Abramson, Jill, 289
Abuse, animal, 230
Abusive behavior
condoning, refusal, 261–263
types, 230
Abusive ritual, performance, 174
Abusive spouse (term, usage), 96
Accountability. See Offender accountability; Perpetrators
lessons, 249–251. See also Sports
Accused, The, 115
Accusers, 260. See also Alleged victims/accusers
Activists, 64–71
Alleged victims/accusers, 77–79
American Pie, 120–121, 192
Amos, Tori, 159
Anger management skills, 229
Animal House, 121
Anti-family stance, 86
Anti-male label, 95
Anti-racism educators, responsibility (opinions), 234
Anti-rape activism, male defensiveness, 82
Anti-rape movement, 188
change, 155–156
Anti-rape violence testimonials, 247
Anti-sexism backlash, 159
Anti-sexist leadership, potential, 239
Anti-sexist males/men, 184–186, 241, 244
educators, paralysis, 241–242
groups, initiation, 266–268
impact, 76
momentum, increase, 254–255
neutered wimps, claims, 86
presence, need, 245
work, challenge, 51
Anti-violence activists, 235–236
Athletes, MVP impact, 207
Athletes of color, dismissal, 138–139
Bad boys
behavior, excuse, 156
posturing, 165
Baker, Katherine K., 150–151, 287
Bancroft, Lundy, 26, 166, 272, 287
BangBus, 187
Barbarism, 269
Barely Legal, 30
Barker, Bob, 176
Barracks Heroes, scenario, 224–225
Barry, Kathleen, 195–196, 282, 287
Battered women
advocates, 164
frustration, 111–112
literature, 95
myth, 164
programs, 95–96
responsibility, 95
Battered women, movement
advocates/researchers, 45–46
insights, 87
obstacles, 94–95
Batterers, 53
abusive behavior, denial, 27
characteristics, 28
intervention programs, 49
Battering culture, 117
Beauty and the Beast, 164
Bergen, Raquel, 287
Berkowitz, Alan, 211, 219, 272
Berkowitz, Scott, 265
Bertuzzi, Todd, 141
Bevacqua, Maria, 287
Big tent movement building, 255–256
expansion, challenges, 256–258
Bird, Sharon, 123
Birth of a Nation, 281
Black culture, fault lines, 144
Black men
bad behavior, code, 137–138
racist stereotype, 134
stereotypes, problems, 143
violence, racist image, 135
Black-on-black violence, 143
Bowker, Lee H., 287
Boy code, 280
Boy Scouts, questions, 257–258
Boys
abuse, repercussions, 44
behavior, 240
anti-male implication, 86
excuses. See Bad boys
permanence/repetition, 86–89
disrespect, girls (attraction), 163–165
Eminem
lyrics, desensitization, 163
popularity, danger, 165–166
immaturity, 247
influence, 270
knowledge, gathering process, 232–233
men, concern, 43–46
message, sending, 233
mothers, impact, 236–237
peer pressure, 118–122
perpetrators. See Violence
pornography, impact, 191–192
posturing. See Bad boys
suffering, 277
teaching, women (impact), 246–247
violence exposure, studies, 231
Boys To Men, 291
Brothers, men
loyalty, 27–29
relationship, 35
Brown, Kevin (violence), 88–89
Brown University, rapist names (writing), 80
Brownmiller, Susan, 93–94, 279, 287
Bryant, Kobe
accusations, 77
behavior, 138
case, settlement, 78
lawyers, impact, 27
Los Angeles Lakers fans,
responses/reactions, 139–140, 154–158
rape charge, innocence, 156–157
victim, 175
Bullies. See Leykis; Limbaugh; Stern
Bundy, Ted, 134
Burdick, Michael, 205–206
Burdon, Eric, 60
Burke, Sean, 140
Bush, George W. (preventive war), 121–122
Butkus, Dick, 208–209
Bystanders
concept, usage. See Mentors in Violence Prevention
education. See Gender violence impact, 113
roles, 124
Canada, Geoffrey, 99, 287
Captive Daughters, 196
Caputi, Jane, 287
Cash, David, 116
Cassidy, L., 287
Catholic Church, sexual abuse scandal, 106, 234
CAVNET. See Communities Against Violence Network
Celebrity culture, pretensions, 172–173
