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MAYBE YOU’VE RECENTLY started dating a special lady or have been with her for a while and you want her to miss you. You want her to think of you when you aren’t together and be so crazy about you that she can’t wait to be with you again. So how do you make her want you more? There are certain things you can do that will make such an impression on her that she won’t want anyone else.
Leave Your Mark
When you’re with her you’ll want to leave your mark. This way, she won’t forget about you as soon as the date is over or if you need to be apart for some reason. Appeal to her senses by making yourself as attractive as possible—shower, cologne, clean teeth, nice clothes and hair. No, you don’t need to look like a model, but poor hygiene, dirty or wrinkled clothes, and coffee breath is a sure way to turn her off.
When you pay attention to your appearance and how you smell, when the date is over she’ll recall how sexy you looked, and the scent of your cologne will linger on her as well.
Be A Great Listener
Save your complaints of how awful your workday was or a speeding ticket you got the other day. Instead, focus on her and what she has to say. Women often say that their men don’t listen to them.
Ask her about her day, if there’s something on her mind, or about her dreams and goals, then sit patiently and listen. Nod your head occasionally and look at her so she knows you’re truly hearing her and are interested in what she has to say.
If she does have a problem, don’t offer any advice. Instead, offer her support, some caring words, a hug or hold her hand. By appealing to her emotional needs you’ll be far ahead of any man she’s ever known before.
Be Confident
There’s nothing sexier than a person with self-confidence. No, this isn’t the same as being egotistical. It simply means that you’re comfortable with who you are, you take care of yourself, and don’t walk around feeling angry at the world or sorry for yourself.
You want to show her that you’re strong, stable, compassionate, and passionate. That you’re a man who has his life together and knows where he’s going. Okay, sometimes you may not always feel so confident, so just fake it! Soon it will feel natural.
Be A Fun Person
Women love men who make them feel good about themselves and who make them smile and laugh. Be a fun person when you’re with her and leave the stress of life and work behind when you’re in her company. Be a bit adventurous and spontaneous and have a good sense of humor.
Don’t Always Be Available
It’s true that women don’t respect a guy who’s always ready, willing and able to drop everything to be with her. Although she may seem hurt or a bit angry that you aren’t always available, she truly does want you to have your own life, hobbies, friends, and interests.
Don’t constantly text, call or email her either. Make her miss you and ache to be with you. Yes, this is a fine line to walk since you don’t want to seem disinterested, but the other side of the coin is you don’t want to appear desperate or smothering. Have a life besides her!
If you want a woman to miss you and want you more, you should put the above tips into action. You need to stick out from the crowd of other men who want her and rise above her past lovers as well. Give her a reason to want you more than anyone one else.