READING THE GINGERBREAD MAN WITH MY DAUGHTER

Read, read, as fast as you can

is what I want to say but don’t,

for that is what she is already doing

though moving painfully slowly

from word to word as through

something viscous as first

the old woman, then the children,

the horse, the cow, the cat

try to catch the Gingerbread Man.

She is at times a better guesser

than reader, trying

after a peak at the picture

to slip “stove” past me

where the word is “oven.”

When I point to ask if that’s

the word for “stove,”

she snuggles closer, grins,

says, “Daddy, I believe so.”

Sitting on the porch,

we puzzle over morphemes

like two Talmudic scholars,

our reading as labored

as any fundamentalist’s,

so tedious I wonder how

she can be following the plot,

its cookie-against-the-world

conflict, its paranoid’s vision

of enemies everywhere,

its message of inevitable defeat,

of the brief ripple loss

leaves in its wake,

of indifference to how

the different suffer.

But she croons each “Stop! Stop!”

knowingly, like a seduction,

shouts melodramatically

the hero’s brash refusals,

laughs at each escape.

She, too, right now,

would like to get away from me,

but tomorrow must deliver to her class

a report about this horrible story

she has been assigned,

and already, seven weeks

into this new school year,

her teacher, who knows

only one way to teach,

and the principal,

who has said he wants no

“special needs” kids in his school,

have given up on her,

are looking for excuses

to get rid of her.

And so we’ll stay here, the book

between us, until the light fails

or we have finished,

although each time anyone

passes on the street,

she must pause to say hello,

to wave and wait for a reply,

which most of the time she gets.

When not, she squints, watching

some jogger or dog-walker pass,

her face screwed up expectantly,

her lips whispering

“hello? hello? hello?”

until I recall her to our task,

encourage her to read more quickly,

enunciate more clearly,

as though by speeding through this book

she might outrun her fate,

as though a good report

will change the principal’s doughy

smile into something real,

as though knowing which letters

spell “oven” will make true

her teacher’s smiling lies

about the school doing all it can.

And so I urge her on

past another foe, the dog

this time, until a clique

of school friends bicycles by

and she must rush to the curb

to call hello. I try

to coax her back, shout

that we’ve just a few pages left,

but she knows how this story ends,

knows all about the fox

on the last page

who will eat the Gingerbread Man

because after all that is exactly

what gingerbread men are made for.

I yell, “Stop! Stop!”

imitating her, imitating

the old woman, the children,

the horse, the cat, the cow,

her teacher, her principal,

wanting to chase and catch her

so we both can run as fast as we can

and cry to everyone we pass

that they can’t catch us.

But I sit, watching the girls

pass by. Each smiles and waves,

but no one stops,

and my daughter stands

a moment longer, arm up,

eyes following, hand moving

in a gesture of greeting

and farewell.