Center for Study of Sport in Society (Northeastern University), 124, 209
Center for the Advancement of
Women, 12
Central Park Rampage. See Puerto
Rican Day
Chapman, Tracy, 60
Cheney, Dick (dissension, silencing), 121–122
Children
abduction (summer 2002), 104–107
alcoholic parents, impact, 228
education, 227
rights, 261
sexualization, 184–185
Chippendales, nonsexism proof, 199
Chivalry, trap, 52–55
Chmura, Mark, 138
Christmas, George, 207
Chu, Jeff, 287
Chyna (Joanie Laurer), 172
Clay, Andrew “Dice,” 128–129, 285
Clothesline Project, 64
Clothing, provocativeness (problems), 152–153
Coaching Boys Into Men, 227–228
Cohn, Carol, 121, 287
Columbine shooting/massacre, 99, 173
Communities Against Violence Network (CAVNET), 266
Condit, Gary, 23
Consciousness, raising, 60–61
Consenting adults, definition, 30
CosmoGirl, 163, 165
Coulter, Ann, 287
Council for Prostitution Alternatives, 195
Cox, Bobby, 138
Creativity. See Men
Criminal mind, analysis, 23
Crowd psychology, 103
Crowley, Kristen, 202
Cullen, F.T., 288
Cultural deficiencies, 269
Cultural setting, teacher credibility/popularity, 244–245
Cultural values, teacher/transmitter, 151
Culture. See Battering culture; Rape culture
collective will. See Male culture impact. See Sports; Stripping policing mechanisms. See Male culture; Male-peer culture relationship. See Race women, socialization. See Misogynistic culture
Dahmer, Jeffrey, 134
D.A.I.P. See Duluth Domestic Abuse Intervention Project
Darrow, Clarence, 280
Date rapes, 80
DC Men Against Rape, 284
DeBecker, Gavin, 50, 287
Denial
breakthroughs, 31–33
usefulness, 31
Denizet-Lewis, Benoit, 281
Department of Defense Task Force on Domestic Violence, 72
Deviance, 149
Different Kind of Dude Fest, 267
Dines, Gail, 181, 184, 190, 271, 287
Divorce, 263
Dobson, James, 185
Domestic disputes, 105
Domestic violence, 6, 7
advocacy, 69
crime, 229
prevention, 9
survivors, 115
women-led movements, 253
Dowd, Maureen, 165, 278, 287
Dowling, Colette, 54, 288
Dr. Dre, 142, 166
Dubin, Marc, 266, 272
Duluth Domestic Abuse Intervention Project (D.A.I.C.), 223
Dworkin, Andrea, 54, 273, 277, 288
Dykens, Timothy, 202–204
Earp, Jeremy, 271
Edelson, Jeff, 288
Egos, stroking, 73
Ellsberg, M., 288
Emerick, Al, 262–263
Eminem
Anger Management Tour, 167
anti-women lyrics, excuses, 162
cultural force, 159
cultural meanings, 162
homophobia, 161
lyrical endorsement. See Violence lyrics
degradation, reconciliation, 165–166
desensitization. See Boys; Men impact. See Girls; Women reading, impact, 159–160
misogyny, 158
critics, defense, 281
popularity
danger. See Boys; Men
impact/setback. See Girls; Women
pornography, 160–161
racial storyline, impact. See Racist myths
rebel image, problem, 168–169
sex symbol, 163
success, impact. See Mothers
verbal bullying. See Gays; Women
Engender Health, 264
Ensler, Eve, 267
Entrepreneurship. See Men
Eriksen, Shelley, 274
Erwin, Patricia, 223
Fabiano, P., 288
Facts, 19
Faith-based organizations, participation, 257
FaithTrust Institute, 257
Faludi, Susan, 94, 288
Falwell, Jerry, 185
Family violence, consideration, 7
Family Violence Prevention Fund, 10, 43–44, 227, 285–286
poll (2000), 255
Farley, Melissa, 181, 282
Fathers
men, relationship, 35
role/teaching, 234–236
Fear, geography, 135
Fields, Jerri Lynn, 272
Female sexuality, prominence, 172
Female strip cultures, contrast. See Male strippers
Female victimization, 81
Female-on-male violence, 46
Feminazi, 74–75, 178
effect, 76
Feminist outsiders, 223
Feminist perspectives, attacks, 107
Feminist politics, blunting, 94
