Dear Ms. Sincere Jones
I have to keep my boyfriend. I think he is cheating on me. I know that I shouldn’t have yelled. I have said horrible things to him, but I can’t lose him. He knew that I didn’t mean it. I don’t know what I am going to do, if I lose him. I wish I didn’t deny him love and attention. I am a fool. He really did love me. Now, he won’t even put up the fight to argue. He just walks outside. He used to argue until sun up. He would profess his dying love to me. I guess I took advantage of his love. I guess I thought he would never leave. How could I be so stupid? I am kicking myself. He loves kids, and he has been trying to get me to have a baby for the longest time. Now, it is time to have a baby with him. I cannot lose him. Damn, I am so desperate. I will do anything. Do you know any doctors that can make me have a baby before he leaves me?
Sincerely,
The Last Straw
Dear The Last Straw,
I will not give you any advice on how to conceive a baby. That is out of the question. That is selfish to use another innocent human being to keep a man. That is a horrible idea. It was horrible to treat your man like that. I don’t know your man, but he has probably found someone else. His behavior has changed. I am not saying that he is cheating on you, but someone has told him that he is worth it. He is not trying to fight for you. It is a good indication that he is tired of your mess. All guys get tired of females treating them badly. You are no exception to the rule. For your sake, I hope I am completely wrong. I hope he is waiting on you to change your ways.
If you bring a baby into your mess, there is no guarantee that he will stay. If he is good man, he will take care of his child. He doesn’t have to be with you. You would be devastated, if he didn’t stay with you. Your baby would be a 24 hour reminder of him for the rest of your life. Talk to your boyfriend. Put it all on the line. If you love him, show him that you are going appreciate him in the relationship. I hope he will listen. I hope you are serious. I hope you can save your relationship. Keep me posted.
Sincerely,
Ms. Sincere Jones
Inspirational Bible Verse(s): Therefore, prepare your minds for action, keep sober in spirit, fix your hope completely on the grace to be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ. As obedient children, do not be conformed to the former lust which were yours in your ignorance, but like the Holy One who called you, be holy yourselves also in all your behavior, because it is written, YOU SHALL BE HOLY, FOR I AM HOLY. Peter 1:14-16