Epilogue

From that low point in my sex life—with a history of occasional premature ejaculations, severe performance anxiety and a moderate degree of erectile dysfunction—fast forward twenty months.

It was early one Sunday morning and I was standing at the window of a hotel room looking out at a spectacular view of a city just beginning to stir. The sun was still below the horizon and my partner was sleeping quietly in our bed.

I briefly thought back to that time on the tropical island, and how my self-esteem had been so low. Then I remembered the previous night we had just shared. We had celebrated a wedding anniversary with a romantic dinner at one of our favourite restaurants, then strolled back through the city to our room.

What unfolded was a night of glorious ecstasy. A long and tender session of foreplay led to an equally long and wildly passionate session of love-making. We rode waves of bliss, orgasm following orgasm until finally we climaxed in an achingly intense finale that seemed to last forever.

Then spent and totally satisfied, we lay in each other’s arms, gazing softly at each other, united in mind and spirit. Shiva and Shakti in the city!

By my proposed new definition of Sex God in the introduction of this e-book, I had “ticked every box”. I had reached Sex God status! Amazing! I reflected on what an incredible twenty month journey of personal discovery I had just completed. From my holiday on that tropical island to the previous evening my transformation was complete. The powerful personal vision I had created had become a new reality. My brain had new and strong connections that enabled sexual performance beyond my wildest dreams. My body was renewed with health, strength and vitality, power and potency. My partner and I share extraordinary levels of sexual intensity, intimacy and bliss.

If the 7 Steps to Sex God status were just about improved sexual performance and the realisation of my full potential as a sexual human being, the journey was richly rewarding. But the journey has given me so much more: confidence, self-esteem, better health, improved sleep patterns, inner contentment and closer relationships. I feel humble and grateful to receive “a second chance”, not just to experience a wonderful sex life, but to experience an amazing life.

If any or all of the 7 Steps to Sex God status have helped your sexual performance, or brought you closer to realising your full sexual potential, or if they have led to more holistic benefits, it is both my honour and my pleasure to have contributed to your journey.

I wish you well for the future—a life of rich experiences, health, wellbeing and happiness.

And should you reach it, Sex God status for life!

Jonathon McGregor