Dear Ms. Sincere Jones,
I am so tired of my boyfriend. I am ready to end my relationship of three years. He doesn’t listen to me. When I tell him anything, he thinks that I am overreacting. Really??? I don’t think so. That’s why I have found someone else. It is wrong, but this new guy really listens. He doesn’t treat me like I am his daughter. He makes me feel so beautiful. It is so wrong because I haven’t broken up with my boyfriend. I really don’t know how to do it without him getting mad. I take out my anger out on my boyfriend because I am not with the other guy. Don’t get me wrong, he is a good guy, but not for me. He doesn’t deserve the horrible things I say to him. My heart just isn’t in it anymore. Can you help me?
Sincerely,
Broken
Dear Broken,
Sometimes, people grow apart, but that doesn’t give you the right to treat your boyfriend horribly. If you don’t want him; tell him. It would be worst if he heard about the other guy from a stranger. You are better than that. I bet the poor guy doesn’t have a clue that you are feeling this way. You owe it to yourself to talk to him about your feelings and how you are not in the relationship anymore. You told me that he doesn’t listen. If you explain that you are ready to end the relationship, he will be all ears. He deserves respect from you. You know what I think? The other guy seems perfect because he doesn’t know you. He only knows the side that you show him. The grass may look greener on the other side because the sun is blinding you. Don’t open another door until the first door is closed. If you really want to save your relationship, I suggest counseling. I hope you take my advice.
Sincerely,
Ms. Sincere Jones
Inspirational Bible Verse: Prepare plans by consultation, and make war by wise guidance. Proverbs 20:18