IF IT’S TRUE

If it’s true that objects retain their memories

of being handled, used, even properly admired

for their efficiency, like a spoon, or diminished,

like a toothpick that once was part of something

grand, like a pine or a sequoia,

then it’s no wonder that some objects

carry themselves with a kind of stainless dignity,

while others seem to enjoy revenge, become splinters

under our fingernails, never forget their capacity

to right a misuse.

And if it’s true that all objects

made by us soon take on their own personalities,

yet also are driven by what we can’t conceal in ourselves,

this may account for the kind of Frankensteinian power—

meltdowns, monstrous behavior—our children,

no matter how loved, develop to withstand our willfulness.

And if it’s true that they remember being treated

like cogs or toothpicks, or even machines that work perfectly

in public, let us not be surprised when, years later,

they break down in private.