Feminist strippers, 198
Fergusen, D., 288
Ferguson, Ann, 271
Financial resources, contribution, 264–265
Finch, Atticus, 227
Finkelhor, David, 288
Fisher, B.S., 288
Flutie, Doug, 207
Flynt, Larry, 30
Fort, Daryl, 272
Fortune, Marie, 257, 272
Foubert, John, 287
Foster, Jodie, 115
Frankenberg, Ruth, 144, 288
Fraternity Anti-Violence Education Project, 259
Frey, Amber, 278, 288
Friends, men (loyalty), 27–29
Funk, Rus Ervin, 272, 288
Gacy, John Wayne, 134
Gang rape
participation, 123–124
videotaping, 191
Gangsta rap
debate, 143–144
violence/fantasy, 145
white masculinity, relationship, 141–146
Gays
assumptions, 125, 128
bashing, 9, 209, 214
Eminem, verbal bullying, 168
murder/bigotry, 51–52
stereotype. See Men
Gazmararian, J.A., 288
Gender crimes, 98
Gender neutral language, impasse, 97
Gender neutral problems, 90
process, explanation, 93–97
Gender neutrality, intentionality, 96
Gender violence
athletes/race, relationship, 137–141
crimes, men (conviction), 114
discussions, 232–233
issues, 67, 222
language, 258
racialized dimensions, 147
male cause, national conversation, 6
men
self-interest, 37
shutdown, 13–14
occurrence, frequency, 20–21
one-size-fits-all prevention strategies, 147
personal level, benefits, 40
political crime, 269
prevention, 44, 49
bystander education, 116
education, 238
men, interaction, 67–68
model, usage, 209–210
politics, challenge, 258–259
statistical proof, 21–22
stopping, 240
Genovese, Kitty, 116
Gilligan, Carol, 62, 288
Gilligan, James, 277, 290
Girlfest Hawaii, 147–148, 267, 280
Girls
attraction. See Boys; Men
bodies, war zone, 151–152
Eminem
lyrics, impact, 163
popularity, impact/setback, 158
men, concern, 42–43
pimp targets, 282
rape message, 156
risk-reduction model, 234
suffering, 41–42, 192
treatment, preference (belief), 211–212
Glass, John, 205
Global actions. See Local/global actions
Gloucester Men Against Domestic Abuse, 267
Godfather, The, 121
Godfather, The (WWE character), 172
Goldstein, Richard, 160–162, 281, 288
Gonzo porn, 190
Good guys, 52–54
characterization, 183
Good Will Hunting, 39, 277
Goodfellas, 121
Goodwin, M.M., 288
Gottemoeller, M., 288
Graham, Danielle, 73
Grazer, Brian, 162
Great unmentionable, 140
Groupthink, documentary accounts, 121
Guilt. See White guilt
pleasures, 181
presence/existence, 24–26
Guy language, 265
Gwinn, Casey, 50
Hammer, Rhonda, 272, 290
Hanson, Curtis, 162
Hanson, Katherine, 290
Hardcore, 190
Harris, Eric, 173
Harvard School of Public Health, 234
Hate humor, 168
Hatha, J., 290
Hayashi, Mark, 244
Hazing incident (Glenview, Illinois), 99
Heise, L., 288
Heisterkamp, Alan, 283
Heldman, Caroline, 272
Hell’s Angels, 203–204
High-profile male athletes, public service campaigns, 256–257
Hilburn, Robert, 288
HIV/AIDS
epidemic, paradox, 264
transmission, 263
Hockey, fighting (tolerance), 141
Hoes. See Whores
Holland, Daniel, 44
Holocaust, good German role, 116
Holsopple, K., 288
Homophobia. See Eminem
gossip, 244
male attitudes/behaviors, 247
normalcy, appearance, 163
spread, 146
Hong, Luoluo, 259
Honor
killings, 56–57
saving, 55
Hook ups, 152
hooks, bell, 131, 132, 288
argument, 146
Hooters, 233
Hotaling, G., 288
Human behavior, explanation, 92
Human erotic imagination, complexity, 183
Humiliation, 71
Humilitainment, 187
Hunter, Susan Kay, 194
Hunting for Bambi, hoax, 204–206
Hurrell, R.M., 287
Hurt, Byron, 194, 211, 216, 282
Hypermasculinity, 194
posturing, 144, 228
Illegal Motion scenario, 216–219
Information Technology Association of America, 192
Institute on Domestic Violence, 267
