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o, you want to learn how to win with women huh? Well, you came to the right place. I won’t give any quick fixes, scams, and all that internet BS. I’ll tell you straight up from real experiences and studying other people.

Before we jump in, I have to say this. To win with women or men, whatever you like nowadays, focus on thyself first. Now I know what you’re saying, “I get that every day,” but it’s the truth. When you think about it if you don’t focus on yourself and gain confidence, how can you approach a woman? If you don’t focus on yourself and build a relationship/connection with yourself, how can you do that with another woman? The more you focus on thyself, the more you attract. Have you ever experienced where you’re not looking for a relationship or you just got into a relationship and just want to focus on yourself and/or them? Then, suddenly, all these women are trying to talk to you, or all these men just randomly slide into your DMs.

Let’s talk about the connection between the Law of Attraction and semen retention. While you attract and manifest your divine partner, you’ll have many distractions. You’ll have to see people for who they truly are through your first eye. There are energy vampires who want to suck your light away and those who just want your physical body. These beings are also called energetic parasites. Parasites are those people or things that implant themselves in your energy field to take your energy. They find your weak points and use them to suck your energy. They can be manipulative or abusive people that have an addiction or have hate inside them. They implant triggers that can be used to drain you. Never let anything or anyone drain your positive energy.

Practice:

The way to stop them is by deactivating the triggers. When you no longer respond to the triggers, they’ll try to intensify them, until they finally give up. When someone tries to trigger you by insulting you, or by doing or saying something that irritates you; take a deep breath and do your best to distance yourself from that person. If they trigger you, that means you still have lessons to learn with them. Remember that if you’re easily offended, you’re easily manipulated.

Trauma is specifically an event that overwhelms the central nervous system, altering the way we process and recall memories. It’s the current imprint of that pain, horror, and fear living inside people.

Anger is a mask that people wear to hide their real emotions. It covers up their true feelings of fear, jealousy, frustration, or powerlessness. It’s dealing with the situation when you haven’t processed the real feelings behind it.

Please don’t just go after physically attractive people and that’s it. When they get old and wrinkly, would physical attraction even matter by then? That’s why a lot of elderly men want younger women, and some younger women accept it because they can be their sugar daddies. The only elderly people who stay with their significant other are those who were married for a long time or bring mental stimulation to their brains (meaning soul or spirit connection).

Base it on the five factors: mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically, and financially. Make sure you have a mental connection with the person first because that’s where the connection is. Make sure you both emotionally connect because that’s where the love is. If you’re spiritual, make sure they’re at least pretty spiritual because you don’t want to be dating any sheep. Make sure you’re physically attracted to them because you want to make sure you like what you see when you wake up or go to bed each night. Lastly, make sure you the person is financially driven or just strives for better. Financially don’t always have to be dependent on money, but their drive, their hunger for success, and their passion could be a part of finances as well.

To get laid:

Look presentable, be confident about yourself, and don’t overthink the ting. Don’t go to the club only focused on the genital area, trying to have an end goal, and overthinking about talking to people. Go in there and get to know people because they’ll see right through your end goal tactics with no confidence. Strike up a regular natter. If you get rejected, they wilding cause you to know your worth so move on. Don’t focus on needing to get her number.

Affirmation:

I’m special, loved, worthy, and not rejected. I’ll make today count, and I do matter on this earth. I’ll do incredible things on this planet, I will be successful, and there’s no reason to doubt myself because I am amazing!

Scenario One:

If you meet a person and you’ll see them for the majority of the time, then get to know them first without having an end goal. People should be honored in receiving your phone number so treat yourself, your image, and your brand as such (royalty). Not everyone’s deserving of you or your number. You don’t want to randomly pass out your number to anybody. If everything checks off, move to step three.

Scenario Two:

If you meet a person over the internet or from a friend, you have a lot of time to get to know them. I know you probably want their number right out the gate but get to know them and conversant with them from the app you found them. You don’t want to go into their DM’s asking for their name, and then your next text is “What’s your number?” That might look weird and creepy if that person hasn’t gotten the chance to know you before giving you, their number. You know how women are when it comes to passing out their phone numbers. So, you’ll have to play the game until they give you, their number. That only depends on step three though.

Step One:

If it’s in person with a very quick interaction (ex. they just walked by), compliment them. If you’re still interested, then move on to step number two.

Step Two:

If it’s in person and you have a few minutes with them, generate a conversation based on that compliment or get to know them in general. If you’re still interested, then move on to step three.

Step Three:

If their personality adds up and you feel the vibes, then ask them for their number. Don’t outright ask them for their number before getting the chance to know them first. What if they were a secret agent? Also, forget to ask for social media, just get the number instead.

Tip #1:

Don’t believe in having “a person.” Everybody’s going to check some boxes and everybody’s going to not check some. The question is, how many do you need to be checked to then say, “I can work with the rest”? Some boxes are bigger, and some boxes are smaller.

There’ll be a lot of people who make promises, tell you what you want to hear, and people who’ll say y’all are destined to be together. Don’t make promises that you can’t keep. So many people make promises but end up breaking them and then feel bad for breaking them. People could also misunderstand you when you talk about your future when they think you’re talking about a future with them.

If people just keep saying they love you early on and are highly physical, then you must watch out for those types of people. They’ll use spirituality to manipulate you into thinking y’all are meant to be together for eternity. The only problem with them is that they like to use magic, witchcraft, and other dark spells.

Whatever you put out into the Universe will come back. So, if you cast a spell on someone, watch your karmic debt add up.

Semen retention is necessary for these types of moments because if you’re not aware, you’ll lose your sexual energy. Sexual energy and your semen are so divine and powerful that people will try to attack you in the physical realm. They’re just purely 3^rd-dimensional physical beings. Hence, demons are in the 3D and the sexual dark entities are in the 4D. The 4D is the dream world, darkness, fallen angels from the moon, and witch hours. Thus, some people experience wet dreams or tend to release their seeds during the night.

Succubus, incubus, and jezebel roam around at nighttime trying to suck your energy dry. That’s why they want you to work so hard as a slave throughout the day, so when you get home, you’ll be lazy enough to only watch the tell-lie-vision. Therefore, they promote sex in movies, TV shows, or doing hidden black magic for you to have a sexual urge. Savor pleasure, but don’t try to take captive.

I would explain how to pick up women throughout this book “How to Overcome Apocalyptic Events” through some of the experiences of the main characters.