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THIS IS THE SINGLE greatest way to give your lady amazing orgasms again and again. Keep in mind that only a tiny percentage of women reach orgasm through intercourse. It doesn’t matter how long you keep pounding away at her since most women simply can’t climax this way. There’s nothing wrong with you or her, it’s just the way things are.
The fact is that the clitoris has more than 8,000 nerve endings. As you can imagine, this makes it extremely sensitive to stimulation and can provide the most satisfying orgasms. The best thing you can do for yourself and her is to master the art of giving her oral sex.
Take Your Time
Women naturally take longer to climax than men do; it’s just how their bodies are wired. Your partner will need to feel safe, comfortable, and relaxed, so never rush through oral sex. Enjoy yourself while you bring her to orgasm and let her enjoy it as well.
If she isn’t used to men offering her cunnilingus it may take longer the first few times, but with practice and patience she’ll be able to come faster, though never as fast as you. Again, this is perfectly okay and simply the difference between men and women.
Be Gentle
Since the clitoris does have so many nerve endings, it’s easy to overstimulate it too quickly or even cause your girl pain. The first thing you want to do is be gentle with that little bud when you first start out. After she gets more aroused you should be able to apply more pressure. If you’re in a long-term relationship with her, over time you’ll learn how hard or soft she likes to be touched.
In the beginning though, start out with soft, slow strokes of your tongue and pay close attention to her body language. Is she arching toward you? Is she moving seductively? Or does she try to back away and tenses up? These are good indicators as to how hard or soft, fast or slow you should go, especially when it comes to women who are too shy to voice their likes and dislikes.
The Alphabet Technique
This is a fun and powerful way to give your lady oral sex. Start with your tongue on the upper, right side of her clitoris then “write” each letter of the alphabet. It doesn’t matter if you do upper case, lower case, or cursive. The point here is that your tongue is going to do some wicked maneuvers over her clit.
Do it nice and slow, spending about one or two seconds per letter. She doesn’t have to know you’re drawing the alphabet on her genitals, but she will know that you’ve got an amazing tongue! Once you’ve gotten to the letter Z you can start all over again or try some of these other strategies.
The Sweeping Technique
This is the easiest cunnilingus move to master. Simply position your tongue to the right or left of her clitoris and move it across to the other side and back in a sweeping motion. Vary the sweeps, moving your tongue slightly up and down so you aren’t going over and over the same area of her clit since this can quickly bore her or overstimulate her.
Keep your tongue soft at first then bring it to a point and move it over her clit before going back to a soft tongue. Variation is the key when you first start out.
The Circle Technique
This strategy works exceptionally well when your partner is more aroused, so use this technique later in the game. Place your tongue on either side of her clit and start moving it around in a clockwise direction around her clitoris, then make the circles smaller until you’re right on the tip of it. Reverse your circles going counter-clockwise after a bit and vary the shape of your tongue. You can first start out with your tongue being soft then bring it to a harder point.
The Licking Technique
Start either from the bottom of her clit or her vaginal opening and slowly lick your way up to the top of her clitoris in one sweep. Make your tongue soft so you cover as much ground as you can on your trip. Go back to the beginning and lick her again.
As she becomes more aroused you can apply more pressure. For the more adventurous, you can begin from her anus and end at her clitoris. To add a little more interest, use snake-like movements over her clit too, flicking your tongue over this sensitive spot.
The Suction Technique
Before you try this move, be sure your partner is very aroused, or it could be too painful for her. Place your mouth over her clitoris and gently draw it into your mouth, sucking gently and releasing then repeating.
Most women say that reaching orgasm while their partner sucks on their clit is the strongest and most incredible there is. Again, you must use this technique wisely and only when she’s already worked up or you could ruin any chance of her coming any time soon.