CONTENTS

Acknowledgments

Introduction: What My Father Taught Me

1.       A Time of Confusion and Uncertainty

2.       Red Flags: Ten Signs to Watch for in Your Parents

3.       Denial

4.       Parent-Child Role Transfer

5.       Redefining Sibling Roles

6.       Unfair Promises/Fair Promises

7.       “My Mother Doesn’t Have Alzheimer’s, But…”

8.       The Three Stages of Dementia

9.       Caregiver Burnout

10.       Three Ways to Enter Long-Term Care

11.       Levels of Long-Term Care

12.       Where Do You Start?

13.       A Walk Through Assisted Living

14.       A Walk Through a Nursing Home

15.       The Inquiry with the Facility Administrator

16.       More Things You Should Know About Before Admitting

17.       CPR: The Most Misunderstood Concept in Long-Term Care

18.       The First Twenty-Four Hours

19.       When and How to Visit

20.       “Take Me Home!”

21.       Who Is the CNA?

22.       Time to Think About the Final Journey

23.       Medicare, Medigap, Medicaid—Sorting Through the Maze

24.       Financial and Legal Affairs—Making Decisions

Epilogue

References

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