Institutional reform, promulgation, 268
International Day for the Eradication of Violence against Women, 285
International Human Rights Law Institute (DePaul University College of Law), 196
Internet, growth, 251
Interpersonal conflicts, male behavior, 39–40
Interpersonal violence, forms, 91
Intimidation, 243–244
Iverson, Allen, 105
Jackson, Janet, 109, 146, 279
Jameson, Jenna, 185
Jensen, Robert, 149, 186, 188–190, 282, 288
Jewish women, tensions, 66–67
Jhally, Sut, 47, 281
Jockocracy, 124
John, Elton, 161
Jonesboro massacre (shooting), 97–100
Juvenile detention centers, boy populations, 45
Kalven, Jamie, 50, 273, 288
Kanuha, Valli, 223
Kaplan, Claire, 272
Keathley, Elizabeth, 168, 288
Keegan, John, 202–204
Kelley, Robin D.G., 145, 288
Kellner, Douglas, 120, 280, 289
Kennedy, David, 97–98
Kid Rock, rap (impact), 195
Kilmartin, Chris, 265
Kimmel, Michael, 119, 227, 273, 291
Kindlon, Dan, 99, 289
Kinison, Sam, 50, 285
Kivel, Paul, 131, 135, 289
KKK, rebel models, 169
Klebold, Dylan, 173
Klein, Alan, 243, 289
Kristof, Nicholas, 286
Lad magazines, increase, 120
Lakoff, Robin Tolmach, 289
Landesman, Peter, 282, 289
Language
impact, 97–108
shift, 92
Lapchick, Richard, 140, 209, 273, 280
LaRiviere, Mike, 262
Latino men, racist stereotype, 134
Laurer, Joanie. See Chyna
Lawrence, J.M., 203, 289
Lefkowitz, Bernard, 28, 242–243, 289
Leigh, Janet, 202
Letourneau, Mary Kay, 106
Levine, Amy, 272
Levitra challenge, 209
Levy, Chaundra, 23, 105
Levy, David, 271
Lewis, I.A., 288
Lewis, Victor, 25
Leykis, Tom
(bully), 172, 175–178
misogyny, extremeness, 175176
women, manipulation, 177
Limbaugh, Rush, 75, 289
(bully), 172, 178–179
Linkenbach, J., 288
Lisak, David, 272, 289
Local/global actions, 268–270
Loffreda, Beth, 289
Lord, Audre, 132
Lovers, men (relationship), 35
Low-level harassment/abuse, 24
MacKinnon, Catherine, 93, 289
Mahlstedt, Deborah, 259
Mailer, Norman, 145
Male Athletes Against Violence (University of Maine), 123
Male culture
collective will, 255–256
policing mechanisms, 125
shift, 117
Male educators
involvement, 241–246
personal comfort level, 242
Male leadership
absence. See Schools
failure, 247
Male pathology, 81
Male rage, tapping, 159
Male sports culture, leadership potential, 248
Male strippers, 199
female strip cultures, contrast, 282
Male-bashers, 73, 75
criticism, defusing, 247
defensiveness, 80
implication, 79
Orwellian quality, 76
problem, 78
Male-bashing exercise, 106
Male-bashing women, 85
Male-centered partying culture, 120
Male-dominated society, women violence/hatred, 146
Male-peer culture
dynamics, 125
policing mechanisms, 125–129
Mancipation Proclamation, 265
Mandela, Nelson, 253, 283
Manhood
caricatures, 196
cultural beliefs, 26–27
establishment, 145
problems, 169–172
Manson, Charles, 134
Margold, Bill, 190
Marine Corps, 114, 273
characteristics, 223
conversion, 232
motivation, 223–224
MVP impact, 207, 222–225
Marks, J.S., 288
Masculine characteristics, exaggeration, 102
Masculine socialization, impact, 99
Masculinity. See Gangsta rap
homosocial enactment, 119
play-fighting, relationship, 68
posturing. See Hypermasculinity
Massie, Thalia, 280
Mathers, Debbie, 167
Mathers, Marshall, 161, 164, 169
Mayer, Jane, 289
McBride, James, 122, 289
McCall, Nathan, 121, 123–124, 280, 289
McChesney, Robert, 289
McEvoy, Alan, 277
McGuire, Amanda, 190
McMahon, Vince, 171
McPherson, Don, 77, 265–266
MCSR. See Men Can Stop Rape
Mederos, Fernando, 133, 147, 289
Media
culture/messages, 251–252
sexual content, 193–194
sexualized bodies, display, 233
