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WOMEN CAN ORGASM SEVERAL different ways: through clitoral, vaginal, and/or G-spot stimulation. Ladies who have knowledgeable and patient partners report that the G-spot orgasm is strongest and most satisfying.
What Is The G-spot?
The G-spot is a small bean-shaped area of nerve tissue located halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of her cervix. Although the exact size and location varies from one woman to the next, it’s usually about 1.5” - 3” inside the vagina.
You’ll be able to tell if you’ve found her G-spot since the skin there is textured differently. It’s often ridged and, when aroused, has a spongy feel to it, while the rest of the inside of a vagina is smooth.
At first it may be difficult to locate it and your lady may swear she doesn’t have one, though every woman does.
Locating Her G-Spot
1. Have your partner lay on the bed on her back with her knees bent and feet flat on the bed. Put a pillow under her butt for comfort and to angle her vagina properly.
2. With your palm facing up, insert your first and middle finger into her vagina and slightly bend your fingers up toward her belly button. At first try inserting your fingers up to the second knuckle and if that doesn’t work, insert them up to the third knuckle so your fingers are deeper inside.
3. Gently press your fingers against the front wall of her vagina and slide it slowly from side to side. You’ll both know when you’ve found it since the area will swell to about the size of a quarter and she’ll have a sensation that she’s never had before. If you really can’t tell, ask her to let you know when you’ve found this sweet spot.
The G-Spot Technique
When you’ve found her G-spot move your fingers in circles all around the inside of her vagina. This may be more like a massage rather than sliding your fingers around, though try both to see what she likes best. Most women prefer gentle, yet firm and consistent pressure of the area in a steady rotational rhythm.
You can offer her even more pleasure by giving her oral sex while you massage her G-spot. Some women like only one type of stimulation at once though since they can get too overwhelmed and find it hard to reach orgasm.
Continue moving your fingers in circles, but also try tapping lightly on the area, and moving your fingers in and out of her vagina, being sure to rub her G-spot each time.
When she finally reaches orgasm, it will probably be deeper and more intense than any she’s had. Certainly, she’s never had a man stimulate her G-spot before since so few men take the time to master this way of pleasing a woman.
If you do, she’ll never want to let you go, but even if this is a short-term fling, she’ll remember you for the rest of her life. Chances are, no other man will measure up!