IF YOU WANT TO TURN an evening into something a lady will remember and yearn for, or if you're in a relationship and want to spice up your sex life, giving her an erotic massage will do the trick. An erotic massage has a lot more to do with it than slathering some oil on her back or front and sliding your hand around. By following these secrets you'll become an expert at making a woman melt to her very core and have her lust thermometer rising into the triple digits.
No Knowledge Required
You don't need to go to massage classes or read a book on erotic massage techniques. In fact, these aren't called techniques since these actions don't require any practice or previous training. Instead, these are little known secrets. All you need to get her hot and bothered is a certain touch and attitude. By using these tips your girl will be more than ready for sex afterward.
The point of giving her an erotic massage isn't really to relax any tense muscles or for any therapeutic reasons. After all, I doubt you want to be her massage therapist. What you want to show her through this type of massage is what it will be like to make love with you. You want her to be so sexually turned on by your touch that she simply must have you!
Erotic Massage Secrets
Without using any oil or lotion, use your fingers and brush them softly over her skin, teasing her and arousing her. Focus on her thighs, her face, neck, and arms—purposely avoiding any erogenous zones such as her breasts, butt, etc. This delicious way of touching a woman will make her want you to touch her more and in more places.
You can put a bit of oil or lotion on your hands now or still go without it as you run your fingers and palms up her abdomen and almost to her breasts then back off, sliding your hands down, almost to her pubic region then back up again.
Gently glide your hands down and up her thighs, stopping just before you reach her genitals then moving down her legs again. Each time she's expecting you to “go all the way” and touch her intimate places but you don't, which makes her yearn for you.
If she's lying on her stomach run your hands down her back with your thumbs gently pressing into her spine as you slide them down. Kiss the small of her back and lick it a bit then run your hands upward and around, touching the sides of her breasts. Lean over and nuzzle her neck, softly biting it.
When her breathing is quicker, or you sense that she's sexually aroused, have her turn over. Touch her again, this time going all the way, focusing on her breasts and clitoris if she's open to this. Almost all women will be by this time, but be certain stop if she asks you to or seems uncomfortable.
By following these erotic massage secrets you'll send her into a state of sexual desire she’s never experienced before. Sex will be so much better and far more memorable for you both if you practice this type of foreplay.