Media Education Foundation (MEF), 273
Media literacy, 251–252
Meili, Trisha, 278, 289
Men. See Anti-sexist men
abuse, help (seeking), 261
assistance. See Women
bashing, 73, 75
behavior, 240
callousness/cruelty
reduction, 192
truth, 182
concern. See Boys; Girls; Women control, importance, 133
creativity, 265–266
defensive hostility, 25–26, 32
disrespect, 43
girls, attraction, 163–165
dominance, need, 229
education, women (impact), 61
Eminem
lyrics, desensitization, 163
popularity, danger, 165–166
empathy, 220
entrepreneurship, 265–266
honesty, 260
influence, 122
rewards, 270
issues, 12–18
loyalty. See Brothers; Friends measuring up, 123
misogynistic attitudes, 211
opinions. See Sexism
peer pressure, 118–122
perpetrators. See Violence focus, 5–6
personal responsibility, seriousness, 258
power, usage, 268
primary perpetrators, 15–16
relationship. See Women
self-help, 259–270
sexism (challenge), gay stereotype, 127–129
sexual pleasure, assessment, 189–190
silence, complicity, 25
stories, 46–49
suffering, 277
support. See Women
increase, 47
testimonies, 48–49
traditional roles, viewpoint, 147
truth, selectivity. See Real men values/beliefs, 230
violence
cessation, 50
connection, 263–264
impact, nonrealization, 38
problem, historical dimensions, 21–22
women
defense, reasons, 83–84
fighting, rationale, 84
loyalty, 84
trust, question, 258–259
Men Against Violence, 259
Men Against Violence Against Women, 262
Men and Masculinity conferences, 254
Men As Partners, 264
Men Can Stop Rape (MCSR), 123, 267, 284
Men of color
caricature, 134–135
dismissal. See Athletes of color status quo, maintenance, 41
Men Stopping Rape (MSR), 254, 284
Men Stopping Violence, 254, 284
Men’s Health, 279
Orwellian inversion, 82
Men’s Leadership Forum, 267
Men’s Rape Prevention Project, 284
Men’s Resource Center for Change, 285
Men’s Resource Connection (MRC), 285
Men’s rights movement, disinformation, 15
Men’s work, field (growth), 254
Mentors in Violence Prevention (MVP), 124, 209
bystanders, concept (usage), 210
conversations, shift, 215–216
development, 207
impact. See Athletes; Marine Corps model
goals, 216–217
usefulness, 214
participation/expectation, 221–222
real-life situations, usage, 213–214
scenarios, 216–217
abuse focus, 214–215
SEC funding, 209–210
sessions, 125, 283
conversations, 219
initiation, 212
train of thought, impact, 217–218, 220–221
trainers, response, 212, 213
trainings, 284
workshops, athletic department (acting cosponsor), 248–249
Micro-politics, 259
Miller, Paul, 289
Miller Brewing Company, 208
Misogynistic culture, women (socialization), 9–10
Misogyny, 228. See also Eminem; Leykis; Rap music; White rock music
Mob psychology, 103
Mock-rape, 171
Moore, Steve, 141
Mosmiller, Tom, 289
Mothers
blaming, Eminem success (impact), 166–168
impact. See Boys
role/teaching, 236–237
Movements, experience, 94
Moxley, Martha, 105
Moxley, R.Scott, 191
MRC. See Men’s Resource Connection
MSR. See Men Stopping Rape
Mullen, P., 288
Multicultural movements, political attacks/bureaucratic inertia, 94
Mura, David, 289
MVP. See Mentors in Violence Prevention
National Asian Pacific American Women’s Forum, 267
National Basketball Association (NBA), player assault (league image), 141
National Center on Domestic and Sexual Violence, 59
National Collegiate Athletic Association, MVP material (usage), 209–210
National Conference on Men and Masculinity, 285
National Domestic Violence Hotline, 275
National Network to End Domestic Violence, 77, 235
National Organization for Men Against Sexism (NOMAS), 254, 284
