Tip 46: Extreme Self Respect

There is a connection between self-nurturing
and self-respect.

Julia Cameron

Extreme Self Care is something I recommend to clients whenever they’re feeling a bit low or down in the dumps. Extreme Self Care means putting yourself first, wrapping yourself up in cotton wool, lots of pampering and generally taking really good care of yourself.

Extreme Self Respect is another nurturing habit to practice. The best thing is that you can apply it to so many different situations, such as:

image a reminder to give yourself a treat of some kind

image to book that holiday you’ve been putting off

image to look after your health

image to choose not to gossip about others

image to NOT demolish that huge piece of chocolate cake

image to raise your standards at work

image to stand up for what you believe in

image to say no to something that doesn’t serve you

image to stick to your values

image to maintain strong personal boundaries at home or at work

image to make time for what’s important to you

We all deserve respect and the best place to start is by respecting ourselves.

Respect your efforts, respect yourself.
Self-respect leads to self-discipline.
When you have both firmly under your belt,
that's real power.

Clint Eastwood

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They cannot take away our self-respect
if we do not give it to them.

Mahatma Gandhi

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If we lose love and self-respect for each other,
this is how we finally die.

Maya Angelou