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IF YOUR GOAL HAS BEEN to find an attractive and nice woman to spend some time with but you haven't had much luck, you need to learn the art of seduction.
Most men go about seducing a woman the wrong way. They either come on too strong or feel intimidated and don’t even try. If you find that you’re alone most nights or can’t seem to find a girlfriend, you need to change your seduction tactics.
You don’t have to be rich, muscular, or even good looking to have women falling for you. Use the seduction tips below whether you’re trying to win over one lady or several.
1. Before approaching a woman, decide whether you want to be a nice guy who potentially keeps the girl, or an alpha male who’s looking for short-term dating or just sexual encounters. You'll then need to act the part you feel most comfortable with and go from there.
For instance, a guy who’s just looking for sex will compliment a woman on how she looks and how hot she makes him. He’s appealing to the part of her that needs to feel sexually attractive. If you’re a guy who’s hoping to find your Miss Right, then you’ll want to approach her as a gentleman, keeping things friendly and respectful, then slowly over the course of days and weeks move into more sexual topics.
2. Keep your past relationships, especially your sexual experiences, to yourself. Bragging about how many women you’ve slept with doesn’t impress women at all. In fact, it will turn any girl off and have her looking for someone who isn’t so insecure that he feels the need to boast about his sexual conquests.
Women aren’t expecting a virgin, but they do want to feel special, especially when it comes to sex. They don’t want to be another notch on your belt. On the other hand, if you haven’t had much experience, don’t share this information either.
3. Whether you’re trying to seduce a woman in person or online, don’t approach her with the well-worn line of, “I’m just looking for friends.” Many guys think that by using this strategy a woman will feel more relaxed and open to interacting with him.
The problem is, if you tell her you just want to be friends and you eventually come on to her romantically or sexually she’ll probably be upset and consider you a liar. It’s never wise to lie or deceive a woman because she’ll either see through your act right away, or she'll get angry and never want to see you again when she does find out. It’s better to be honest, confident, and a gentleman from the beginning. Yes, even an alpha male can be a gentleman!
4. When you take a woman out on a date, don’t be cheap. This doesn’t mean wining and dining her at the fanciest restaurant in town, but don’t take her out for fast food and a movie.
A lot of men make the mistake of taking a lady out on a “frugal” date because all he wants to do is get the date over with and hopefully go back to her place and have sex. This seldom works. Women already know that a guy who’s cheap on the first date is only looking for sex or is a financial wreck. If you plan to sleep with this woman more than once you’re going to have to show some class and take her someplace halfway decent.
Seducing a woman doesn’t have to be difficult when you follow these simple tips. If you aren’t used to the art of seduction, just keep practicing and you’ll get better over time.