National Victim Center, 110
National Women’s Studies Conference, 111
Nelly, Pimp Juice beverage, 195
News
gender-violence tragedies, 6
impact, 20–33
Nixon, Richard, 208
No Child Left Behind Act of 2001, 239
NOMAS. See National Organization for Men Against Sexism
Non-egalitarian sexual relationship, 152
Oakland Men’s Project (OMP), 25, 254, 284
O’Brien, Jeff, 221–222, 273
O’Connor, Anne-Marie, 289
Off Our Backs, 279
Offender accountability, 96
Offsides scenario, 219–220
Okun, Rob, 272
OMP. See Oakland Men’s Project One in Four, 267
Orange County, gang rape trial, 191–192
Organized team sports, leadership (prized ideal), 250
Out-of-context media coverage, 23–24
Paglia, Camille, 85, 279, 289
Palffy, Ziggy, 140
Palmer, Craig T., 87, 290
Palmiero, Rafael, 283
Parental divorce case, 44
Parents, awareness/worry, 233–237
Passive voices. See Voices
usage, 108–109
Peacock, Dean, 264
Peer cultures
dynamics, 122
policing mechanisms. See Male-peer culture
Peer pressure. See Boys; Men
Pence, Ellen, 223, 273
Penelope, Julia, 111
Perkins, W., 288
Perpetrators. See Men
accountability, 118_
characteristics, 28
focus, 15–16
Petersen, R., 288
Peterson, Scott, 133–134
audience involvement, 135
Phillips, Lynn M., 201, 289
Piercy, Marge, 49, 277, 289
Pimps
impact, 194–196
mention, 198
Pines, A.M., 290
Planned Parenthood of South Africa, 264
Play-fighting, relationship. See Masculinity
Pleck, Elizabeth, 289
Pollack, William, 99, 126, 289
Pop culture, storyline, 152–154
Pornography. See Reality porn cruelty, demand, 189
degradation, 5
honesty, 182–184
impact, 181. See also Boys
industry, 230
criticism, 186
profits, concern, 193
marketing, 184
negative impact, 192–193
production, industry understanding, 186
wars, 184–186
Pre-wedding ritual, 126
Prisoner rape, 22, 46
Privacy, invasion, 191
Pro-feminist men, 241
Pro-porn feminists, 185
Prostitutes
discovery, 197
violence/targets, 201–202
Prostitution
age (average), entry, 276
impact, 181
Pseudopedophilia, 190
Psycho, 202
Puerto Rican Day (2000)
Central Park Rampage, 102
violence, 24, 97, 102–104
Race
complexities, 146–147
culture, relationship, 131
discussion, white men (impatience), 140
questions, 132
relationship. See Gender violence
Racial matters, importance, 132–133
Racial/ethnic group, characteristics, 133
Racist myths (perpetuation), Eminem racial storyline (impact), 166
Racist stereotypes, 103. See also Black men; Latino men
RAINN, 286
Raj, A. Mucci, 290
Ramsey, E.M., 289
Rap music, misogyny, 142–143
Rape
kit, completion, 218
prevention educators, 16
scandal. See U.S. military
survivors, alcohol problems (percentage), 45
victims, 150
war crime label, 269
Rape Aggression Defense (RAD) program, 278
Rape and Violence End Now (RAVEN), 254
Rape culture, 117, 188, 284–285
concept, 149
contribution, 178
existence, denial, 68
Rape Myth Acceptance Scale, 230
Rapestock. See Woodstock ‘99
Rapists
characteristics, 150–151
defining/avoidance, 79–83
facial features, 28
mythic image, 149–150
types, studies, 114
Rapping, Elayne, 201, 289
Reagan, Ronald, 95
Real, Terrence, 290
Real Men, 254
Real men, truth (selectivity), 19
Real Men Outdoor Productions, 205
Reality porn, 187
Real-life violence, intervention, 163
Reed, K.C., 194
Reich, Wilhelm, 290
Rich, Frank, 161–162
Riot Girrls, 267
Rivers, Victor Rivas, 77, 235, 290
Robinson, Glenn, 105
Robinson, Lori, 66, 290
Roiphe, Katie, 85
Rosenfeld, Diane, 188, 272
Rossi, Jerome, 77
Roy, Patrick, 138
Rumsfeld, Donald (dissension, silencing), 121–122
Runnion, Samantha, 105
Russell, Bertrand, 19, 276, 290
