THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 22, 1849


It is my birthday, or near enough—I curse myself each day for neglecting diligence with the calendar. My diary entries well could be off by several days, or perhaps a week, though I hope they are at least consistent with each other. Since today is bright and promising with blue skies and a warm breeze, I choose to believe my birthday is this fine day. I allowed myself a cry. Tomorrow I shall not.

I indulged in something special and cooked an extra half portion of beefsteak and johnnycake. I long for milk and eggs, but made do with water in the cornmeal. I even managed to coax a sprinkling of pepper from Papa’s grinder, which I thought had been emptied sometime before.

It is days such as this I wish I had taken up a musical instrument. Mama was the musical one in the family. The rest of us can carry a tune well enough, but she played her spinet for church meetings and often at night. It was a lovely sound and now that I write this I find myself longing for another good cry.

I am sorry, Mama. I should have not been so stubborn, should not have been the girl who wanted to be out in the fields with Papa instead of in the house with you. I should have said, “Yes, ma’am, a thousand times yes, I will learn to play the spinet, but only if you will teach me.”

I say this to you now, but other than the brief sunshine and a raven sawtoothing away from here—oh luckiest of birds!—I am alone. No one hears me when I cry or sing.

Since my birthday is in late November, the twenty-second, to be precise, that means many months of winter ahead. I pour hot water in the last of Mama’s teacups and look at the pretty blue flowers until it is too dark to see them. Happy Birthday, Janette.