Part 5

When Obsessive Love Becomes Dangerous

Sometimes obsessive love relationships cross the line into a dangerous realm. Although most do not, some end with stalking or domestic violence. You need to know how to recognize the signs of abuse, whether physical, emotional, sexual, or economic. In this part we explain the different types of abuse and what the early warning signs are.

 

If your relationship has become dangerous, it is important to know how to protect yourself. You can improve the security in your home and be vigilant when out and about. We offer suggestions and tips for staying safe and protected, as well as where to find help and support.

 

Finally, some partners of obsessive lovers may need help from the law. We discuss what “orders of protection” are and give you some guidelines for talking with the police. We give ideas of what types of documentation you should have if you need to go to court to help you stay safe.