Russell, Diana E.H., 93–94, 290
Rybak, D.C., 109
Sabo, Don, 247, 272
Saltzman, L.E., 288
Saturday Night Fever, 121
Schlafly, Phyllis, 86
School-based anti-sexist efforts, 241
School-based gender violence prevention education, male participants (need), 245
Schools
athletic subculture, role, 247–249
athletics, culture, 233
male leadership, absence, 237–251
prevention programs, 238–239
systems, strategies, 249
Seinfield, bystander reference, 115
Self-interested denial, 26
Senior leadership, responsibility, 268
Sex industry, 182
sexist exploitation, 183
Sex trafficking
business, 198
demand, 196–198
Sexism
acceptance, 29–31
men, opinions, 126–127
popularity, 62
women, battle, 17
Sexist behavior, condoning (refusal), 261–263
Sexist ritual, protest, 127
Sex-positive advocates, 126–127, 184–185
Sexual abuse histories, 42
Sexual assault
survivors, 45, 115
victims, 93
Sexual harassment laws
concept, 93
passage, 174
Sexual objectification, 188
Sexual predators, percentage, 196
Sexual relationship. See Non-egalitarian sexual relationship
Sexual slavery, war crime label, 269
Sexual titillation, exploitation, 109–110
Sexual violence
men (approach), reluctance, 69–70
normalization, 151–152
prevention, 9, 182
men, entry, 185–186
movements, 257
secondary factors, focus (reasons), 105–106
survivors, support, 65–66
women-led movements, 253
Sexualized violence, depiction/exposure (impact), 153–154
Shaw, Hank, 265
Shepard, Matthew, 51–52
Shock jocks, 175
humiliation tactics, 230
Shock therapy approach, variations, 32
Silbert, M.H., 290
Silver, Scott, 162
Silverman, J., 290
Simpson, O.J.
behavior, 138
news coverage, 139
trial, 131–132
Skakel, Michael, 105
Smith, Bubba, 208–209
Smith, C., 288
Social activism, change, 266
Social forces, impact, 37–38
Social justice education, 115–116
Social norms theory, 11–12
Social positions, 122
Socialization, impact. See Masculine socialization
Sociopaths, myth, 29–30
Soler, Esta, 10, 290
Sommers, Christina Hoff, 85, 86, 290
Sons, men (relationship), 35
Sophocles, 73
Sopranos, The, 121, 135
Spears, Britney, 152
Spitz, A.M., 288
Sports
accountability, lessons, 249–251
culture, impact, 210–222
Sports Leadership Institute, 265
Stafford, Judy, 283
Stannard, David, 290
Stark, C., 288
Stein, Nan, 290
Steinbeck, John, 113, 279
Steinem, Gloria, 8, 279
Stereotypes. See Men; Racist stereotypes
Stern, Howard
(bully), 172–175
popularity, question, 173–174
show, 154
Stoltenberg, John, 182, 290
STOP grants, 275
Stratus, Trish, 171
Strippers. See Feminist strippers; Male strippers
violence/targets, 201–202
Stripping (strip culture)
impact, 181
mainstream movement, 126, 198–204
men, respect/disrespect, 200
sexist trappings, impact, 203
Stuart, Carol DiMaiti (murder), 135–137
Stuart, Charles, 135–137
Survivors, 64–71. See also Domestic violence; Sexual assault
alcohol problems, percentage. See Rape
male support, importance, 260
problems, 64–65
support, 260. See also Sexual violence
Swartz, Shauna, 187
Tailhook convention, sexual assaults, 23–24
Take Back the Night (TBTN) rallies, 31, 64, 278
Tangemann, Linda, 272
Tarnas, Richard, 61–62, 290
Taylor, Art, 209, 273
TBTN. See Take Back the Night Teen dating violence education, 246
Teen People, 163
Teen-relationship abuse, 237–238
Thelma and Louise, 61, 107
Theweleit, Klaus, 278, 290
Thompson, Michael, 99, 289
Thornhill, Randy, 87, 290
Timberlake, Justin, 109, 279
Torre, Joe, 35, 77, 277
Tough Guise, 251
Touréé, 161
Train of thought, impact. See
Mentors in Violence Prevention Triple H, 171–172
Trunked, 187
