunk in for a long time, and has not merely colored but thoroughly permeated the soul, does not fulfil any of its promises. The matter can be imparted quickly and in very few words: ‘Virtue is the only good; at any rate there is no good without virtue, and virtue itself is situated in our nobler part, that is, the rational part.’ And what will this virtue be? A true and never-swerving judgment. For therefrom will spring all mental impulses, and by its agency every external appearance that stirs our impulses will be clarified. It will be in keeping with this judgment to judge all things that have been colored by virtue as goods, and as equal goods.”
Seneca, Letters to Lucilius, 71.30–33
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It’s comforting to notice Seneca’s acknowledgment that he is an imperfect practitioner of Stoicism. He admits that behaving according to his own foundational principles still doesn’t come automatically to him. He is not yet wise, but rather a student of wisdom, just like the rest of us. Indeed, none of the ancient Stoics professed to be sages, and downright criticized people who did (such as Epicurus, the founder of one of the rival schools).
Seneca then gives a powerful analogy between the varying ways to dye cloth a certain color and similarly “dyeing” our “soul” by way of our thoughts. Some colors are easily absorbed by the cloth and others take time to steep. The notion is that for those colors (or ideas) that take more time, the more we train ourselves to think in that way, or conversely, to stay away from a certain kind of thinking, the easier it becomes for us to think and behave virtuously. There is modern empirical evidence that this approach does, in fact, work, as the entire practice of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is based upon it. A study of 106 meta-analyses (studies comparing the results of many individual studies) by Stefan G. Hofmann and colleagues found that CBT was effective on anxiety disorders, somatoform disorders, bulimia, anger control problems, and general stress.1
Importantly, Seneca goes on to concisely tell us which thoughts we should understand and internalize to thoroughly permeate our soul. He adds that “virtue is the only true good; at any rate there is no good without virtue.” It is virtue that directs our actions and makes them good. What people normally think of as “goods,” such as money, can actually be used well or poorly, and the thing itself (in this case, money) isn’t going to tell you how to use it. Conversely, lack of virtue—that is, vice—does the opposite, turning externals into bad things. In the end, says Seneca, virtue is the ability to arrive at true judgments; we can train ourselves to improve our capacity to do so. According to the Stoics, true judgments can clarify every external appearance (“impression,” in Stoic terminology) from which impulses spring (which “stirs our impulses,” as Seneca says). This may look familiar to you, as it’s another example of the application of Stoic psychological theory that you encountered last week.
This week you’ll work on understanding and internalizing Stoic principles of your choosing in two ways: through meditating on them daily and by using them as “at-hand phrases” at appropriate times. Seneca mentions three possibilities to start:
There are many other themes to choose from besides these, which you’ve encountered throughout your Stoic practice. Here are some other ideas:
Write down Stoic concepts that you’d like to soak your soul in over the coming week. You can choose from these six or any others from throughout the book. We suggest no more than three, so you can truly focus on a small, important set of Stoic ideas.
Meditate daily
The first way you’ll attempt to submerge your mind in these ideas is by meditating on them daily. There are many ways to meditate. You can sit down and read them slowly each morning. Or maybe you prefer to journal each night about how you can apply them the next day. Write how you are going to meditate on the Stoic concepts you chose.
At-hand phrases
Seneca mentions that if you soak your soul in these ideas, they have a better chance of springing to mind automatically when appropriate. The second step in your practice this week will facilitate this process through repeating at-hand phrases. At the beginning of this chapter, Georgiana chose to repeat a question to herself in order to help prompt Stoic impulses to act. Write out at least one implementation intention to help you remember one of the Stoic ideas you’re focusing on this week when in a relevant situation.
Seneca explicitly lists the reasons for soaking your soul in basic Stoic concepts. One reason he gives is so that they’ll come to your mind more automatically when needed. This, in turn, allows you to judge the situation correctly. From a Stoic perspective, this means you won’t judge externals to be more valuable than using your virtue. This will lead to virtuous actions since, as we described in the past few chapters, and as Seneca stated, impulses to act stem from assenting to some impressions. Using these concepts as at-hand phrases helps this process along and reminds you of what’s important in any given moment.
Now that you’ve kept some basic Stoic concepts close at hand over the past week, take some time to write about your experience. Did you find that the Stoic ideas came more easily to mind with rehearsal? Did that affect your actions in turn? Did you find meditating on the ideas more or less useful than repeating them to yourself in appropriate situations?
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We’ll continue to build on the practice of at-hand phrases in the next chapter within the context of pain, discomfort, and illness.