Tuchman, Gaye, 61
Tucker, Debby, 59, 273
Turner, M.G., 288
Tyson, Mike, 138
Uniform Code of Military Justice, 57
University of Massachusetts-Amherst, 80–82, 271
Unser, Jr., Al, 105
U.S. military
complicity, 197
rape scandal (2003-2004), 97, 108
Vachss, Andrew, 110–111, 290
Vagina Monologues, The, 267
van Dam, Danielle, 104
Vanilla Ice, 166
V-Day, supportive male roles, 267
Venn diagram, 256
Victimization, risk, 36
Victims. See Alleged victims/accusers; Sexual assault
blaming, 27, 29, 112
propensities, 211
focus, 15–16
respect, 6–7
support, 240
Violence
boys/men, perpetrators (predominance), 78–79
cycle, breaking, 235–236
Eminem, lyrical endorsement, 161
experience, 38
sharing, reticence, 38
explanation, 87–88
imitation, 170
perpetration, responsibility, 92
responsibility, shift, 110
self-perpetuating cycle, 228
sexualizing, 153
Violence Against Women Act (VAWA), 11, 86, 275
Violence Against Women Office (Department of Justice), 245–246, 266
Virgin, forced choice, 152–153
Voices
passivity, 108–112
hearing, 71–72
Waitt, Cindy, 283
Waitt, Ted, 77, 264–265
Walker, Alice, 132
Wallace, Michelle, 132
Warshaw, Robin, 290
Weisberg, D.K., 290
Wenner, Lawrence, 290
White experience, racialness (examination), 144
White guilt, 25
White masculinity, relationship. See Gangsta rap
White men, impatience. See Race
White Ribbon Campaign (WRC), 254, 285
White rock music, misogyny, 142
White womanhood, defenders (racist role, rejection), 139
Whores
forced choice, 152–153
(hoes), impact, 194–196
Wife-beater (term, change), 96
Williams, Oliver, 267
Wiltz, Teresa, 290
Winfrey, Oprah, 266
Wise, Tim, 134
Women
abuse, 83–84
blaming, 92
bodies, war zone, 151–152
conservatives, 85–86
control, men’s right, 73
defense, reasons. See Men
degradation, 103–104
economic/political power, increase, 71–72
Eminem
lyrics, impact, 163
popularity, impact/setback, 158
verbal bullying, 168
experience, impact. See Men
focus, 16
hatred, 129
lyrics, 141–142
openness, 190–191
rants, 176
human rights, denial, 263
impact. See Boys
introspection, 20
leadership, 239–240
libertarians, 85–86
listening, 59
power, 71–72
loyalty. See Men
male protection, problems, 52–54
men
allies, gratefulness, 14
concern, 42–43
support, 253
mistreatment, 93
personal male issue, 53
movement, second wave, 93
objectification, 103–104
problem, 263
opinions, marginalization, 68
physical appearance, features, 199–200
pimp targets, 282
rape
global impact, 149
message, 156
number, 110
reduction, 186
rights
advocates, 117
limits, 201
risk reduction, 112–113
self-censorship, 25–26
sexual aggression, responsibility, 207
sexuality, features, 199–200
socialization. See Misogynistic culture
struggle, 8–9
suffering, 41–42, 192
traditional roles, viewpoint, 147
violence, perpetration, 106–107
Women, issues, 12–18
gynocentric nature, 17
men
ignoring, excuses, 13–14
personal relationship, 14–15
Women, violence
acceptance/cultural norm, 160
connection, 263–264
men
admitting, 36
assistance, 259–270
relationship, 5
problem, naming, 91–93
rebellion, misperception, 168–169
reduction, 7
men, involvement, 16–18
Women of color, violence, 41
Woodstock ‘99
men, impact, 101
Rapestock, epithet, 100
violence, 97, 100–102
World Wide Web, growth, 251
World Wrestling Entertainment (WWE), 103
problems, 169–172
women, role, 170–171
WRC. See White Ribbon Campaign
Wrestling, problems, 169–172. See also World Wrestling Entertainment
WWE. See World Wrestling
Entertainment
Wynn, Mark, 51
Yancey, Kitty Bean, 290
Yllo, Kersti, 91
Youth violence, 263
Zoll, Miriam, 263–264, 271